Joce I'm so sorry I have been there before as well. I think alot of us have at one time. My ex husband was a cheater. I don't even know where he is now. I had a couple of relationships in between, but now I'm married again to a wonderful man. I guess I just want to say it does get better. We wouldn't say that unless we had been through it
As someone stated very well, You are better than that. You are better and you deserve better. I mean for a start he has turned off his phone and isn't answering? That on its own would make my blood boil. It's a big insult, a real message saying "I don't want to talk to you".
I am not going to say to you "it's ok you will find someone else". Yes in time you will, but your thoughts she be as far from that as possible. It's time at the moment for healing, and time for you. You have to grieve, you have to do the painful bit before there is light at the end of the tunnel. And there will be light trust me. When my first marriage broke, up I thought I just might very well die from the pain. But I didn't, I survived and so will you
Hug your dogs, walk them spend time with them, keep a diary, write your thoughts and pain down. Pamper yourself, love yourself and who you are
Sending all the best hugs and vibes
You will get through it..
As someone stated very well, You are better than that. You are better and you deserve better. I mean for a start he has turned off his phone and isn't answering? That on its own would make my blood boil. It's a big insult, a real message saying "I don't want to talk to you".
I am not going to say to you "it's ok you will find someone else". Yes in time you will, but your thoughts she be as far from that as possible. It's time at the moment for healing, and time for you. You have to grieve, you have to do the painful bit before there is light at the end of the tunnel. And there will be light trust me. When my first marriage broke, up I thought I just might very well die from the pain. But I didn't, I survived and so will you
Hug your dogs, walk them spend time with them, keep a diary, write your thoughts and pain down. Pamper yourself, love yourself and who you are
Sending all the best hugs and vibes
You will get through it..