Stay at home mom
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Well see thats the thing! He wont try it for a few hours!
He went off Friday night to stay at his moms cause they were going to Mississippi for a logging expo. Guess who got stuck with the kiddies. Me. (the were suppose to stay the night sat too but the thing ended at 4 so they got home around 9)
Ok fine sure thats ok!
So Kyles mom and I want to go to Growers Outlet to get a few tomatoe plants..
'Kyle since youre going to the house will you go ahead and take the kids?'
'No'
'Why?!'
'Because Im not going to the house'
'Oh really? Where are you going'
'The yard'
'WHY!?! Whats at the yard'
..no answer..
'FINE WHATEVER!!!!!'
40 mins later at the growers outlet kyles moms nextel
BEEP BEEP
'Tell Sarah there is a State Patrol shooting radar over the big hill coming into Monroe'
'Oh so you just went home?'
'Yes'
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I coulda slaughtered him!
He is such a bia sometimes!
He did watch them while his mom and I ran to Wally World to get some curtain rods but big deal!
Sometimes I just would rather move out then have to deal with him. Its the new world hunny!
GROW UP AND WATCH YOUR KIDS!
He went off Friday night to stay at his moms cause they were going to Mississippi for a logging expo. Guess who got stuck with the kiddies. Me. (the were suppose to stay the night sat too but the thing ended at 4 so they got home around 9)
Ok fine sure thats ok!
So Kyles mom and I want to go to Growers Outlet to get a few tomatoe plants..
'Kyle since youre going to the house will you go ahead and take the kids?'
'No'
'Why?!'
'Because Im not going to the house'
'Oh really? Where are you going'
'The yard'
'WHY!?! Whats at the yard'
..no answer..
'FINE WHATEVER!!!!!'
40 mins later at the growers outlet kyles moms nextel
BEEP BEEP
'Tell Sarah there is a State Patrol shooting radar over the big hill coming into Monroe'
'Oh so you just went home?'
'Yes'
RRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRR
I coulda slaughtered him!
He is such a bia sometimes!
He did watch them while his mom and I ran to Wally World to get some curtain rods but big deal!
Sometimes I just would rather move out then have to deal with him. Its the new world hunny!
GROW UP AND WATCH YOUR KIDS!
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I'm a stay at home mom too.
Rob works full time, 9 am to 7pm most days, could be later depending, 6 days a week. He provides anything, and I mean anything, that I need.
We do not share chores. I am the one who watches the kids, takes them to appointments, cooks dinner/lunch/breakfast, does ALL the housework, laundry, so on and so fourth. His job is to bring home the bread. I'm fine with that. I may only be 20 years old and doing it, but I am fine with it
All I ask for is my weekend every other weekend. We take the kiddos to their grandma's on a Friday, and I have two days to sit and do nothing if I like. Most times I go to Rob's work with him on Saturday and help out.
Things will change this year though. With Johnny going to school this fall, I am going to go back to school myself. There is no way I can manage doing all that plus a school workload.
Rob has said he wouldn't mind helping. I told him if he did the laundry, I'd do everything else
Rob works full time, 9 am to 7pm most days, could be later depending, 6 days a week. He provides anything, and I mean anything, that I need.
We do not share chores. I am the one who watches the kids, takes them to appointments, cooks dinner/lunch/breakfast, does ALL the housework, laundry, so on and so fourth. His job is to bring home the bread. I'm fine with that. I may only be 20 years old and doing it, but I am fine with it
All I ask for is my weekend every other weekend. We take the kiddos to their grandma's on a Friday, and I have two days to sit and do nothing if I like. Most times I go to Rob's work with him on Saturday and help out.
Things will change this year though. With Johnny going to school this fall, I am going to go back to school myself. There is no way I can manage doing all that plus a school workload.
Rob has said he wouldn't mind helping. I told him if he did the laundry, I'd do everything else
Well caring for a 2 year old and a almost 7 month old + all the house work (and a broken AC in 100 heat) is wearing me down.
