^^^ I found those last bible quotes pretty offensive, actually. I don't think that any woman should "submit" to any man. Men and women are equal, and I will love my husband... but will never submit to a man. We have come so far for equal rights, and women are not posessions.
Ephesians 5:25-27 (please read it carefully...)
25 Husbands, love your wives, just as Christ loved the church and gave himself up for her 26 to make her holy, cleansing her by the washing with water through the word, 27 and to present her to himself as a radiant church, without stain or wrinkle or any other blemish, but holy and blameless.
Jesus Christ DIED for us. What greater love can you imagine? Is there love greater than the love that means you will DIE for your spouse?
Look at these passages without your blinders of selfishness attached.