I'm so sorry you're dealing with this again, especially when Michael is on deployment.
I may have said this before, but sometimes you just have to let others make their own decisions rather than letting them drag you down, too, as hard as it is.
I may have said this before, but sometimes you just have to let others make their own decisions rather than letting them drag you down, too, as hard as it is.
Right. Helping is one thing, enabling/being responsible for someone else's life is another thing. Good luck, this sucks.
With this deployment I was hoping we'd finally be able to move forwards and actually have an ample savings account. I'd finally be able to get my piano, we'd have money to replace/rebuild our computers, and we'd be more financially stable for when we have a child (as we'll be TTC later this year). I had even got my hopes up that maybe, just maybe, we'd even be able to swing the cost for me to fly out and see him in Spain early this summer.
Ha. Haha. Nope. Just kidding.
I told Michael that. Once he's back at home and has living expenses again, we wouldn't be able to provide financial support to her. While he's gone, I said we could probably swing it - there just won't be any of the things we were planning to do with the money aside from having some set aside in savings for when we have a child.
And then I feel horrible for choosing objects (no matter how dearly wanted and long awaited for) over helping his mother....which makes me even more pissed off.
*sigh*