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Okay, well, firstly I'm going to post the link to a video. It is me practically saying the exact same thing, just in video form so that you can see my face, my expressions.. my tone.. the whole big deal. So, if you can watch that.. I ask that you please do watch that instead of reading this. Well, you can read this too.. but I'd also like you to watch the video first if you can. But for those that can't, I'll also type it out here in this post.
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=-ECFIpD7RFQ
Okay.. so, just one small part in the reason why I haven't been very active is that I am now addicted to Youtube. I've been spending much of my free time on my computer that I used to spend on Chaz instead on Youtube, and making video blogs and things of the such.
And that is actually part of the reason why I made a video to say this. I have started enjoying making the videos.. though, I will say that I fear that I look and sound stupid all the time.. and all that.. but anyway.. I also made a video because people always say its hard to know exactly the person's tone, and all that. So, I was hoping when I address some of the other issues, that this would come out the right way and I wouldn't ruffle any feathers or anything.
Okay.. soo now on with what I mean to say....
Yes.. a large part of the reason I haven't been as active is because I just got sick of Chaz. I didn't feel that everyone always treated me very kindly. I think a small part of that still holds true,.. but I also know.. I'm also a person that I believe understands myself quite well, understands my reasoning for doing things. Well.. I've got issues. (No, not saying that for attention.. I'm sure many of you probably already know and think this anyway! ) I'm a people pleaser. It's actually more like an obsession.. I've been this way my whole life, and well.. lets not get into my life story. Life goes on.. so blah blah balh. Anywho.. because of that.. well.. I'm hard to deal with sometimes.. as I'm sure some of you already know. I can be defensive... and sensitive.. and ya.. all that stuff. There's just a certain way you have to deal with me if you want to be productive. But I cant' and don't expect people to understand that.. not everyone knows me personally.. not everyone knows some things.. people can't read my mind. So I'm not trying to put any blame on people.
I'm not going to bad talk anyone. I'm not going to name names. But I suspect a certain person will be reading this. And you know who you are.. and to you.. I'm honestly sorry. Well, I actually dont' know what else to say. I'm sorry for any times if I've treated you badly. But I just want and hope for you to realize.. that some of the things you've said haven't helped me..but were hurtful instead. I know you care, and I just want you to know that the way you were addressing me just weren't the way I needed to be treated to be helped.
But no hard feelings.. I understand that some people just have conflicts.
Well.. that's why I've been away.. probably why I'll stay away from the fire hydrant. I'm just going to try and stay out of trouble... not bother people anymore.
And.. I think that about wraps it up.
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=-ECFIpD7RFQ
Okay.. so, just one small part in the reason why I haven't been very active is that I am now addicted to Youtube. I've been spending much of my free time on my computer that I used to spend on Chaz instead on Youtube, and making video blogs and things of the such.
And that is actually part of the reason why I made a video to say this. I have started enjoying making the videos.. though, I will say that I fear that I look and sound stupid all the time.. and all that.. but anyway.. I also made a video because people always say its hard to know exactly the person's tone, and all that. So, I was hoping when I address some of the other issues, that this would come out the right way and I wouldn't ruffle any feathers or anything.
Okay.. soo now on with what I mean to say....
Yes.. a large part of the reason I haven't been as active is because I just got sick of Chaz. I didn't feel that everyone always treated me very kindly. I think a small part of that still holds true,.. but I also know.. I'm also a person that I believe understands myself quite well, understands my reasoning for doing things. Well.. I've got issues. (No, not saying that for attention.. I'm sure many of you probably already know and think this anyway! ) I'm a people pleaser. It's actually more like an obsession.. I've been this way my whole life, and well.. lets not get into my life story. Life goes on.. so blah blah balh. Anywho.. because of that.. well.. I'm hard to deal with sometimes.. as I'm sure some of you already know. I can be defensive... and sensitive.. and ya.. all that stuff. There's just a certain way you have to deal with me if you want to be productive. But I cant' and don't expect people to understand that.. not everyone knows me personally.. not everyone knows some things.. people can't read my mind. So I'm not trying to put any blame on people.
I'm not going to bad talk anyone. I'm not going to name names. But I suspect a certain person will be reading this. And you know who you are.. and to you.. I'm honestly sorry. Well, I actually dont' know what else to say. I'm sorry for any times if I've treated you badly. But I just want and hope for you to realize.. that some of the things you've said haven't helped me..but were hurtful instead. I know you care, and I just want you to know that the way you were addressing me just weren't the way I needed to be treated to be helped.
But no hard feelings.. I understand that some people just have conflicts.
Well.. that's why I've been away.. probably why I'll stay away from the fire hydrant. I'm just going to try and stay out of trouble... not bother people anymore.
And.. I think that about wraps it up.