Well, we've got some progress. The inspector came out on Tuesday and faxed his report and photos to the shipping company that day. I didn't call on Wens or Thurs since that's when my husband takes his weekend and frankly I just needed the time to not think about it. I got the my copy of the inspector's report today and it actually looks quite good for us so I called the shipping company. They are going to settle, but they are trying to settle for less than the cost of the TV, claiming they can only pay $25 per pound.. But they said it weighs less than it does. So I'll get that straightened out with them. We also got a response from the seller after we updated him, and he told us once we got the reimbursement from the shipping company, that he will sell us another TV for the amount we get reimbursed!
I'll be a little more at ease when we've got that check in our hand, but I feel a bit better now