I can put my hands into my dogs' mouths when they're eating, remove the food and all I get is some complaining and plaintive looks until I either tell them it's something they aren't supposed to have or give it back to them.
I don't expect -- or WANT them to allow anyone else to do the same, though.
If I had kids, I'd expect the dogs to show the kids the same patience, BUT I'd also expect my kids to leave the dogs alone when they're eating unless there's a reason. Adults are pretty much on their own in my view of the world. I just make sure I'm the buffer between my dogs and the rest of the world and don't give other people access to my dogs except in very controlled circumstances. I don't put my dogs at the mercy of other people, even family members. Especially family members. If there are cousins and their kids around my dogs are safe and away. Unseen and not vulnerable to idiots.
Our dogs are willing to protect us, some even with their lives. We should be willing to at least protect them from situations that put them on the defensive whenever possible, and if it hurts someone's feelings, well, that's better than the possible alternatives. They'll get over it. Your dog won't get over the needle.
I don't expect -- or WANT them to allow anyone else to do the same, though.
If I had kids, I'd expect the dogs to show the kids the same patience, BUT I'd also expect my kids to leave the dogs alone when they're eating unless there's a reason. Adults are pretty much on their own in my view of the world. I just make sure I'm the buffer between my dogs and the rest of the world and don't give other people access to my dogs except in very controlled circumstances. I don't put my dogs at the mercy of other people, even family members. Especially family members. If there are cousins and their kids around my dogs are safe and away. Unseen and not vulnerable to idiots.
Our dogs are willing to protect us, some even with their lives. We should be willing to at least protect them from situations that put them on the defensive whenever possible, and if it hurts someone's feelings, well, that's better than the possible alternatives. They'll get over it. Your dog won't get over the needle.