I can see why marriage means so much to so many people. I am one of those who doesnt care one way or another. If the man I love proposed to me and wanted to be married I would get married because it meant a lot to him. But I dont need it.
That being said I dont think someone should have to suck it up b ecause it means something to their partner. If I felt like I was sucking it up I would never agree to it.
That being said I dont think someone should have to suck it up b ecause it means something to their partner. If I felt like I was sucking it up I would never agree to it.
I wouldn't MAKE my partner marry me. I can understand that the two might not jive (one person wants to be married and the other doesn't want to be married) If marriage is really important to you then I suspect that person isn't the right person for you anyway so forcing them into a commitment they might not want is just as unfair to them.
Lesson for the dating community LOL... find out their stance on the important things BEFORE you get serious with them and then end up disappointed when they don't want the same thing.
I remember with my ex he was adament that he would NEVER propose to me... I HAD to propose to him if I wanted to get married I wasn't big on that. He would NEVER consider proposing to me? why not? I mean I'm not against asking the guy to marry you or anything like that but it was just the insistence that he would never ask me no matter what. But that was one of the smallest problems as far as he was concerned lol. Thank goodness I never felt inclined to get married to that fool.