The why i havnt been on thread...

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So in a nutshell my dad has been diagnosed undiagnosed and re-diagnosed with cancer in the last 8 months and they still have not done the appropriate tests.All they know is he has bone cancer now but arnt sure where it metastasized from.

So, we are shipping him off to Chicago on Friday and are moving with him on the 16th of May so he can go to a doctor that he is used to and that will run all the needed tests next Monday and start treatment right away. As it stands now he doesn't have long to live....

My fiance , well at the rate things are going wont be my fiance for much longer unless he grows up. He has had a job for 7 months now which is good except, he only works fifteen hours a week .... and that wont pay a quarter of the bills let alone half so i plan i getting two jobs right when i get to Chicago He is supposed to get a car that works and come up with half of the deposits for a apartment because i am tired of having to pull up his slack.. I cant deal with the extra drama and stress he is giving me and i am tired of the i am trying my best attitude even though i now he is capable of much better.I just dont know why or exactly when he became so lazy and thinking about only him its not like i am asking him to be the only one who works but i work 40 plus hours a week and i am in the middle of trying to help my mom get everything together and i am tired of acting like his mother instead of his SO.

And to top off the cake both of my dogs have to stay with my aunt in Arkansas until i can get my own place because they cant stay where my mom , me and the rest of my family are staying so i wont see them for probably a month... I just really would like to crawl in a whole and cry my heart out but, that wouldn't be very productive so I think i will go back to packing


Sorry for my vent
 

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Well, you know what I've got for you?


((GIANT HUGS))

So sorry for your troubles. Sending positive vibes your way.
 

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Ok, judges say...those are valid reasons for being absent. In fact, you are hereby granted the Unlimited Hall Pass of Clemency until such time as you wish to relinquish posession. This means we will call off the Fila Force. Go in peace.

On a more serious note, (((((((((((((((((((((HUGS))))))))))))))))))))))

I am so sorry you are having to deal with all this at once. Even one of those things one it's own would be bad enough. Prayers for you and your family on your trip and stay in Chicago. I hope there will be some good news!
 

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Oh Andrea!!!! ((((((hugs and JRT licks...))))) I am SO sorry to hear about your Dad. I hope your fiancé realizes what he's got and gets it together.

But on a positive not Chicago is not that far away! So when things get better maybe we can visit!!
 

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Sorry to hear of the bad news and the boy troubles.. I hope everything works out for you!
 

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Ditto, so sorry for everything that is happening. I give my best vibes to your Dad and that he has a positive response to treatment and he gets into remission quickly and stays there.
 

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I'm so sorry about your Dad ....((( Hugs ))) do hope things go smoother for you .
 
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I am so sorry. Sometimes life sucks for a while. ((((hugs))))

Hope things get better soon.
 

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Ditto Red, life sucks sometimes.

Lots of ((Hugs)) and prayers for you and your father. Keep us updated!
 
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Ok, judges say...those are valid reasons for being absent. In fact, you are hereby granted the Unlimited Hall Pass of Clemency until such time as you wish to relinquish posession. This means we will call off the Fila Force. Go in peace.

On a more serious note, (((((((((((((((((((((HUGS))))))))))))))))))))))

I am so sorry you are having to deal with all this at once. Even one of those things one it's own would be bad enough. Prayers for you and your family on your trip and stay in Chicago. I hope there will be some good news!
Zoomer pretty well summed it up, WP. (((((((((((((((((((((((((MOREHUGS))))))))))))))))))))))))))))))))))

You know we're here whenever you need us.
 

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