WTF. (advice?)

[Amber]

So there's this guy that I've been talking to on and off this summer. When we first started talking/texting/whatever, we communicated every hour that we were awake for almost two weeks straight. We talked about everything under the sun, even some personal stuff, and, I thought, we were really hitting it off. We talked about hanging out but never really put together anything. The talking kind of fizzled off to maybe once a week, and until this weekend, we hadn't talked in two weeks. (Which KILLS me, because I've actually been really into him for longer than I've been talking to him, and never thought I'd have the chance to even talk to him)

Our conversation two weeks ago was really short, because he never responded after a few texts back and forth. I didn't send a text that was hard to respond to or anything, like "OK"; I think I had even asked a question. He just never responded.

On Friday, he talks to me on FB and just says "So we never actually hung out.." So I text him later and ask when he was thinking of getting together. He asks when I'm free. I tell him that I could hang out pretty much whenever, and I suggest somewhere we could go. And he never responded.

Umm. What did I do wrong? I mean, I'm just taking this as a strong hint that he's not interested, and as hard as that will be for me, I'd rather just know that instead of embarrassing myself by falling for him.

What do you guys think is going on/I can do/I should've done...? I'm starting school in a couple of weeks and he'll be there..but IDK what to do from here...

ETA:
I hate high school.

And teenage guys.

-.-

 

[Beanie]

Ball's in his court. Leave it. You've been pretty clear that you would like to hang out with him and even suggested a place to go. It's his turn.
If he doesn't take the initiative, a) yes, he's just not that into you (or he's simply lazy, and nobody likes Mr. Lazy) and b) you're better off to be rid of him now rather than waste any more time and emotion on him. I don't think you did anything wrong nor could you have done something differently, so save yourself the torture of going back over everything you said and wondering what it was that was wrong. Sometimes guys are just jerks for no reason other than they are boys who have yet to learn how to be men.
((((HUGS)))) and don't worry about seeing him at school. Just be cool and be yourself and let him do whatever. It's not your fault or, really, your problem.

 

[CharlieDog]

Exactly what Beanie said.

And (((HUGS)))

 

[Pops2]

from a guys point of view, for all girls really
teenage boys are stupid, and they don't generally get smarter or grow up until sometime in their late 20s.the important point about the exceptions is that they are exceptions and you don't have to do anything to make them that way. if he wants to be with you the door is open. if he doesn't want to be grown about it forget him. you can do better. life is too short to waste on worrisome relationships with a bunch of drama. hold out for a guy that puts you first. period.
one of the nice things about being happily married and the father of a daughters, i can & will totally dime out guys for what they really are.

 

[Amber]

Thanks guys. I guess I've just been hoping that I'll find the "exception". I guess I'll look somewhere else, or just wait it out..

 

[puppydog]

Nah, start dating someone else. Don't wait for this looser!

 

[yoko]

I'd just forget about him. Even if he started showing interest you've already found out how much work a hang out is taking.

If it were me I'd already be out because if the initial hang out was that big of a hassle I don't know if I'd want to work that hard to be in a relationship when I would have to be the one planning to hang out or see and talk to each other.

Your in high school don't stay fixated on a guy who isn't into you when there are probably others who are and who are willing to be the exception for you

 

[Dizzy]

Agree, boys are stupid!!!!! Move on, find someone who is excited to spend time with you and to meet up!!!