Jess, I'm sorry for the amount of inconvenience it caused you. NSFW tags for things even remotely racy next time then.
And like I said - I enjoy putting things in places they don't belong - or showing things to their complete opposite demographics. And in general just shaking things up abit.
I'm lucky enough that I currently work with a firm that is very artsy, liberal, open, and un-constrictive - as long as we show up to work on time, get our jobs done properly, and do them well - it doesn't matter what we watch on our machines. The bosses and pretty much everyone else don't really give a flying sh!t. Even facebook/personal stuff is fine at work as long as it doesn't interfere or take away time from our primary duties or the quality of our work; if we put 5 minutes into FB, those 5 minutes or more get put back into work again later.
My previous jobs have been pretty lax about what we view on the internet too. Again - the emphasis always was as long as work and quality of it isn't compromised; feel free to view what you'd like.
Quick note about the sex thing -
I knew the proper words for my anatomy, their functions, and quite a few aspects of adult sexuality by 5 - 6. My Dad moreso than my mom was quite laissez-faire about health/sexual education - I was never really "guided" into it by either of my parents, there was never a formal "talk". I was given access to books, internet, research materials, magazines, puberty videos etc and just allowed to explore, read, and learn. I'd like to say my attitude towards such matters today is one of good humor, knowledge, and a comfortable view =)
And like I said - I enjoy putting things in places they don't belong - or showing things to their complete opposite demographics. And in general just shaking things up abit.
I'm lucky enough that I currently work with a firm that is very artsy, liberal, open, and un-constrictive - as long as we show up to work on time, get our jobs done properly, and do them well - it doesn't matter what we watch on our machines. The bosses and pretty much everyone else don't really give a flying sh!t. Even facebook/personal stuff is fine at work as long as it doesn't interfere or take away time from our primary duties or the quality of our work; if we put 5 minutes into FB, those 5 minutes or more get put back into work again later.
My previous jobs have been pretty lax about what we view on the internet too. Again - the emphasis always was as long as work and quality of it isn't compromised; feel free to view what you'd like.
Quick note about the sex thing -
I knew the proper words for my anatomy, their functions, and quite a few aspects of adult sexuality by 5 - 6. My Dad moreso than my mom was quite laissez-faire about health/sexual education - I was never really "guided" into it by either of my parents, there was never a formal "talk". I was given access to books, internet, research materials, magazines, puberty videos etc and just allowed to explore, read, and learn. I'd like to say my attitude towards such matters today is one of good humor, knowledge, and a comfortable view =)