Why I Say No To Dog Parks As A Pit Mix Owner

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So i have to vent now. Please pardon me...

I have a problem with people who think that just because their pit bulls are dog friendly as puppies then that means they will be friendly as adults. I have a problem with people who think that environment will *always* hold sway over genetics. In other words, "I'm gonna take my pit bull to the dog park and let him run around until he displays aggression! Yeah!"

Basically I have a problem with the people who refuse to see their dogs for what they (potentially) ARE vs this idealistic view that if they socialize the crap out of them, then they will never be dog aggressive, regardless if they come from fighting lines or not. (I especially love the people who have fighting lines dogs who have this mentality.)

These are the same people who by being idealistic vs practical and responsible end up giving pit bulls a bad name because they take their dogs to the dog park, or they leave their bitches alone with other dominant bitches, or they refuse to recognize that dogs are a lot like people -- not all of them like other dogs.

They don't have the common sense to learn dog language to know that a wagging tail = excited dog, not necessarily a happy dog.

Excited dogs can be happy to see their humans and their fellow dogs, but excited dogs can also be dogs that are getting ready to roll a fight out on another dog. There are some pit bulls who when excited often do not growl before getting into a fight, instead they get tense, they drop their heads and they wag their tails.

The mentality seems to be "Oh he's just playing!" Meanwhile their pit bull is actively stalking another smaller dog across the park, neck hair ruffed up, head lowered, tail wagging away, eyes very very intent. That is not play.

Every pit bull rescue organization out there recommends that you do not socialize pit bulls at dog parks. Why? Because pit bulls have been bred for over two hundred years to be dog aggressive. Two years of socialization, doesn't mean you can erase two hundred years of genetics. Pit bulls can go dog aggro anywhere from 10 months to 5 years of age.

It can seem like it happens over night... Petey is fine with dogs, fine with dogs, fine with dogs, then the switch is flipped - maybe over a minor scuffle regarding a toy, maybe over nothing - and Petey becomes dog aggro.

I am not saying people shouldn't socialize their pit bulls with other dogs. Socializing DOES help, but socializing is NOT part of the hardware: socialization is more software, than hardware. Socializing can be completely undone by one bad experience - if a dog gets attacked by one breed of dog, that dog can be scared for the rest of his life by any dog that looks like the dog that attacked him.

However, genetics is hardware because it's buried in every cell of the dog's body. Genetics is what gives the pit bull it's looks, it's fur, the color of it's nose, it's temperment, it's ability to withstand pain, and the stubbornness to finish what it starts. Genetics is what makes a pit bull a pit bull... And until it becomes standard practice across the board to breed dog friendliness into all pit bulls, there will still be the predispostion for a pit bull to be dog aggressive.

For example: My own dog Mojo, is a breed mix of pit bull and something(s) else. He is 4 years old, and apparently dog friendly - save for german shepherds (and mixes there of). He is good natured with humans, has a very high pain tolerance (he runs into walls and bounces off like a ball), is stubborn about certain aspects of his life (thus why I haven't been able to leash train him much yet), and will see things to a finish - whether it's protecting me from dogs attacking (yes this has happened), comforting me until I laugh, or getting me up in the mornings for work.

What Mojo starts in Mojo's world, Mojo finishes.

Mojo is a representative of the pit bull breed simply because of the structure of his face and the color of his nose (red). He may be dog friendly (mostly) but I know that in order to safe guard that friendliness I cannot set him up for failure. Thus he's not allowed to meet dogs who are off leash. We do not go to dog parks (anymore). The only dogs he plays with are dogs that I have watched him interact with and am comfortable that he will respect them (mostly females).

His being a representative of the pit bull breed is another reason getting him back into formal obedience training is so important to me. By being a representative he has to be on his best behavior in public - four on the floor, no nipping, and eyes on me please. When people see a well behaved pit bull they sit up and notice - even when they are deathly afraid of them - they still notice and maybe they think to themselves... "May Pits aren't so bad after all."

This cannot happen in the chaotic messes of dog parks.

Dog parks look GREAT on paper - a fenced in, off leash area where urban dogs can run around and socialize with each other. Doesn't that sound just GREAT?! What a great idea!

