I have not even picked up my bible since early September. A friend asked me to read a verse.. so, I opened the old thing up.
I had it open to the page just sitting here for the longest time.. I looked down near the bottom of the page and the word "wisdom" jumped out at me. I read, and.. coincidentally enough, this is what it said:
"Words of the wise, spoken quietly, should be heard
Rather than the shout of a ruler of fools.
Wisdom is better than weapons of war;
But one sinner destroys much good."
And no, this is not meant to offend any non believers in anyway. Before you get offended that I quoted the bible, hear me out.
So, all you christians out there.. the bible DOES say to preach onto all nations. God wants His word to be heard, but in his very own book, t his is what He had to say. He wants people to know about Him, but he doesn't want you to shove it down their throats. And if you get alot of hateful comments, get alot of people that call you things such as a "bible thumper", take a look. Are you? Do you preach God's word in the way GOD wants you to?
I've been told and heard Christians say that you will be hated merely for your faith.
I don't believe it. There are people that will generalize and the second they know you are a christian may not respect you, but I have faith that the majority of people are not like that.
I don't think it is our faith that many people hate. They may hold the opinion that our faith is stupid, but I don't think that is what makes certain people hate Christians. I believe it is the closed mindedness, judgementalness, preachiness, hypocrosy and the holier than thou attitude that can come along with Christianity.
And honestly, I feel that many Christians use the excuse that "we'll be hated for our faith" to not learn, grow and change. They fool themselves into believing that they are in the right, and others don't have valid reasoning to not like the way they act. As long as they point the finger in a different direction, they don't have to realize and admit that they are not perfect and that even they have qualities about them that could use some changing.
I'm not trying to say that we as Christians cannot hold the opinions and beliefs that we do. I'm not even saying we don't have the right to talk about our God to others. But what I am saying is that we do not have the right to shove those opinions and beliefs down others' throats. You can be proud of who you are, what you believe and the choices that you make without becoming cocky and condescending.
And, no, I'm not trying to sound preachy or uppity right now.. I do realize that I am guilty of so many of the things I have pointed out in just the two posts I have made here on this thread. But, in my defense, I can honestly say that I am trying to work on it, and change me for the better. It is my goal to someday be a wonderful wrinkly old woman that loves herself, loves the world, and even perhaps a very small chunk of the world to love me.