My boyfriend, of 4.5 years, wrote on my Facebook yesterday "Best Weekend Buddy Ever!!!"
I Texted him "weekend buddy? Love you too..." he replied with a "love you always, it sounded strange when I wrote it."
Now, I joke to friends all the time that we have the perfect relationship -- we spend the weeks apart doing our own things and when we see each other on weekends we are always doing something exciting. We never get tired of each other and always leave the weekend wanting more.
But...now I'm just a weekend buddy and I'm not sure I'm okay with that! It means he's content the way things are an has little/no desire to find a job/move closer to me. And it is fine for now, we lived together for the first 2-3 years and have been doing the LDR thing for the last 1.5. I don't want to have a long distance relationship forever.
I'm afraid that he won't leave his job for me - I'll leave my (PERFECT, full time, dream job) for him and resent him every single day. Or we'll just fizzle away to "good weekend buddies" or "when it's convenient buddy".
*cries*
/vent
thx
I Texted him "weekend buddy? Love you too..." he replied with a "love you always, it sounded strange when I wrote it."
Now, I joke to friends all the time that we have the perfect relationship -- we spend the weeks apart doing our own things and when we see each other on weekends we are always doing something exciting. We never get tired of each other and always leave the weekend wanting more.
But...now I'm just a weekend buddy and I'm not sure I'm okay with that! It means he's content the way things are an has little/no desire to find a job/move closer to me. And it is fine for now, we lived together for the first 2-3 years and have been doing the LDR thing for the last 1.5. I don't want to have a long distance relationship forever.
I'm afraid that he won't leave his job for me - I'll leave my (PERFECT, full time, dream job) for him and resent him every single day. Or we'll just fizzle away to "good weekend buddies" or "when it's convenient buddy".
*cries*
/vent
thx