The reality is often times much more different.

I have been to several dog parks. Of all the times I've been I have seen the same things happen -
*dogs who do not obey their owners - particularily dogs who do not come when called.
*owners who are drinking their coffees on the other side of the park of their dogs not knowing what the bloody heck their dogs are doing,
*dogs who often times are so confused about their status in life that they bully everyone else,
*dogs who are intact/in heat.. etc.

The problems are endless.

Dog fights happen often when you mix those things together. Most dog owners do not know how to handle dog fights - they do not know the least idea of how to break up a serious dog fight. They ESPECIALLY do not know how to get a pit bull to stop fighting as pit bulls do not fight the same way that most other dog breeds fight.

Pit bulls generally do not spend their time getting in a flurry of rapid bites that cover a wide area of the body. That is how other dogs fight - which is why you should NEVER have your hands near those dogs heads because you will get bit. This is how when a child gets bit by a dog (non-pit bull) they have multiple lacerations over a big area of their body.

Pit bulls on the other hand generally try to get to the face, or the throat and they latch on. Why? Because long, long ago before they became popular as combatants, pit bulls were used to grab and kill bulls for the butchers. They would generally attempt to grab the bull by the throat or the nose and hang on in order to slowly suffocate the bull to death by crushing the nasal passages or the esophagus. (Cheetahs do much the same move on their prey when they are hunting.)

In order to break up a fight involving a pit bull, you need a breaking stick. A breaking stick is a small pole that has been cut down to a wedge shape at one end. And what you do with it is you slide it in behind the back molars of a pit bull's mouth (there's a gap) and twist the stick in order to pry the dog's mouth open and off the other dog. You then grab the pit bull by the nape or the back legs and pull him away from the other dog. (it's best to tie the other dog to something sturdy so it doesn't try to retaliate)

How many novice dog owners do you think would know that?

On the other hand, how many experienced, responsible pit bull owners do you think go to dog parks? Not many. You will see a lot of young pit bull puppies in dog parks, but once a dog lets his true adult feelings be known about other dogs, and an owner goes through their first dog park dog fight...? Most likely they won't go back for a second helping.

I am one of those people who thought she could take her dog friendly pit mix to the dog park. I didn't learn a harsh lesson - there was no torn ears, or vet bills - but I did learn the lesson to not take my adult pit mix to the dog park after the second visit. I also learned to listen to what more experienced people IN the breed had to say about things like true pit bull/dog aggression, how to manage dog aggressive households, and how to properly and safely socialize pit bull type dogs.

I wish more people would take heed of those lessons, those words, those common sense responsible actions of their fellow pit bull owners. Pit Bull rescues and responsible pit bull owners say NO to dog parks for a very good reason - every dog fight or attack by a pit bull lends more fuel to the very public fire of us losing our dogs totally and completely.

It is possible to make the American Pit Bull Terrier illegal to own. It has happened in the UK, it has happened in Germany, it has happened in more than one country - that to own that breed makes you a criminal outside of your society's laws.

I do not want that to happen here.

I love Mojo too much.
I love pit bulls in general too much.

And that's why I say no to dog parks.









(I just wrote this off the top of my brain - with the only stop to look at a dog site was to get the PBRC break stick page. I guess all of that research i did and continue to do pays off sometimes. Eitehr that or I am a total and absolute freak of nature.)
 

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I used to take my last dog, Odin, to a dog park. But I don't take Zeus. The whole problem with dog parks is that some people think that every dog loves a dog park. And that if you can't take your dog to a dog park, there's something wrong with your dog. Not true.

Odin loved all dogs, so I had no problem taking him. Until the time he got attacked by a rat terrier. The little demon drew blood. I just thank God that Odin didn't bite back. When I confronted the lady who owned the terrier, she said "Well, what was your dog doing near my dog?" In an off-leash dog park? Who saw that coming? *sarcasm*

I will not take Zeus to a dog park. He has a bit of a dominant streak in him when it comes to other dogs, and does not always get along with other males. Especially if they're about his size.
 

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The whole problem with dog parks is that some people think that every dog loves a dog park. And that if you can't take your dog to a dog park, there's something wrong with your dog. Not true..
This is very true - good point.

