Hello. New to the board, and any advice on this situation would be appreciated.
I am the parent of a 3 year old and an 11 month old (crawling, just learning to walk, etc...).
My parents, who live about 2 hours away, own an english setter that they rescued from the pound. This is a large dog. For the most part, the dog is a good dog. He is friendly with visitors, very loving with my parents, and is well behaved. The problem is, he has shown some aggresion in the past towards my three year old. Nothing too bad, but he has growled at her while he was resting and she came near him, and this past Christmas he snapped at her when she came near him while he was chewing his new bone.
I have always been very cautious about letting my kids near big dogs, and always was insistent that my parents keep a very close eye on the kids and the dog when they were babysitting. After the snapping incident at Christmas I decided that that was all the warning I needed and said I do not want my kids to be around the dog at all.
My mother thinks I am being irrational and overly protective. She feels the dog would never do anything to hurt the child and that I am paranoid. And also, she says she always watches the kids very closely and would not allow anything to happen, even if it were a danger. I feel that its just too tough to keep a constant eye on a toddler, a crawling baby, and a dog, and it only takes a second for something bad to happen.
So, I do not know what to do. I don't want to make my parents think I dont trust them, but all of my instincts tell me to keep the kids away from the dog. But my toddler loves spending the night at Grandma's and I do not want to this to keep her from doing things like that.
Does anyone have any advice on this? Am I being too paranoid? I just want to be sure I am doing the right thing. Thank you.
I am the parent of a 3 year old and an 11 month old (crawling, just learning to walk, etc...).
My parents, who live about 2 hours away, own an english setter that they rescued from the pound. This is a large dog. For the most part, the dog is a good dog. He is friendly with visitors, very loving with my parents, and is well behaved. The problem is, he has shown some aggresion in the past towards my three year old. Nothing too bad, but he has growled at her while he was resting and she came near him, and this past Christmas he snapped at her when she came near him while he was chewing his new bone.
I have always been very cautious about letting my kids near big dogs, and always was insistent that my parents keep a very close eye on the kids and the dog when they were babysitting. After the snapping incident at Christmas I decided that that was all the warning I needed and said I do not want my kids to be around the dog at all.
My mother thinks I am being irrational and overly protective. She feels the dog would never do anything to hurt the child and that I am paranoid. And also, she says she always watches the kids very closely and would not allow anything to happen, even if it were a danger. I feel that its just too tough to keep a constant eye on a toddler, a crawling baby, and a dog, and it only takes a second for something bad to happen.
So, I do not know what to do. I don't want to make my parents think I dont trust them, but all of my instincts tell me to keep the kids away from the dog. But my toddler loves spending the night at Grandma's and I do not want to this to keep her from doing things like that.
Does anyone have any advice on this? Am I being too paranoid? I just want to be sure I am doing the right thing. Thank you.