Kyle uses a towel a day in the shower, changes cloths when he gets home and the laundry is getting so over welming I stopped doing it.
His mom came over and was like GOD SARAH...like it is only my job to do it.
F THAT!
I have to care for 2 young kids. I am always doing for them and when kyle gets home I get to do for him to?
NO!
NO NO NO!
I am sick of serving everyone but myself! I wear the same cloths for 3 days. I dont shower for 5 days..
Why?
Because I dont even have time to do anything else.
When Im at the computer its because I have to take a little pleasure break! Usually I just leave it up and sit down 3 mins at a time.
Im just so sick of having to do everything on my home and get to watch him sit back and get served!
Whos serving me?!?!
NO ONE! NOT EVEN MYSELF!
Kyle uses a towel a day in the shower, changes cloths when he gets home and the laundry is getting so over welming I stopped doing it.
His mom came over and was like GOD SARAH...like it is only my job to do it.
F THAT!
I have to care for 2 young kids. I am always doing for them and when kyle gets home I get to do for him to?
NO!
NO NO NO!
I am sick of serving everyone but myself! I wear the same cloths for 3 days. I dont shower for 5 days..
Why?
Because I dont even have time to do anything else.
When Im at the computer its because I have to take a little pleasure break! Usually I just leave it up and sit down 3 mins at a time.
Im just so sick of having to do everything on my home and get to watch him sit back and get served!
Whos serving me?!?!
NO ONE! NOT EVEN MYSELF!
You don't shower for 5 days?
Look, I'm a SAHM, too, during the summer, and I know it can seem like people are sucking every single living CELL out of your body at times, but I think that if your husband isn't going to communicate with you, and you think the home chores should be split more evenly, maybe you should get a job outside of the home?
I have a lot of crap I have to do, and sometimes housework gets put off. I don't care if you cannot eat off my floors on some days. Laundry irritates the hell out of me, but I either do it once or twice a week, or a load or two a day.
The only real "me" time I get is when my children decide to go outside or to their friends' houses.
Most days I don't mind. I love being here with my family. I've done the working mom thing before, and until I get done with school, this is what I am going to be doing. I like putting my children to bed at night and waking with them in the morning. I like cooking them dinner so that I KNOW they are eating healthy.
The working mom thing didn't work for me. It works for lots of other people, but it didn't work for me. I HATED IT. I hated having to leave my children in the care of someone else. I did it at the time because I had to. I don't have to now, and I don't.
Look, I'm a SAHM, too, during the summer, and I know it can seem like people are sucking every single living CELL out of your body at times, but I think that if your husband isn't going to communicate with you, and you think the home chores should be split more evenly, maybe you should get a job outside of the home?
I have a lot of crap I have to do, and sometimes housework gets put off. I don't care if you cannot eat off my floors on some days. Laundry irritates the hell out of me, but I either do it once or twice a week, or a load or two a day.
The only real "me" time I get is when my children decide to go outside or to their friends' houses.
Most days I don't mind. I love being here with my family. I've done the working mom thing before, and until I get done with school, this is what I am going to be doing. I like putting my children to bed at night and waking with them in the morning. I like cooking them dinner so that I KNOW they are eating healthy.
The working mom thing didn't work for me. It works for lots of other people, but it didn't work for me. I HATED IT. I hated having to leave my children in the care of someone else. I did it at the time because I had to. I don't have to now, and I don't.
Ya..
One kids asleep the others awake.
They dont sleep at the same time.
When Kyle gets home I cook dinner and eat and by that time Im so pooped Im ready for bed.
I looove being here with my kids and all I just wish chores were split abit more..
Hes good with feeding and diaper changes and Im getting him to do dishes and cook but other things I wish he did more...
One kids asleep the others awake.
They dont sleep at the same time.
When Kyle gets home I cook dinner and eat and by that time Im so pooped Im ready for bed.
I looove being here with my kids and all I just wish chores were split abit more..
Hes good with feeding and diaper changes and Im getting him to do dishes and cook but other things I wish he did more...