I was told up front by several people when I first got Mojo - "If you are planning on going to the dog park with your dog, then you got hte wrong breed of dog." and "Understand the true nature of the breed... it's the biggest favor you can do for your dog. Understanding what makes a pit bull a pit bull - the good and the bad - is an even bigger thing than loving and caring for one."

I thought Mojo would be different. He is... but he's not.

Last week we went to a local pet store for socialization, Mojo had a blast meeting all kinds of dogs - golden retrievers, a wheaten coated terrier mix, a lhasa, and a pit bull puppy. He was in the middle of wiggling, whimpering, and play bowing to the wheaten coated terrier, when a GSD mix walked into the store... As soon as Mojo saw the GSD mix he went ballistic, his hair went on end at his neck and the base of his tail, and he started out right snarling. Moments before he was his "normal" dog friendly self, and now I had this jumping "snarky" dog in place of the Mojo I am more used to.

If this had happened at a dog park - I have no doubt my dog would have attacked that GSD. But fortunately for us, it was not, Mojo was on leash (good strong horse leash at that), and I was able to move him out of the area.

For some reason I do not know, Mojo hates GSDs and GSD mixes. He loves every other dog breed, but he despises them. *shrugs*

I don't see the fact that my dog is not able to go to a dog park as a fault. I see it as just the way life is - I'd rather have a people friendly - dog aggressive dog than a dog friendly one - people aggressive one.
 

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Not trying to make light of the situation but I guess mojo wouldn't like my little Chloe :( I dont think I will go to a dog park either, Chloe has issues with yellow dogs just like mojo has with GSD's and GSD mixes. Every time we go in petsmart and there is one walking by her she snaps at them.
 

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Not trying to make light of the situation but I guess mojo wouldn't like my little Chloe :( I dont think I will go to a dog park either, Chloe has issues with yellow dogs just like mojo has with GSD's and GSD mixes. Every time we go in petsmart and there is one walking by her she snaps at them.
If Chloe is a gsd mix, I probably wouldn't take the chance until I can start some constant intense desensitizing retraining with a trainer who knows how to work on this problem.

But irregardless of how Mojo would feel about her, I would most likely adore her. I owned a GSD mix about 11 years ago - he was one of the best dogs I ever owned (Mojo's the other). I still have a soft spot for them. :D
 

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Yeah they are, my first gsd mix was my dog Timber and she was my heart dog I loved her and miss her. But I guess dogs have their preferences on who they like and who they dont like just like us.
 

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I guess I am one of the "crazy" Pit Bull owners that thinks he can socialize a dog to be trustworthy with other dogs at the park.

I have taken 'Athena to dog parks for 9 years and never had a problem. She growled once at a horny GSD that tried to mount her...but what "good girl" hasn't ( lol ). I would trust Athena at any dog park and yes she was a puppy of a pregnant dog seized at dog fighting operation. So Athena is from fight bloodlines. If she hasn't displayed dog aggression by now I doubt she ever will.

Saladin only goes to the dog park early in the morning when I meet some buddies of mine to let our dogs play (one of which is a APBT male). The reason I don't take Saladin to the dog park during regular times anymore is not because he is aggressive but rather because he is very obnoxious with everydog he meets. He treats every dog he meets as his best friend and will play very roughly. Because of that he has been attack a couple of times.

In agreement with you though, I would suggest the owner of a Pit Bull needs to be very very in tune with their dog. Socialization is a big help but you still need to know you dog better than most people.

If you don't think Pit Bulls can't be with large numbers of other dogs please watch the Dog Whisper he has 37 dogs that live together in a Pack and many of them are Pit Bulls that have been rescued from dubious homes.

Also go to a dog show and you will see lots of intact males around each other and other dogs. Granted this is not as chaotic as a dog park but still an example.

The biggest thing a Pit Bull owner has to worry about at a dog park is what with the other dogs do because many Pit Bulls will defend themselves intensely. And no matter who starts the fight the Pit Bull will always get the blame.

So in short I agree with your warnings and call for caution but please don't say all because the right owners and right dogs can do anything regardless of genetics.
 

