WELL... ( about testing ) just sad.. eh.. someone talk? lol

[azcowgirl]

Im not going to test on the 25th.. i decided just to wait and see if i start by next month.. i did the math and thought about when my last period was and... i ended around the 5th of this month.... and when i was on the pill my periods were regular but once i get off or arent on them for a while i skip a few months at a time.. im so confused on what to do.. i feel like crap! ive been getting cramps but no aunt flow.. and i shouldnt get that anytime soon anyway.. and ive been feeling sick... and OVERLY emotional like no other.. i never get emotional.. but lately anything makes me cry.. my bf and i got into it yesterday.. he was in one of his moods ( you know what men go through lol ) and he just kept making me cry ( he didnt say anything too rude to me ) so today im just going to kinda stay away from him when he comes home from work. he was in a great mood today but who knows how he will be when he gets out. i dont know what else too do.. im just stressed about alot of things.. and so is he. im regreting testing because.. if it comes out negative.. ill be sad but kinda happy and if it comes out positive ill be happy but yet stressed again AHHHH IM GOING NUTS!!!

 

[bubbatd]

Why put yourself through this ??? Test !

 

[Baxter'smybaby]

I agree--test, especially if it is positive--you will need to be sure you are doing all that is needed for a healthy pregnancy/baby. Do not wait just because you are afraid of the results--this is where you need to put the (potential) baby's needs before yours. This is what parenting is made of--do not wait!

 

[nancy2394]

azcowgirl.... just do the test. You'll feel much better knowing.

 

[darkchild16]

Yes you will believe me i put it off for a week becuase I was like well with all the stress my period may be late and i did that twice because the next time it was easier.

 

[bubbatd]

Agree ...plus the stress could put off your period .

 

[darkchild16]

i forgot where are you getting the testing done? Is there a free pregnancy center where you live? They usually do it as a walk in. Thats where I went and got mine done.

 

[azcowgirl]

i was just going to buy one from the store.. if those come out negative im going to go to the health place where i get my pills from and take tests there and if those are negative im getting back on the pill.

 

[darkchild16]

AHHHH ok.

 

[azcowgirl]

yea..

 

[Beanie]

I agree... test. I have a strange feeling that it might be positive...

 

[azcowgirl]

well it is kinda too soon to test.. we will see what happends on pay day

 

[HoundedByHounds]

You can test 5 days BEFORE your period is due...so bear that in mind.

 

[azcowgirl]

yea but the thing is my periods irregular so i have NO clue when im going to start... so i have no clue what to do

 

[HoundedByHounds]

You can test weekly. Trust me the mind is a funny thing. When I was trying to get preggers every single month I would get "sick" and nauseated and headachy and my boobs would hurt...all in my head. The month I actually WAS pregnant was the month I wasn't even thinking about it... and felt totally normal...lol.

 

[azcowgirl]

lol thats strange. maybe it is in my mind.. but i dont know.. when i get paid on the 25th ill see what bills i got to pay and see if i have money to go to a pregnancy center

 

[Herschel]

lol thats strange. maybe it is in my mind.. but i dont know.. when i get paid on the 25th ill see what bills i got to pay and see if i have money to go to a pregnancy center

Planned Parenthood and other clinics are typically free or very low cost. Unless you are planning to have a child and are ready for the responsibility, the sooner you test the better.

 

[Spirit2010]

Pregnancy test! Come on! Don't be afraid!! you can do it!!

 

[azcowgirl]

lol well AF is supposed to come on the 29th.. only 1 more week till i can test.