Ever since we've gotten our Jack Russel "Jack", me and my sisters have bitterly fought on how to handle Jack.
Jack is a plump little rocket who jets around our house. If you approach him he runs away, if you feign disinterest he knows and keeps his distance. This is a problem when it comes to disciplining him, he knows he's done something wrong , and he knows if he stays away from anything with two legs he won't be punished. In the very rare occasions we manage to corner him he's like a greased pig! When I do catch him I usually grab the only part of him that's available, the large patch of loose skin on the back of his neck/front shoulder blades. I then lift him to my chest and hold him there until I cant get him to where we need him. This action alone is enough to drive my sisters into a fit of screams and protests.
I get scolded for picking up this pound of sausage the "wrong" way (only way available), which only really occurs for about 3 seconds or however long it takes to get him under control. Maybe if I picked him up by his hind legs and hammer threw him into the back yard i'd deserve this sort of reaction, but not this. Even Jack shares my feelings, he just stares blankly and indignant as I lift him, if he was hurt he isn't showing it and our dogs milk every ailment that happens to drift into their pampered lives.
I try to justify my actions to them, trying to explain how mammalian mother's pick their young up by the very area I grasp. This morning I even saw a Panda mother on television pick up her child, who weights about 5x more then jack, and drag it for more then a minute. I can even come to to level ground with them about how such holding could cause damage if done frequently, violently, and over prolonged periods. But no, i'm automatically wrong for even trying.
Am I really wrong?
Jack is a plump little rocket who jets around our house. If you approach him he runs away, if you feign disinterest he knows and keeps his distance. This is a problem when it comes to disciplining him, he knows he's done something wrong , and he knows if he stays away from anything with two legs he won't be punished. In the very rare occasions we manage to corner him he's like a greased pig! When I do catch him I usually grab the only part of him that's available, the large patch of loose skin on the back of his neck/front shoulder blades. I then lift him to my chest and hold him there until I cant get him to where we need him. This action alone is enough to drive my sisters into a fit of screams and protests.
I get scolded for picking up this pound of sausage the "wrong" way (only way available), which only really occurs for about 3 seconds or however long it takes to get him under control. Maybe if I picked him up by his hind legs and hammer threw him into the back yard i'd deserve this sort of reaction, but not this. Even Jack shares my feelings, he just stares blankly and indignant as I lift him, if he was hurt he isn't showing it and our dogs milk every ailment that happens to drift into their pampered lives.
I try to justify my actions to them, trying to explain how mammalian mother's pick their young up by the very area I grasp. This morning I even saw a Panda mother on television pick up her child, who weights about 5x more then jack, and drag it for more then a minute. I can even come to to level ground with them about how such holding could cause damage if done frequently, violently, and over prolonged periods. But no, i'm automatically wrong for even trying.
Am I really wrong?