what's your favourite thing....

[Sunnypup]

I love that he is always there for me. I can be angry at him and him at me and still be laying my head on his lap while he plays with my hair as we hash out what is wrong. He's my best friend,my love...we still act like newlyweds, even though we've been married 4 years and 3 months (I know, not long but some people lose that "spark" after a few months) . He was there in sickness the first year we were married, and I developed a huge blood clot that moved to my lungs, when the doctor told him point blank I could have died. He sat in a hard hospital chair every day and just stared at me. He didn't need to talk, he was just there for me. Another time, he took off a day of work so we could take Hunter's body to the vet to be creamated. I was crying so hard I almost threw up and he just held me ,then gently wrapped up our dead pup and laid him in the jeep, and started to reminise about how much he loved the jeep and how this would be his last trip in it. This from the man that "didn't really care so much about dogs" . He's a hard worker, he loves me and our pets. He likes being silly, but can be serious when he needs to be. I love him so much, I have this HUGE smile on my face as I am typing this. Truely Blessed. Yup those two words about sum up my life with my husband.

 

[Zoom]

Man, where to start...

I love how he always says I look fantastic, even when I'm wearing a hat and a big t-shirt and jeans, he still tells me I'm the sexiest thing. I love how he tells me how jealous his friends are that he's dating me (I didn't have the best self-image before I met him). I love how he puts up with my mood swings and will hold me when I'm upset and listen to everything I have to say. He didn't think I was wierd for crying for three days when Meisha died.

When we first started dating I would come out to my car to find a rose or two threaded through my steering wheel, and even today I will come to work sometimes and find a vase of roses waiting for me. He knows exactly what he wants and has such a "rough and tumble" exterior that most people who don't know him think he can be a huge jerk, but he's so patient with me and the dogs and he's let me see him cry. He has no problem letting me be my spastic, hard-headed independent self, something I greatly treasure after a previous boyfriend. We never fight, but always find constructive ways to deal with our problems/issues and never have to eat our words or go to bed angry.

He can put into words what I'm feeling or thinking when I can't seem to do it right and gets so worried when I don't feel well and he doesn't know what to do. One night I was having really bad indegestion for some reason and he got up at 2am (he's so very NOT a night person), got dressed and drove to the gas station to get me some Rolaids so I could sleep. We're both on a pretty fixed budget these days, but a couple months ago he went to Wal-Mart and told me to pick out a couple new pillows so I would have a comfortable pillow for my head and one to put in between my knees for my hip when I came down for the weekends.

He gives me so much all around and puts up with so much from me...he's had reason to leave me more than once but instead he insisted that we work things out and stick it out and everyday I'm the happier for it. We've been together for five years and only just recently came out of the "honeymoon phase" that most people only have for the first four to six months, maybe a year, of their relationships.

 

[Denaluvscorgis]

Awww....such sweet stories.

 

[gapeach]

He can always make me laugh, no matter what. He still thinks I'm beautiful even though I've gained some wieght and have a big ugly c section scar. He holds me close when I'm upset. He used to hold me on his lap like a child (me facing him with my legs on either side) when I'd bawl every time I had my period because we were trying desperately to get pregnant. I love that he cried with me when we had to put my Smokey to sleep, even though they never really liked eachother.He still brings me flowers for no reason at all. He always listens to what I have to say. He knows when I will cry when I watch a sad movie, commercial etc without even looking at me. He works so very hard so I can stay home with our little girl. I especially loved that he cried at our wedding with me because we were both so very happy. I love him because he stands up for me tp the point of fist fighting. He would protect us against anything, I love that he's that protective. There's just not room enough for me to tell all the things I love about him!!