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before anyone can give you information on what to do, you need to find out EXACTLY what is going on. You mention he owes $2500 in fines, if he never showed up to get sentenced, then what are those for?
You might be able to call the courts yourself and find out what's going on, or maybe his family can have a lawyer look into.
35 yrs is a long sentence... are you sure that's accurate? He'd have to do more than damage a car to get that. I know someone who drove his car INTO a parked car intent on damaging it, not as an accident. He was charged, and only had a fine + his license taken away.
He may be making it sound worse than it is. If it does comes down to some jail time(like 6 months or something), he may just have to deal with it. It sounds like OK is a better place for you both to live.
You might be able to call the courts yourself and find out what's going on, or maybe his family can have a lawyer look into.
35 yrs is a long sentence... are you sure that's accurate? He'd have to do more than damage a car to get that. I know someone who drove his car INTO a parked car intent on damaging it, not as an accident. He was charged, and only had a fine + his license taken away.
He may be making it sound worse than it is. If it does comes down to some jail time(like 6 months or something), he may just have to deal with it. It sounds like OK is a better place for you both to live.
Arson of a car, a felony. He also has misdemeanors that add onto it. Thats what he says anyway. I dont have a clue how the law works, so I have no idea. We need an attorney badly, because I hate being completely clueless.
OK would be a much better place for sure. That would be my DREAM to move back there. With 25 acres, I can have all the doggies I wanted. LOL. I'd become a hoarder or something. Maybe even a horse.