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I am SO TIRED of irresponsible dog owners and their aggressive dogs ruining my fun time with my dogs.

I was out with Dakota, playing in the park because that's the only place nearby where grass is found. He and I went off the park property and onto this big grassy soccer field so I could let him offlead (Dogs aren't allowed off leash inside the park but they can play on the soccer field.) I had him off the leash and was playing frisbee with him, and practicing heelwork inbetween throws.

Some IDIOT all the way on the other side of the park had her Pit Bull off leash, and I didn't notice that the dog was coming toward us (I had my back turned the other way) until it slammed into Dakota, and pushed him into the back of my legs. I have luxating patellas - my kneecap went out due to the force of my dog being slamed into me, and I fell down. The entire time I am trying to get my kneecap back into place, this dog is TERRIFYING Dakota, snapping and growling every time my dog stopped running. Dakota (The little goof :p ) decided it would be best to come and hide near me while I'm still on the ground, and the Pit starts barking and growling at ME, when I tell it to get outta here.

The owner, meanwhile, is just standing there and calling the dog. Obviously the brute isn't listening to her, but it doesn't seem to occur to her to go and GET the **** thing. I had my knee back in place but couldn't get up now because I had a scared BC on my lap. :rolleyes: I had nothing to do except beat the dog away with the frisbee and leash. I don't remember what I did, but I think I hit the dog's face with the metal clip of the leash, and it backed off. The **** owner finally made her way over and actually CONSOLED her dog, and glared at me. The bitch actually had the nerve to say "Oh my god, he was just PLAYING! What the hell is your problem?" when I am in pain on the ground, my dog is absolutely terrified, and her dog has worked itself up into a snapping, frothing, barking frenzy. When she finally restrained the big, dumb brute, I was able to get up and walk away to check my dog over. Not once did she apologize, not once did she ask if my dog was okay, she just said "poor baby, you don't get to play today" and left.

I can't imagine having the audacity to react in such a way - I apologize profusely if my dog even tries to visit with someone who walks next to him. I would be absolutely falling all over the person, trying to help them, if he ran across a field and mauled them. (Of course, he'd maul them with kisses and tail-beatings, but he'd still knock them down. ;))

Grr.. My blood is just boiling over this. People like this lady shouldn't own dogs or be able to reproduce, and dogs like that need to be kept AWAY from civilized places.

Dakota is okay, he was a little shaken over it and has a little cut on his ear (Thankfully it's just a scratch and not a split ear.) but I know that ALL the progress I made with him, on trying to build up his confidence and reduce his anxiousness, has totally been shattered. I don't know why dogs target him and attack him, but he's been through this before with a neighbor's GSD, and he'd only recently fully recovered from that to the point of being his normal self with GSD-type dogs again. Now, all our progress is totally gone and I don't know where to begin, trying to get him to relax again. :(

Just had to share my frustration, sorry for the long post.
 

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Why didn't you rip her a new one?!! You shoulda said all this to her too. No matter if she could have comprehended or not but I bet she'd think twice about how she handled it.
 

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Vent away. That's what we're here for. I'm so sorry about poor Dakota. I hope everything gets better, and that he doesn't have permanent problems because of this.
 

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People like that is what gives these wonderful dogs a bad name. Real idiots I can't beleive she did'nt apologize. You know alot of the dumb pitbull owners will take that pity being given out to the breed as a chance to let their dogs do whatever they want. Unlike myself who doesent ignore the possiblity of my dogs being aggressive with out training.
People are just................ARGH
 
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What an @$$hole!! How the heck can you be so stupid? I mean, come on!! And then to yell at someone who your dog has attacked instead of at least apologize. I have bad knees too - I can't even bend them fully or they'll go out of place - and I know how painful it is when they're out of place.
 
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What can I say, Grace. Vent away . . . People can be beyond comprehension sometimes.

On a constructive note, I've seen dogs like Dakota - Shiva was very much like that as far as her confidence went, which was almost comical in a dog like her - and other dogs do zero in on that sometimes. The very best you can do for Dakotah is to quietly reassure him and show no fear or apprehension yourself. Sometimes it's easier said than done, and of course it's much easier for me with a dog of Shiva's proportions, but just keep working on it. Dakotah's a smart, clever boy and he'll figure it out. All it will take is for him to be able to impose his will on one dog and he'll have something to build on.

Or, you can always get Dakotah his very own Fila, lol! Then no one will pick on him ;)
 

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Thanks for your support, guys :)

Renee, I will try that for sure. (The reassurance part, not the Fila - as much as I'd like to try that. ;))

I can say for sure, if I ever run into that lady again next year, when I have Karma (My working BC bitch) that dog will think twice about messing with BCs. A good, hard-tempered working dog wouldn't hesitate to defend themselves. (Dakota's just a little softie.)
 

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I know how frustrating it can be when all your work is blown in an instant, and how STUPID some people are. I was working with a man recently with a very timid, fear aggressive mixed breed. We went through a long process of desensitization, to the point where the dog was comfortable with a group of three people feeding her and talking to her owner. The guy thought "well, that's all fixed then!" and took her to a party with over thirty people in it and asked everyone to pat her!
Needless to say she bit someone and I was called back in. I had specifically told that moron what NOT to do, but he just ignored it. sigh.
 

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You should have definately told the woman in the park what was on your mind! I can't believe she wouldn't have said sorry seeing you lying on the ground with your dog in you lap! I'm glad things didn't turn out worse for you.
 

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that sucks!

The bitch actually had the nerve to say "Oh my god, he was just PLAYING! What the hell is your problem?" when I am in pain on the ground, my dog is absolutely terrified, and her dog has worked itself up into a snapping, frothing, barking frenzy.
ok, now that is just stupid. It doesn't sound like she/he was playing to me!
 

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i had posted this on another thread:



"owners are totally responsible for their dog's behavior and aggressions, both morally and legally.

on court tv, there was a case where someone's dog was offleash and startled a next door neighbor's dog who was onleash. the offleash dog did not bark, chase or rush the leashed dog. however, the leashed dog was so scared, he ran around his owner's legs and created welts with the leash.

well, the owner with the welts on his legs sued in small claims and was awarded the maximum amount for pain and suffering.

although i feel this was unjust because the unleashed dog did nothing antagonistic, like a lot of the dogs described here, his owner was still held responsible for his causing the other dog to go ballistic.

anyways, this teaches us that we shouldn't take our responsibility so lightly. at the very least, it will affect our pocketbook."


i think next time this happens, you should take this person directly to court for knocking your kneecaps out of place. i think this is the only way people will understand what their responsibility is vis a vis their dogs.
 

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