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mojozen i think that was a great post and in my mind very true. Your obviously a responsible owner who cares about your pet and awknowledges the temperment. I know that their are always individulas who break the mold. The husky that always comes back when it's owner calls, or the pit bull that loves every dog. But the reason these are so special is beacuase they are so rare. People need to awknowledge both their dogs genetics and individual personality and then act responsibly. Maybe a husky or a sighthound recalls perfectly every time but it just takes once and that dog could be lost. In pitbulls it's even worse because one freak incident even if the pitt wasn't the antagonist and the pitts going to get blamed.
 

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Also go to a dog show and you will see lots of intact males around each other and other dogs. Granted this is not as chaotic as a dog park but still an example.
I don't think this is a very good comparison, because i HAVE been to dog shows including the big one in Chicago (in February at the McCormick place). At a dog show you have dogs that are constantly in control of their handlers - they are either on lead, in crates or in exercise pens. They are not roaming freely through the venue interacting with each other. They are either with their handlers or maybe with a cage buddy. Far as I have been able to tell in my 5 years of going to dog shows, the dogs are animals who have been trained from day one, and who are under control at all times.

The dog park in Madison (where i live) the dogs there are often times not even udner control OUTSIDE Of the park, much less in it. It's pretty much a free for all and when it's busy it's a chaotic mess.

I also acknowledge that there are exceptions to everything. I also acknowledge i am paranoid about Mojo's safety - I'd rather not even risk a fight occuring, thus why I hold the opinions that I do. Mojo is socialized on leash as often as I can get him out, maybe with not as many dogs as he could meet at a dog park - but with enough to keep him friendly.

I think it'd be far more wise to caution new pit owners that they should seriously weigh not socializing their dogs at a dog park, before jumping in head first. Everyone has to find their own happy medium, but I don't believe dog parks and pit bulls (and other bully breeds) is a good mix the MAJORITY of the time.

(primarily because the least obedient dogs seem to frequent dog parks - again there are exceptions to this opinion).
 

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My personal opinion is never to take a pit or pit mix to a dog park. Just my opinion, Im not bashing you if you happen to do this.

I just feal that although the pit may not startthe fight they will finish it, and in our society, because its a pit you will be blamed for the whole thing. Personaly I dont want to take the chance.

99% of dogs, if they are bit by another dog will bite back. I dont mean play bites, I mean drawing blood bites.
 

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Well done, and very well said post.

I agree with all of you.

I guess my point of view, is that dog parks have more downsides than upsides if you know what I mean. I am not a fan of dog parks really, accept the one near me, that is huge and spans over three parks and hardly ever has anyone there. Dogs are to be excluded if there are human activities going on, which is fair enough.

Firstly I don't like my dogs running with strange dogs that I don't know. My dogs are very friendly, but I can't guarantee that they will be that way with a strange loose dog. I would rather not take the chance, and I can't guarantee what a strange dog is going to be like. Also health and diseases is something I take very seriously, even though mine are all vaccinated and healthy.

My dogs have plenty of family and close friends dogs to play with so they don't miss out. I agree that some people believe ALL dogs should go to the park and run free with strange dogs. In my opinion that is total rubbish.

There are many dogs that have a zero recall as well. My Parent's Staffy X is one of them. So she can't be allowed off lead ever at a dog park. But does she miss out on her daily long walks? Never. Is she happy, secure, settled and well exercised? yes. Is she healthy? Absolutely.

It is not a must to take your dog to the park. It's nice yes, I don't argue with that at all. As long as they are getting regular excersise, out and about, experiencing smells, and sights, and of course spending this quality time with their humans, then they aren't suffering too bad. My dogs get 1 out of 4 walks at the park for an offleash run. Max can't handle much more than that due to his arthritis. But they get walked daily, even when they aren't going to the park. Hey believe me, it ain't always pits/pit mixes that are like this at the park. I've seen some truly feral dogs and owners too that have unruly, aggressive dogs, and they range from terriers to labs.

You stick to your guns, and you know what you and your pooch need and want out of excercise. It's your choice, and your dog isn't going to suffer if he doesn't get let off lead at the dog park.

