why does he have to make me so mad
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Hope everything worked (no pun intended) out for you ok last night. I'm posting a bit late but I thought I would add my two cents. I can certainly relate to what is really bothering you here. Your craving attention and acknowledgement. And your right to start demanding it! lol My husband is a workaholic and we know their heart and efforts are in the right place, but they also need to lay back a bit and take care of 'other' business. Their like machines at times. Kind of reminds me of the Dunkin Doughnut guy (time to make the doughnuts!) My husband is on a weird shift for the past two months where he works at 3:00 am to 3:00 pm Thurs, Friday and Sat. and everyother Wed. He went in yesterday, or today actually (Wed) at 3:00 am and I basically won't see him or interact with him until Sunday. He'll be completely worthless to me LOL Just kidding He picks up side jobs. And he usually will stumble in about 5:00 pm., look for food, then its off to lounge in bed, watching tv until he falls asleep at 6:00 - 6:30; only to wake up around 2:00 am to begin again. The days he has off (3 or 4 days off depending on the week) he will use for his side jobs. He's siding his cousin's house right now because he thought we could use the money. And I admire him for that, but I do miss him and he's usually cranky to even spark up a conversation. I've always described him as "Well if he's sitting down, he's sleeping" He's always on the run doing something. And at times, I like that. If he's sitting here with me, he's a pain in the arse. Kind of like a little kid that you need to sit him on the floor with lego's or something to keep him occupied. It's just the way he is. Always have to be doing something! One of his new projects is building an ice rink out in the backyard for the kids. *Smirk* It keeps him busy LOL. Anyway, I'm rambling again. I think his heart is in the right place, as is yours, and I can relate at some level. Your not the only one out there.
Puckstop31 said:
Wait till payday... It will all be good then.
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wow, Julie...what does he do for a living that he even gets 30 hrs. a week overtime??? Dave used to work on weekends....then one day I said, for what??? it's more important to be together. actually, now I'm trying to get him to only work 4 days a week. life is too short, ya gotta have some fun. hope your little girl is feeling better!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
(tear up those credit cards...then there isn't a bill)
actually, now I'm trying to get him to only work 4 days a week. life is too short, ya gotta have some fun. hope your little girl is feeling better!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!(tear up those credit cards...then there isn't a bill)
avenlee said:
Hope everything worked (no pun intended) out for you ok last night.
Debi said:
wow, Julie...what does he do for a living that he even gets 30 hrs. a week overtime??? Dave used to work on weekends....then one day I said, for what??? it's more important to be together. actually, now I'm trying to get him to only work 4 days a week. life is too short, ya gotta have some fun. hope your little girl is feeling better!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
(tear up those credit cards...then there isn't a bill)
actually, now I'm trying to get him to only work 4 days a week. life is too short, ya gotta have some fun. hope your little girl is feeling better!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!(tear up those credit cards...then there isn't a bill)
