While being the mature thing to do, I can't imagine what kind of responses he actually intended on gleaming from writing something so narcissistic and self centered. It's all about what HE wants and some poor schmucky woman might actually buy into it.
Luckily he makes it so unrealistic that I don't think any woman would come close to fitting the description, and thus no broken hearts.
The ironic thing is...the type of woman he seeks, educated, highly intelligent, brave, with healthy skepticism....is the EXACT type of woman who would read what he's written, label him narcissist (or a nutcase) and move on.
What he's actually "attracting" with that manifesto is the exact opposite woman; meek, insecure, unsure, seeking validation, etc.
I have two guesses about the origins of his list of required traits. One, it's everything his ex-wife wasn't (wanting to go to the opera, meditate 2 hours a day, disliking pets), or two, he's basically just describing himself in female form. He wants to meet and marry his female doppleganger, but much more attractive.