remember that iti takes that excess stretched skin awhile to go back as well. THere is nothing for that but pure time. Some of your "pooch" maybe just that. I showed my best friend my tummy right after childbirth, i was horrified, and so was she. So much she swore off ever having children and she didn't either! After a couple years, everything went back the way it was suppose to (with sit ups) except for the stretch marks and they too faded and are not nearly as noticable. Your tummy will never be totally the same, but you can consider that a badge of honor. I have never had a man complain, that is for sure.