You guys were right, my roommates are IDIOTS!!

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Ok, in case any of you haven't read the post prior to this, I sometimes call home and try to get my roommates to real Easy, simple tasks to help me take care of my puppy. I really hate to leave him in his crate for 8 hours while I'm at work, so I sometimes ask them to let him out so he can stretch a little and get a chance to relieve himself.

Last time they did it, I came home to a matress soaked in pee, and my roommates reporting that he had attacked them. In reality, it was because they had a cat being carried around my roommates wife (who is only about 3 feet tall) in the same room as Pudges...but that whole story is in the Puppy Forum under "When Puppies Attack" if you haven't read it.

Anyways, last time I wasn't too upset because my mattress was an old piece of crap hand me down that I was about to get rid of...plus I figured they learned their lesson. I did come home a few times after that and found Pudge simply locked in my room and not in his crate, but he didn't pee on anything, so I politely reminded them he should be in his crate, or at least have access to another area that he can pee (like the tiled/cement area of my basement) or anywhere that doesn't result in my having to sleep in urine!

So today I asked them one favor with these simple instructions

A. Let him outside so he can pee and get a little excercise

B. Put him back in crate or just leave him outside.

This was approximately 2 hours before I got off work.

So I come home and what do I find? Pudge is loose in my room! His water bowl is completely full of water, is food dish is half-way full of water, there is water spilled on the floor AND my mattess and sheets soaked with pee and one raisin sized dung is rolling around in the Mix! WTH!!!

I don't understand what's wrong with these guys! I mean, I don't have much common sense myself, but anyone knows that when you drink a lot of water, your going to have to go pee! I've told them before that they can't leave Pudge locked in my room, since last time he peed on my mattress, but they still do it again.

Anyways, at this point I sorta lost it because my new mattress that I bought less than a week ago had already been soiled and my roommates should have known better. I went upstairs to give them a piece of my mind and they claimed they put him in the cage but "It must not have locked all the way"
C'mon guys, how hard is it to lock a dog crate? It's a simply sliding latch! Just leave him outside if it's that difficult to figure out!
Last but not least, I can't figure out how he got onto my bed. It's about 3 feet off the ground and it seems like it would be tough for him to climb up on..and if they put him in his crate, why was his food and water dish outside of the crate? I Know he didn't drag them out himself!..:confused:
So now I'm waiting for my mattress to dry after I washed it with Pet stain remover and some bleach water, hoping to remove the stains.

I feel sorry for Pudges cuz he was around when I kinda lost it and told my roommates off, and I think he was a little nervous because of my anger. So I'm going to play with him now and tell him it wasn't his fault..poor guy probably drank the human equivalent of a gallon of water in less than 2 hours:rolleyes:

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While I'm on a rant, I'll list some other things that my roommates have done that I don't approve of involving my puppy.

1. Let go of his leash so he could visit a Pitbull in a neighbor's yard. Fortunately the Pit bull was friendly and they became "friends" but the fact they just let go of the leash and let him walk up to a strange dog chained up in it's own territory is just not smart!

2. I ask them to let him out to pee on another occasion and told them feeding/walking was optional. I really stressed I just wanted him to have the chance to relieve himself. So what do they do? They just give him food because they ran out of time!! Like taking him out to pee takes that much longer..
 

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you shouldn't be asking any of this from your roommates, you should take care of your own dog. i'd be willing to bet money that they are doing all this on purpose to get you to quit asking them to take responsibility for your stuff.
 

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i'd be willing to bet money that they are doing all this on purpose to get you to quit asking them to take responsibility for your stuff.
I have to agree. You're asking REALLY basic stuff here.

Take dog outside.
Put dog back in crate

Simple, simple. Anyone who is able to function normally in other areas (they have jobs I assume? Pay bills? Etc.) should have no trouble figuring this out.

They only way you can be sure this doesn't happen again is to stop asking them to do it. This has happened multiple times now, it'll happen again and again untill you quite expecting them to help out.

I know dog walkers can be pricey, but honestly, I don't see another option unless you can somehow come home for lunch and let him out yourself.
 

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They do sound rather dim!
Maybe you should stop asking them to do that. Do you have family in the area that can help? I know that I don't let my room mate handle Lilly in any way when I am not around. She is a nice girl but useless does not even begin to describe her! LOL! So I do not trtust her with Lilly!
 

