Woke up to the news that Matt's grandfather is dead. He committed suicide by jumping off their 6th floor balcony. His grandma woke up, followed a trail of blood to the balcony and...
I'm devastated on a number of levels. He's had arthritis and a few other health issues for a man of 80-some years, but he didn't seem to be at this level of pain or anguish. I suppose things can be hidden or change - grandma wouldn't have told us if he was this bad, anyway. But... it's a complete shock.
His grandparents have always been wonderful to us. His grandpa had a very dry, sarcastic sense of humour, it's easy to see where Matt got it from. Matt really admired his grandpa. He'd never admit it, but he's not dealing too well with this. He doesn't know how to deal with grief and is just sort of wandering the house aimlessly. :/
We have no idea what's going on. We just found out and will be going to either the apartment or wherever they wind up, Matt's mum will be calling us. I assume grandma is devastated, they were such a close couple. I feel like I shouldn't be writing all of this yet, but I had to tell someone and get it off my chest.
I'm not really okay right now.
I'm devastated on a number of levels. He's had arthritis and a few other health issues for a man of 80-some years, but he didn't seem to be at this level of pain or anguish. I suppose things can be hidden or change - grandma wouldn't have told us if he was this bad, anyway. But... it's a complete shock.
His grandparents have always been wonderful to us. His grandpa had a very dry, sarcastic sense of humour, it's easy to see where Matt got it from. Matt really admired his grandpa. He'd never admit it, but he's not dealing too well with this. He doesn't know how to deal with grief and is just sort of wandering the house aimlessly. :/
We have no idea what's going on. We just found out and will be going to either the apartment or wherever they wind up, Matt's mum will be calling us. I assume grandma is devastated, they were such a close couple. I feel like I shouldn't be writing all of this yet, but I had to tell someone and get it off my chest.
I'm not really okay right now.