Eloping is totally where it's at lol. We eloped and we haven't regretted it a single day in our lives LOL.
I love going to other peoples weddings, I had no desire to try to co ordinate my own. With all the long distance people (being that none of our family lives anywhere near us... Except for and aunt and uncle and anfew cousins on Brians side) and that some of my siblings don't get along, my sister hates my mom, etc etc etc and then all the money to put out. I always thought I wanted the wedding but push come to shove and I was like HECK NO and we eloped and told everyone later
It's funny because when I first met a friend of mine we were talkig about how we met our spouses and she said "did you have a wedding or dis you elope?" I had never been asked that... Usualy it's what was your wedding like or where was it. I told her we eloped and she said "I thought so. I don't know you very well yet but you just don't seem like the big wedding type". LOL
I love going to other peoples weddings, I had no desire to try to co ordinate my own. With all the long distance people (being that none of our family lives anywhere near us... Except for and aunt and uncle and anfew cousins on Brians side) and that some of my siblings don't get along, my sister hates my mom, etc etc etc and then all the money to put out. I always thought I wanted the wedding but push come to shove and I was like HECK NO and we eloped and told everyone later
It's funny because when I first met a friend of mine we were talkig about how we met our spouses and she said "did you have a wedding or dis you elope?" I had never been asked that... Usualy it's what was your wedding like or where was it. I told her we eloped and she said "I thought so. I don't know you very well yet but you just don't seem like the big wedding type". LOL
We have talked about it, and while we LOVE the idea of weddings.. it all just seems to complicated. Plus he is all jaded from going to ALL OF THEM lol
The parts of weddings I love (a pretty dress, the family/friends, love, cupcakes) can all be accomplished in a much smaller low-key way like a party/get together after the elopement or something.
I don't really know what changed.. I found a boy and just didn't care anymore about the wedding.
I would like to be married but the huge expensive party..eh (and it would have to be huge, my family is HUGE and very tight knit. You are looking at 300 guests MINIMUM)
I would totally take a 2 month honeymoon instead! LOL