Well, we had it out on a large scale, we are talking literally screaming at each other. Now we feel a whole bunch better!
It was a huge tension build up about money worries, tension over various other issues now. He apologized profusely to me about it after he found out that his sister had tried to set it up. He has basically removed himself from certain members of his family for two years now because he (completely unprompted by me) made a decision that WE were more important then her.
I am very proud at how far he has come.
Oh and the airshow SUCKED but the wedding was an absolute blast!