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I agree that they're doing it on purpose.

Isn't that a well known 'guy' trick? When a boy/man doesn't want to do any housework he does a really crappy job of anything he's asked to do so that his mother/wife never asks him to do that job again. lol

Cass.
 

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I agree that they're doing it on purpose.

Isn't that a well known 'guy' trick? When a boy/man doesn't want to do any housework he does a really crappy job of anything he's asked to do so that his mother/wife never asks him to do that job again. lol

Cass.
OMG~!~!~! who told you that~! you're not supposed to know that~!

:p
 

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Please forgive the question, but how old is the pup? Did you know that you would be working 8 hours and would be leaving him in the care of these "children"? before you got him? This should be the time you should be spending with him as much as possible. I know we all have to work, but I would be horrified knowing my baby was being left with these people.

And I'm sure you love and adore him, and are doing your best to see to his needs. This situation isn't ideal though. Is there a good friend, or family member that you can take the pup too whilst you're working? At least you know he would be looked after, and be able to be let out to pee, and to be supervised.

The very best of luck with pup :)
 
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I agree with everyone else.

If you knew you were working 8hrs a day.. why did you get a puppy?

You need to start taking care of your own dog.. dont expect people to take care of it for you, because they obviously wont and in your case.. they dont.
 
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LMAO Cass!!!! You are so right. If my husband doesn't like a "chore" he purposely messes it up, so that I won't ask him to do it again. Too funny! :D

I agree, that maybe try and get some family to stop in and check on the puppy. I would probably rather leave the dog in the crate for 8 hours rather than let these roommates near him. If they are dumb enough to let your dog go near another dog that is chained and not know if that dog is a nice dog or not????? I definetly wouldn't want them to have anything further to do with the puppy.
 

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he has explained the situation with his puppy many times in previous threads. perhaps you should check out some of his old threads to get an idea of what is going on and why he has the puppy.

I also think they are being stupid on purpose. at least I hope they aren't just that dumb. I don't see why they couldn't be adults and just say no instead of being morons about it.

don't worry man. Everyone works. Don't pay any attention to the "well did you know you had to work" crap. i don't know why every thread has to turn out like this. Very disappointing and a very bad example of this board if you ask me.

I can't remember exactly how old your pup would be by now but I had to leave Teddy in his crate while I worked 8 hours a day. i couldn't leave him out because he destroyed things and could have ended up seriously hurt (I found broken glass once luckily no cuts) but he was almost a year old when I had to start working again. perhaps if you have a friend or a neighbour that you are close with maybe they could let him out for a quick pee. OR maybe offer your roomates a little cash for doing these things. maybe once they get something out of it they won't be idiots.

I hope it works out for you.
 

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How about getting a large crate or pen area in which you can put the crate with door open ?
 

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Yeah I worked full time when I got Boone as an 8 week old pup. It's just something you have to deal with until the dog is older. 1+ years old until it can be trusted out in the house alone.
Anyways, stop asking the roomies for help they are clearly morons!
Ask a friend, family, or find a dog walking service. They are pretty cheap usually 20 bucks an hour or so. Just have them come and let the dog out, should take 20 mins, so really it may only be 5-10 bucks a day.
Good luck!
 
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I doubt ANYONE is quite that stupid . . . I think you've just got a pair of grossly selfish screw-ups for roomies . . .

Sounds like you and Pudge are on your own as far as taking care of him goes . . . You might try teaching him to use paper if he has to go while you're gone and leaving him with a finite amount of water so as not to overtax his bladder.
 

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I agree that they're doing it on purpose! What a$$e$! :mad:

I dont' think you did anything wrong by asking them to help you out at all! Many people here have even suggested to others that if you can't be at home all the time to see if you can get someone to let your pup out once or twice until you can get home.. I don't think you're being irresponsible at all! People have to work.. geez.. :rolleyes:

Anyway.. in my mind if they were decent people and didn't want to do it anymore they could just freaking tell you.. not be a$$e$ about it like that!

Do you know anyone else that could maybe help you out who are more responsible? Or are you able to get a break from wok long enough to let the pup out yourself? Or like someone else suggested, maybe a professional if you can afford it..

