What Training "Rules" Do You Break?

Bailey08

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There's a lot of conventional wisdom around here (not talking about Cesar Milan-esque dominance theories), and I'm interested in those you choose not to follow. :)

With my particular dogs, I'm not following conventional wisdom about resource guarding. I'm letting my dogs work it out themselves (under supervision).

By way of background, Bailey is 4 years old (medium sized mixed breed); I've had him his whole life, and know him probably better than I know myself. We've also been working with a trainer for over a year (even more intensively since Grace came home), and I trust her she knows B very well, too. Grace, the newbie, is 19 wk old (!) golden. I've decided to let them work out how they handle resources. The only thing they "guard" from each other are high value raw bones, and I always supervise closely when those are out. Basically, I let Bailey correct Grace when she gets too close, and if Bailey has lost interest and lets Grace "steal" something, I let them work that out, too. Neither shows any guarding behaviors with me.

I'm trying to let them work out their relationship generally on their own terms as much as possible. If Grace gets to be too annoying and can't settle down, she gets crated, but if Bailey seems to be okay, I let them work it out. (Probably goes without saying, but they're always supervised. But Grace is really almost always still supervised, lol.)

I understand that this is probably specific to my dogs, but would love to hear from others who do their own thing! I've been thinking about this a lot lately. Sometimes it's scary to go against conventional wisdom. :)
 

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Mmm... I can't think of any off the top of my head...

I don't care if my dogs wander ahead of me when walking... Does that count?
LOL, I'm so happy to have a loose leash that I don't care! ;)

Thankfully they can still differentiate when they actually need to heel. Well, Bailey can. Grace still forgets her brains a lot.
 

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I don't know if it's a training rule. But I let Yoshi beg when I eat. She doesn't jump or anything she just comes and stares at you or lays her head on your leg *she isn't a drooler*

When I first got her I was in no way financially stable enough to have gotten her. Luckily I worked at a restaurant that also had a grocery section with meat,dairy, cheese, bread and stuff like that. We'd get free meat the day before and day of expiration. So a lot of the time my food was her food and it turned into a habit I caused by splitting my meals with her.

She's learned that if I'm eating and not paying attention to her she'll go and lay down and watch me, she doesn't have to be up on me any more. But I know a lot of people don't even let their dogs stare at them while they eat.
 

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"End a game of tug if they touch you with their teeth"

I came up with about a dozen more, but they are really just variations on "Your dog will become dominant if..." rules. Bull.
 

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Jackson is a terrible beggar. But to be honest, it doesn't bother me so I've never done much to correct it. I'd never let him go and be all up in someone elses face, but with me? it doesn't bother me. He often will lay his head on my lap or my shoulder while begging lol. I know a lot of people hate this, but yeah, it's also really hard when he's lived his whole life with young children in the house who have always teased him with food and/or dropped food on the floor. It was just impossible to get him NOT to.

Ummm... what else?? I mean, I don't mind if he's ahead of me while walking, so long as he's not PULLING.

I also know flexi's are a no-no to a lot of people. We do use them sometimes. Not if are going to be in a heavily populated place, or any kind of store, or dog event, etc, but yes I do use them. He's perfectly mannered on one, and not pulling to the end of it, etc, etc, so yeah we use one often.
 

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I can't really think of anything off the top of my head. Some behaviors I don't mind. I'm not really overly concerned about "counter surfing"...they aren't horrible about it though. We know enough not to keep stuff in reach, and if it's left out it's fair game. Honestly it's fair game to a couple of the cats too. Skye steals food wrappers and stuff..meh. That might sound kind of bad but it just doesn't bother me that much.

I'm trying to let them work out their relationship generally on their own terms as much as possible. If Grace gets to be too annoying and can't settle down, she gets crated, but if Bailey seems to be okay, I let them work it out. (Probably goes without saying, but they're always supervised. But Grace is really almost always still supervised, lol.)
I kind of do this with 'my' three..Zoie, Romeo, and Skye. They are fine telling each other off without bloodshed, and are very clear and concise towards each other. Skye sometimes guards the bed though, and she gets kicked right off if she starts getting pissy.
 

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Hmmm. Playing tug at all, playing "bitey face", letting him go through doors before me, giving him lots of "real" food treats. Alot of the manners stuff I do because I like a dog to have manners. I have heard those are "no-no's" from different people. :)
 

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what are rules? LOL

Ummm I don't know, I pretty much do what seems right to me... So I don't do things because they're "the rules", I do them if they make sense to me. :)
 
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I play rough with all the dogs. Teeth are fine unless they're drawing blood.

I also am not a huge stickler about barking and I'm terrible at training them to be quiet. They'll bark for half an hour and the only thing I really do is yell at them to shut their faces before I turn them all into stew.
 

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- No babytalk.. I'ts bad. I am awful lol

- Not letting the dog go out the door before you.. all our dogs rush the front door on leash lol as long as I'm not being pulled off my feet I don't care.

- waiting until the dog is calm before greeting them. Screw that, I get just as OMGOMGOMGIMISSEDYOU as he does lol

- Never saying "No" or correcting. I really try. I really do but "NO!" hits my mouth before anything lol

- Keeping the perfect heel/walking position. Eh as long as I'm not being yanked, I'm good.

- No dogs sleeping on the bed. woops lol

- Not using the crate as a time-out place. Some days, they just know.. they are driving me nuts and I'm just like "CRATES!! NOW!!" and they sit there until I can look at them lol

- No giving treats just for being cute lol but dammit, he is so cute!

- Don't repeat the cue 1000 times especially if you can't enforce it. That's a bad one. I am that girl yelling "COME! COME HERE! COME! COME! COME! COME!" at the park lol woops.

- Use flat buckle collars. Our dogs don't wear collars usually. Harnesses forevaa.

- Train a release word so they know they can run around when released off lead. It's such a good idea but right now my dogs are really.. leash is off? YAY!! FREEDOM!! lol
 

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The rule here is no staring, no matter what I'm doing. I find it annoying and rude :p
Oh dear, my dogs get fed for staring for sport purposes. You want something? Stare at me. LOL. They would majorly **** you off, LOL!!! My sister always says that Mackenzy has a "staring problem" thanks to me. Rosie must be quite demure. :)
 

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I don't really care if Nia walks in front of me. I use negative corrections like no or eh eh or hey!
 

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Oh dear, my dogs get fed for staring for sport purposes. You want something? Stare at me. LOL. They would majorly **** you off, LOL!!! My sister always says that Mackenzy has a "staring problem" thanks to me. Rosie must be quite demure. :)
When she was a puppy, she'd be really bad about staring. I blame the border collie in her :lol-sign: She'd stare, then get obsessive about staring, so she'd stare more, and then forget she has to pee cause she was staring, and then pee in the house. Then she'd be so upset that she had an accident in the house, even though we didn't make a big deal out of it.

I mean, she still stares. She doesn't give a crap about rules :rofl1: but I feel better saying we have them :p
 

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When she was a puppy, she'd be really bad about staring. I blame the border collie in her :lol-sign: She'd stare, then get obsessive about staring, so she'd stare more, and then forget she has to pee cause she was staring, and then pee in the house. Then she'd be so upset that she had an accident in the house, even though we didn't make a big deal out of it.

I mean, she still stares. She doesn't give a crap about rules :rofl1: but I feel better saying we have them :p
LOL atta girl.
 

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