I would consider you a totally RESPONSIBLE loving owner :)

Caz
 

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I dunno. there is one at my dogs daycare and he has never had never had a problem. The people there know about that stick thing you put in their mouth, but the dog has never had any issue, ever.. my dog a golden plays with him all the time.. hes a happy little dude.

there are also putbulls at my dog park all the time. I guess its freaky thinking they were fighting dogs but i don't think they are as unpredictible as some people think.

i guess its everyones personal choice.

I had one when i was younger and he never had any issues like that with other dogs.
 
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Dog parks look GREAT on paper - a fenced in, off leash area where urban dogs can run around and socialize with each other. Doesn't that sound just GREAT?! What a great idea! The reality is often times much more different.
I've never understood why people are so enthusiastic about dog parks. I've owned dogs for 25+ years, and I've gotten so I assume that other dog owners are stupid or malevolent until events prove otherwise. I've just had to beat free-roaming animals off my dog too many times, usually as the aggressor's owner strolls up, leash in hand, a look of wry amusement on their face. This goes, by the way, for everyone; surly teens with Rottweilers and pleasant businessmen with Goldens, mommies with Labs and retirees with MinPins.
 

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I agree that not all dogs like going to the dog park, and not all dogs have the proper temperment for the dog park. But we have had great experiences. My dog loves it.
 

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I agree with mojo on the whole dog park thing.

One thing that I don’t like is those irresponsible owners that don’t even know were their dog are and when they call the dog the dog just keep on running.
and another thing that I hate is that some owners don’t even watch the way other dogs are acting when they are in the dog park cuz when I did go to the park I prefer to go back home when I see other dogs fighting that to take the chances and like other people sed the pit my not start the fight but it will finish it and just because he is a pit us owners will be the one to blame.:(

Thank U for the post mojo probably now some irresponsible owner will read this and pay more attention to what they are doing. :mad:
 

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It depends on a dog alot.

A guy I know used to bring an beautiful adult long haired pit to dogpark at the same time when we were there. He was about 3 years old, my guy was 2 years old.

Both intact and extremely dominant, but because they both knew their place, they never had even a spark, just stayed at their side of the park never sniffing or interacting with each other. ;)

When both of us were in the park, it seems like there were 2 alpha dogs in one pack :) Amusing. I contribute no problems between our dogs to training, and nothing else.

Mind you, both dogs couldnt stand anything that tried to dominate them.
 

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It depends more on the handler than anything, IMO. Aggressive dogs are easily kept under control (yes, even off leash) by responsible handlers. I think i've mentioned before a friend with a Black Russian Terrier.. Mish is aggressive to other dogs (he gets along with my boy because Dakota is quite submissive to him) yet he and his owner go with me to a dogpark on occasion and although he is very dominant, he is well behaved because he is under his owner's control at all times.
As a general rule I'd prefer to not see Pit Bulls in dog parks, but there are some out there that are just fine. I've noticed that, in general, female Pit Bulls tend to get on better with other dogs than males do.
 
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I personaly think that pits should be banned from all dog parks. I got so sick and tired of pits lunging at my rottie mix. It was soo aggravating to see so many ignorant pit owners. The pits would charge at the other dogs, and the owners had to call them off and hold them back by their neck. Any dog that would come in 15 ft of the pit, were prey. This kind of thing happened all the time.

Luckily I didnt see a pit try to charge a dog that was twice his size. That would be a mistake!
 

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I personaly think that pits should be banned from all dog parks. I got so sick and tired of pits lunging at my rottie mix. It was soo aggravating to see so many ignorant pit owners. The pits would charge at the other dogs, and the owners had to call them off and hold them back by their neck. Any dog that would come in 15 ft of the pit, were prey. This kind of thing happened all the time.

Luckily I didnt see a pit try to charge a dog that was twice his size. That would be a mistake!

Seen nothing to that effect in local dog parks here.

All pits were pretty nice.
 

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I think location has something to do with it too.. Unfortunately where Rottiegirl and I live, responsible Pit Bull owners are few and far between.I'd guess that 90% of Pit owners here have them as a status symbol and nothing more.
 

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