Good luck to you..! If I were in your shoes and could possibly do it I'd be moving my butt outta there as soon as possible! ;)
 
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I agree that they're doing it on purpose! What a$$e$! :mad:

I dont' think you did anything wrong by asking them to help you out at all! Many people here have even suggested to others that if you can't be at home all the time to see if you can get someone to let your pup out once or twice until you can get home.. I don't think you're being irresponsible at all! People have to work.. geez.. :rolleyes:

Anyway.. in my mind if they were decent people and didn't want to do it anymore they could just freaking tell you.. not be a$$e$ about it like that!

Do you know anyone else that could maybe help you out who are more responsible? Or are you able to get a break from wok long enough to let the pup out yourself? Or like someone else suggested, maybe a professional if you can afford it..

Good luck to you..! If I were in your shoes and could possibly do it I'd be moving my butt outta there as soon as possible! ;)
I agree, it wouldn't seem like 5-10 min out of someone's day is that much to ask! Especially since they're renting from me (I own the house and live there so at this time moving out is not an option) AND they're about 3 1/2 months behind on rent. When you owe someone 3 months worth of rent (plus I've given them gas money and taken them places in my vehicle, since their's has problems) you would think the least you could do is take their dog outside for 5-10 min.

Anyways, I called some of my family members today. They sound a bit reluctant but they might be able to stop by and do something. Another option I could do would be to finish the 6 ft privacy fence that I almost have completed (just didn't want to pay for that right now, with somewhat limited income) and make sure my yard is puppy-proofed. Another person suggested I tie a cable from my house to the garage/tree that's at the far end in my backyard and give him a trolley cable to run along so even though he would be tied up for 8 hour a day, at least he could run and have a place to relieve himself.

Also, for all of those who are wondering why I got a dog when I work 8 hours a day, well there are a couple of reasons. First, it was probably a bad idea and I was uneducated at the time. I knew some basic stuff about dogs, but I probably should have done more research before I got him. I was a bit reluctant at first, and thought about the fact that I would be working 8 hours but everyone was saying "Ahh, C'mon Barnabas, lots of people have dogs and work 8 hours a day!" and he was extremely adorable, free and my favorite breed(s), so with my family telling me I could do it, a cute puppy in my arms, and me having always wanted a dog, I decided I would just give it a shot...at least for a week.

Now, I'm thinking I should find a better home for him since I'll be doing about 20-30 hours of work for my online education as well as working 40 hours, even though my family and a lot of friends still think I should keep him and sound like they're going to be dissappointed if I give him away!
 

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Not to be rude, but why are you letting people live with you that are so behind on rent? I don't know your situation, but they sound like total moochers with no care for you or your home in my opinion.. so how could they possibly care about doing you a favor and helping out with your dog? I say ditch the slacker roomies, find some better renters and then you'll be able to afford a dog walker and your pup will get the attention it deserves! Good luck! :)
 

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They're renting from you?? WOW! I'd kick their butts out if I were you! :p

And I can't believe working 8 hours a day means you shouldn't get a pup!? Seriously! People need to work.. Sure it'd be better if someone was there all the time.. but cmon! To me that's not being very realistic.
Sure you should have something worked out before you get the pup so it isn't alone all day.. but not everything works out like it's supposed to..
I just really don't see working as being a reason to not get a dog.. maybe if you work 13 hours a day... but 8 hours is pretty normal.. if you aren't working then you wouldn't have the money for a dog.. and if you're working you're screwed simply cause you're working?
I think this just irritates me so much because before I got Tiki I tried for a dog at another shelter.. they turned me down right away because I worked 8 hours a day.. didn't even question me as to whether or not I could work something out.. nothing! I know they want the best for their dogs.. and I would have done the very best for him.. no questions! But not even a consideration simply because I work.. however I'm sure if I wasn't working they'd turn me down as well cause I wouldn't have the funds.. so.. I dunno.. I'm rambling.. :p I think I've made my point..
 

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Honey, keep your dog - LOSE the roomies! Your dog is bringing you joy and they're just being a royal pain in the proverbial a**. I am sure you could find someone who will at least pay their rent AND enjoy having a pup to play with. Failing that, I think the suggestion of using a large pen and the crate is a great one. At least it will keep the morons away from your pup.

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