So... I have a bit of dilemma and I have no idea what to do.
My boyfriend and I broke up. We decided to be roommates, more for financial reasons than "Oh yeah, living with an ex will be so fun!" :rofl1: I feel like if I continue to live with him I might kill him. (We're getting better, but still, living with an ex is a horrible idea.)
We JUST moved into this apartment. We both like it but I decided that I would move out and find a roommate. We called the apartment office to see if I could do that. Apparently I can just sign a release form and be on my way. No penalty for me whatsoever. He has to live here for 6 months before he can get another roommate. However, if/when I sign the release form, they will evaluate him to see if he can afford the place on his own. If he can't, they kick him out. :yikes:
At first I was bummed about moving out. My relationship fell apart, I'm not at a good point in my life and... everything was just a downer. But I started to think positively about it and I got excited. A new adventure!
But then I feel awful because if I do decide to move out.... he might get kicked out and have to find another place to live. I'm really not sure what he wants to/can do. I know he doesn't want to move but he's iffy about getting a stranger for a roommate. (My father has offered both of us a place to stay, so he will not be homeless. )
What would you do? What do you see as options? Any advice you have is welcome.
(Oh and I totally get Gwen. Although Jess is heartbroken I will probably not get the ferrets.)
My boyfriend and I broke up. We decided to be roommates, more for financial reasons than "Oh yeah, living with an ex will be so fun!" :rofl1: I feel like if I continue to live with him I might kill him. (We're getting better, but still, living with an ex is a horrible idea.)
We JUST moved into this apartment. We both like it but I decided that I would move out and find a roommate. We called the apartment office to see if I could do that. Apparently I can just sign a release form and be on my way. No penalty for me whatsoever. He has to live here for 6 months before he can get another roommate. However, if/when I sign the release form, they will evaluate him to see if he can afford the place on his own. If he can't, they kick him out. :yikes:
At first I was bummed about moving out. My relationship fell apart, I'm not at a good point in my life and... everything was just a downer. But I started to think positively about it and I got excited. A new adventure!
But then I feel awful because if I do decide to move out.... he might get kicked out and have to find another place to live. I'm really not sure what he wants to/can do. I know he doesn't want to move but he's iffy about getting a stranger for a roommate. (My father has offered both of us a place to stay, so he will not be homeless. )
What would you do? What do you see as options? Any advice you have is welcome.
(Oh and I totally get Gwen. Although Jess is heartbroken I will probably not get the ferrets.)