:yikes:Wow. I'm in shock. A man I run into frequently and his dog, Sandy, were out on a walk today. Sandy is an 8 year old female lab. Zoe, my baby, is a 3 year old lab/border collie mix who wouldn't hurt a fly. The man knows this, as we have been running into him weekly for almost two years.
Sandy and Zoe love each other. When they see each other (we walk them off leash in a huge field) they run toward each other and play like kids. Adam and I have developed a nice, casual friendship, chatting as the dogs play and chase each other.
Today, Zoe started her "lets' play!!" barking, as border collies do. Sandy was probably tired at that point and didn't respond. So, Zoe started pushing at her front legs, trying to "herd" her. She wasn't playing rough in my opinion, and was just trying to get Sandy to play with her. All of a sudden, Adam kicked Zoe off of Sandy- not hard enough to hurt her, but enough to get her attention and yelled "Zoe Stop!!" Then he said "I've never seen her nip like that before!" I was kind of stunned and just said "She does it all the time- it's how she plays" Then I just mumbled something about "ok Zoe, Sandy doesn't want to play right now, let's go home" and headed the other way.
Now I don't know what to say when I see this man again. I know Sandy loves to play with Zoe, but I fear if I let her, Zoe will nip again and I can't risk Adam reacting like that. I run into them at least once a week and I really dont' know how to handle it. Advice??
Sandy and Zoe love each other. When they see each other (we walk them off leash in a huge field) they run toward each other and play like kids. Adam and I have developed a nice, casual friendship, chatting as the dogs play and chase each other.
Today, Zoe started her "lets' play!!" barking, as border collies do. Sandy was probably tired at that point and didn't respond. So, Zoe started pushing at her front legs, trying to "herd" her. She wasn't playing rough in my opinion, and was just trying to get Sandy to play with her. All of a sudden, Adam kicked Zoe off of Sandy- not hard enough to hurt her, but enough to get her attention and yelled "Zoe Stop!!" Then he said "I've never seen her nip like that before!" I was kind of stunned and just said "She does it all the time- it's how she plays" Then I just mumbled something about "ok Zoe, Sandy doesn't want to play right now, let's go home" and headed the other way.
Now I don't know what to say when I see this man again. I know Sandy loves to play with Zoe, but I fear if I let her, Zoe will nip again and I can't risk Adam reacting like that. I run into them at least once a week and I really dont' know how to handle it. Advice??