Hi guys. I need some feedback...comments...suggestions..because I'm a little bit lost and hurt.
My boyfriend and I have been having some problems lately..which we are now working on..things are running smoothly for now...but during some of our arguments, I would turn to my good friend for advice, shoulder to cry on, etc...
I thought I could trust her...but I don't know if I still can. My boyfriend used to tell me never to get friends involved into a relationship, because it will never do any good...he was right!
Lately, my friend has been acting sort of strange. She has a boyfriend as well, but they are at their ends...she says she doesn't want to be with him anymore, wants to break up with him, yadda yadda.
She calls my boyfriend alot...her excuse was always that I never picked up my cell..which was true sometimes..but she could always call my house phone...so she always calls my boyfriend because she thinks I"m with him..but when I am there and she calls, she never asks for me or anything...its just kinda uncomfortable for me. My boyfriend doesn't think much of her...he thinks she's kinda weird..that's what he tells me anyways...
She also shows up at his house sometimes without warning...just CUZ...my boyfriend will call me and tell me to come over because she is coming to his house in half an hour...he told me he doesn't like it, but doesn't know how to tell her without being rude...so he calls me to show up before she does so that they aren't alone..but sometimes when I get there shes already over, watching TV or something...
So she went on a trip recently..came back...said she spoke with a psycic..she likes to go to psychics often...but anywho, she calls me today and tells me that she lied to me...last time I spoke with her she told me that the psycic could not read my picture (which I requested for her to do)...but today she calls me and tells me that she lied but didn't want to hurt my feelings...she goes on to say that she told my boyfriend everything and said that he swore to her not to tell me....it was so hurtful...
She goes on saying that my relationship with him will not work out because he will get so far into his career that he'll basically get bored of me...or so claims the psycic..and then she said that the psycic hated me from my picture - she said that I was cruel and mean hearted, and a jealous and evil person!!!!! Especially jealous of my friend!!!!!!!!
WHAT?! I swear I am the least jealous person - I will be the first to stick up for the underdog no matter what! UGH!
And all this time, she's claiming that's what the psycic is telling her...but when I asked her about what the psycic said about MY career, she said the psychic couldn't say any more because she was so disgusted by me as a person, that she refused to do a further reading...
??? Soooo confused!
So it was weird..and to top it all off, she said that she wouldn't have even come out and told me all of this unless she had the weird dream last night (which she never told me about anyways)....she ends the conversation off by telling me in a giggly voice not to be mad at my boyfriend that he didn't tell me - that they were all just trying to protect me from being hurt???
So I don't know about anything now..I'm having a difficult time trusting her...I have a suspicion that she actually likes my boyfriend...my mother doesn't like this girl and thinks the same thing..and my boyfriend's mother told me not to keep contact with her....
I don't know what to think, who to trust...I don't know if I should be angry with my boyfriend....I called him afterwards and we spoke about it...he told me that if I feel that way, than we should both lose friendship with her, because he doesn't give a crap about her and what she says..he told me not to believe her, and told me that when she called him about the psycic, he told her he didn't want to know what she said about me, and that I should be the first to hear it..so now it seems like my friend lied about that too...???
Any comments? I just needed to vent..this all came down so quickly..its very akward..I used to trust this girl so much and tell her alot of personal stuff that I have never told anyone else...not even some other close friends..so its very uncomfortable for me...almost scary that she would change like this? I don't know what her intentions are or what she is thinking?
My boyfriend and I have been having some problems lately..which we are now working on..things are running smoothly for now...but during some of our arguments, I would turn to my good friend for advice, shoulder to cry on, etc...
I thought I could trust her...but I don't know if I still can. My boyfriend used to tell me never to get friends involved into a relationship, because it will never do any good...he was right!
Lately, my friend has been acting sort of strange. She has a boyfriend as well, but they are at their ends...she says she doesn't want to be with him anymore, wants to break up with him, yadda yadda.
She calls my boyfriend alot...her excuse was always that I never picked up my cell..which was true sometimes..but she could always call my house phone...so she always calls my boyfriend because she thinks I"m with him..but when I am there and she calls, she never asks for me or anything...its just kinda uncomfortable for me. My boyfriend doesn't think much of her...he thinks she's kinda weird..that's what he tells me anyways...
She also shows up at his house sometimes without warning...just CUZ...my boyfriend will call me and tell me to come over because she is coming to his house in half an hour...he told me he doesn't like it, but doesn't know how to tell her without being rude...so he calls me to show up before she does so that they aren't alone..but sometimes when I get there shes already over, watching TV or something...
So she went on a trip recently..came back...said she spoke with a psycic..she likes to go to psychics often...but anywho, she calls me today and tells me that she lied to me...last time I spoke with her she told me that the psycic could not read my picture (which I requested for her to do)...but today she calls me and tells me that she lied but didn't want to hurt my feelings...she goes on to say that she told my boyfriend everything and said that he swore to her not to tell me....it was so hurtful...
She goes on saying that my relationship with him will not work out because he will get so far into his career that he'll basically get bored of me...or so claims the psycic..and then she said that the psycic hated me from my picture - she said that I was cruel and mean hearted, and a jealous and evil person!!!!! Especially jealous of my friend!!!!!!!!
WHAT?! I swear I am the least jealous person - I will be the first to stick up for the underdog no matter what! UGH!
And all this time, she's claiming that's what the psycic is telling her...but when I asked her about what the psycic said about MY career, she said the psychic couldn't say any more because she was so disgusted by me as a person, that she refused to do a further reading...
??? Soooo confused!
So it was weird..and to top it all off, she said that she wouldn't have even come out and told me all of this unless she had the weird dream last night (which she never told me about anyways)....she ends the conversation off by telling me in a giggly voice not to be mad at my boyfriend that he didn't tell me - that they were all just trying to protect me from being hurt???
So I don't know about anything now..I'm having a difficult time trusting her...I have a suspicion that she actually likes my boyfriend...my mother doesn't like this girl and thinks the same thing..and my boyfriend's mother told me not to keep contact with her....
I don't know what to think, who to trust...I don't know if I should be angry with my boyfriend....I called him afterwards and we spoke about it...he told me that if I feel that way, than we should both lose friendship with her, because he doesn't give a crap about her and what she says..he told me not to believe her, and told me that when she called him about the psycic, he told her he didn't want to know what she said about me, and that I should be the first to hear it..so now it seems like my friend lied about that too...???
Any comments? I just needed to vent..this all came down so quickly..its very akward..I used to trust this girl so much and tell her alot of personal stuff that I have never told anyone else...not even some other close friends..so its very uncomfortable for me...almost scary that she would change like this? I don't know what her intentions are or what she is thinking?