We're off to Emerson College

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Melissa and I are going to Emerson College today for their open house. I'm looking forward to it, as is Melissa. However, unless she gets some kind scholarship funds, there's really no way Tony and I could afford the tuition. But, we're leaving our options open and gathering as much information as we can. She really doesn't want to go just because after seeing the campus and knowing its out of reach financialy might be a let down. We are also going to visit the New England Institution of Art later in the month. What a busy year. She is working with her guidence couselor to gather information and direction in terms of scholarships and requirements which I am very happy about. Her guidence couselor told her that with her GPA she could apply to any college she wanted to, well at least out of the three that she's interested in (UMASS Lowell, Emerson and N.E. Institution of Art) Deep down I hope she would'nt be a candidate for acceptance to Emerson (I know that sounds horrible) but if she was accepted to Emerson and then for us to tell her we couldn't afford it, would be so hard to do. But, oh boy, if she was accepted ... Emerson is a very prestigious private school. Arrrgh!

She has to write a 'thesis' for submitting to the scholarship applications and I've been on her back about it. She finally started typing things down. I told her just to write paragraphs and we'll print them out and decide what she wanted to keep and how exactly to place them. I want to share her first paragraph with you all:

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I'm just rewinding through the brilliant hours I spent this summer, practicing punk-rock ethos and forming new friendships. Back through beautiful, infinite moments, screaming the words we barely understood. Even further, to a perfect winter, a winter that was dependent on sing-alongs and friendships.. Pushing back into these memories I have of connecting with people on a completely unique level; dancing along to these bands that were playing loud and hard every night, laughing so hard that I felt like I knew what crying really should be. These were the hours of endless smiles that defined friendships. It always seemed funny to me, that no matter how many people ended up attending these small punk-rock shows, everyone was singing and dancing together, forming a united armada of people. I have realized that this is exactly what I want my life to be like. I need connections that matter, full of sharing and creating something stronger than everything that we were taught to fear.
I was able to attend UMASS Lowell during their October Open House, and was finally realizing the significance to the choices I make this year as a high school senior. Durgin Hall was beautiful, and I could really see myself spending time learning how to create and produce music hopefully just as inspiring as the works of those people who have inspired me.

....................................................... she knows I'm sharing it

I don't know why I'm posting this. I guess I'm just so proud of her and she has a way of putting her thoughts on paper (again, I think she should have gone into journalism) She has a knack of being so unorganized in everyday life, but yet organized ... lol Sort of like waiting to pack for a trip on the day your leaving. hehehe :) And she jotted this down within 15 mins. Again, I just told her to jot down things and we'll place them all later. Thanks to all of you that actually read this thread. I'm just a very proud parent experiencing this whole college thing for the first time. I will be soooo prepared when Taylor comes around. I hope! Thank goodness I'm not working at the moment.
 
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I'm not surprised your proud - she has a great way with words - and to think those are just off the top of her head!. It's a tricky time as decisions made now put life on a certain course. don't know the colleges / uni's that you mentioned, but it sounds like she would do well wherever she goes. My youngest step-daughter is just in the same position and trying to decide where to apply for. Keep us posted on how she gets on, and hope the trip today goes okay - and turns out the way you want it to!
 

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Does your state help fund college kids with good GPA's? Here in GA it's called ther HOPE grant, it pays for almost everything. Plus there are student loans you can apply for which are really easy to get. I think you start paying back about 3 or 6 months after you graduate, mine is about $50 a month. Good luck to her and you should be proud! :)
 

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Boxer, yes the state will pay for part and even all of your tuition when you attend a 'State' school. UMASS Lowel is really the best bet for her. Here's the catch, Melissa's GPA is 3.1; basically she's borderline (on the fence) for state funding. She's already taken one SAT test this past week and will be taking another one in December just to maybe better it (we won't know the score from the first test for another 3 weeks :rolleyes: biting my nails). Also, on recomadation from her conselor, she's going to take what is called an SAT 2 (English and Math) in January. This test/scoring outcome will enable her to qualify for the state funding. Emerson is in Boston, however it is not a state college; its a private school. The tuition there would be.... for a 4 yr. Bachelor's Degree; $120,000.00 (yikes!) wiithout the extras (double yikes!). UMASS Lowell ... for a 4 yr Bachelor's would be $60,000.00 including boarding, If she can get state funding, UMASS Lowell would be perfect! I'm confident though that we are taking an early ATTACK, lol,

Ohhh, and today went well. But I wasn't to impressed on what they have to offer in terms of Music Engineering (not $120,000.00 worth anyway)
 

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you are right to be a proud mom!!!!!! :) both my kids went to the University of Pittsburgh, and I remember open house so well for my daughter. they made tons of popcorn for a theme called 'pop on over to Pitt' (yeah..pretty lame..LOL) it smelled so overwhelming of popcorn that I felt sick, and hate the smell to this day. just my opinion here, but private schools are sooooo overpriced. And, it is the rare child that only goes for 4 yrs. for a B.S. degree...you should already plan on 5. if you weren't that impressed, trust your gut feeling. I bet she is so excited...it's such a fun time. :) as soon as the state allows, apply for any and all grants...they are often based on 'first come, first serve' basis. also, aside from school loans...most schools have work study programs. as long as the state school offers excellent choices in her major...it's pretty hard to beat.
 

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Emerson is in Boston, however it is not a state college; its a private school.
Oh, well there goes the FAFSA.

But I'm assuming you've done a FAFSA for MASS Lowel , right?
 

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I have a niece that spent 2 years at Emerson, what a great school.
You're right though on the cost. My niece did have a very nice scholorship and aide package.
I loved her going there since it gave me an excuse to see Boston!!
Alas, she's left and come back out to the left coast to finish her schooling.
 

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Oh, well there goes the FAFSA.

But I'm assuming you've done a FAFSA for MASS Lowel , right?
Not yet, we have to wait until Jan. 1st to apply. Tony and I have to contact our accountant and get our tax returns done early. I think it might make the process easier if I have all the info. as earliest as possible. Melissa is also taking that SAT 2 or whatever in January and we want to wait for those scores. One test for English and another for Math. She really isn't too worried about it though. When she entered her senior year, all she really needed to take was English. She has all her credits to graduate already. So now she has a real laid back schedule which is good because she can concentrate on all this 'crap' LOL

Debi, thank you for the advice. I giggled with the popcorn smell comment. I hate that smell myself. Emerson campus was gorgeous, but I just don't see Melissa getting any better of an education there than she'd get from UMASS Lowell. Probably just the name "Emerson" behind her. It's nice to hear from other parents that have gone through this TORTURE! lol
 

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