PLEASE! Prayers for family, please? This is REALLY important to me.

SmexyPibble

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I need prayers for my cousin, Bobby. I need prayers for my bestfriend, Koda. I need prayers for my Grandma. I need prayers for my brother, Tyler.


(photo is of Bobby)​
Bobby (who is 19 years old) was in jail until last Saturday. He left his current wonderful girlfriend, Krystal, who brings out the best in him to be with his disgusting whorreee exgirlfriend, Emily, who brings out the worst in him. He says he would trade all of his family and friends to be with Emily; which is NOT true, his family brings out the best in him. He loves helping people, he really does, but he has trouble helping himself. He says he will not talk to any of his family until he changes, but he likes to take the easy way out. He needs to change; he needs to decide that he is going to be there for his family, NOT take the easy way out, go to his anger management, FINISH high school, get a job, and drop the people who bring him down, and hold the people who make him smile close. He says he will change; he called me from jail 2 days before he got out and told me he wanted to change; that he would go to anger management, would go to solo counseling and to couple counseling with Krystal, that he would go to church twice a week, and that he would work on the relationships important to him in his life, that he would never see Emily again; that he knew Krystal would forgive him but he wasn't sure if he could forgive himself, and he didn't feel as if he deserved Krystal. He hates his relationship with his father, and is afraid of loosing his father because of his bad health; but he doesn't have the balls to have a heart to heart conversation with his father and make it right - even though he cries over it every night. PLEASE pray for Bobby to have the strength to CHANGE, to leave Emily for good, to make things right with Krsytal because everyone, including him, KNOWS that it will be best. Pray for him to have the balls to fix stuff with his dad, with his family, and to change himself, because he has SO many people who love him, he just doesn't realize it. He means the WORLD to me, and I know that if he stays with Emily, I will never see him again...

Koda (who is 14 years old) has had troubles with suicide, cutting, drug abuse, abuse by parents, kicked out by parents, abuse in relationships, alcohol abuse, etc. in the past. His life is VERY screwed up and he knows it. He is FINALLY getting the strength he needs to change. He is FINALLY stopping with cutting, stopping with putting his gun to his head every night. He is finally cutting down on doing the drugs, and drinking the alcohol. He has FINALLY started looking at life in a more positive way, he has began to realize how absolutly SPECIAL he is inside, in his own ways, and showing his happiness, laughing with me again; and I absolutly LOVE seeing him happy now, so when he is happy, I'm happy. Well, his exgirlfriend came around and started calling him useless, full of himself, etc. etc. and bringing him down and saying she wanted him back, also? She makes me fscking SICK. Please pray for Kodie to have the strength to continue with changing, get off the drugs, and kick that exgirlfriend to the curb EVERYTIME she tries to come around, for his own good!

My Grandma was hit by a truck on her bike; she has been in the hospital. On and off oxygen, throwing up on and off, and just had surgery on her broken knee on one leg, and broken ankle on the other. She is such a wonderful lady and her whole family is there for her, but please pray for her quick recovery and her ability to get back on her bike; because she loves it oh so much.

Tyler (who is 23 years old), my brother, has been having fevers, extreme muscle aches, not being able to walk, barely breathe, etc. and has to smoke marijuana to be able to sleep at all. Please pray for him to get better; he refuses to go to the doctor because he says it is a waste of money, which he does not have at the time, and he refuses to be a "pill popper" and lies and says he took his medication and pills when he really didn't; unless I am there to absolutly force him to. Please pray for his quick recovery, although I am sure he will be well soon and the other 3 prayers are more important, I still hate seeing my brother in pain. :(

Thanks SO much! This means the world to me. I hope this all goes through well, I sure hope so...
 

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You have my prayers and thoughts.
It sounds like everyone is going through so much, I wish I was there to give you and all of them a huge hug and let yall know it'll be okay.
 

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Holy cow! Here's hoping everything turns in your favour. ((((hugs))))
 

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You definitely have my prayers!

"Blah blah, tragic fishcakes."
Zoom... this cracked me up. I saw this in your siggy when I was reading the thread and at first glance I thought this was your response to Smexy, but then I realized it was your siggy. I was about to wag my finger at you and tell you to get in your room because you've been a big mean bad Zoom.
 

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My uncle went to jail yesterday for punching my aunt. My 13 year old cousin was listening the whole time, and recorded her dad screaming, "YOU STUPIDWHORE! YOU GAYSKANK! YOU DONT EVEN HAVE A JOB! YOU SHOULD JUST DIE" all because my aunt wouldn't let him watch the Deadliest Catch. And then he started punching her and she started screaming bloody murder for her life, and my cousin called the police. I guess abuse runs in the blood... :(

Bobby just sent me this Myspace message:
hey i am truly sorry for bailing out on u and everyone else i just am so afraid of changing and not like who i become that i will not try any more ya know i am sorry for everything. . .
 

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Oh God.... Bre (((((HUGS)))))
I REALLY hope things get better for you and your family.
I'm sorry that your little cousin had to listen to that... :(
 

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I just cannot believe he did that. I know how my aunt feels, you know? It's just, hard. & my cousin HATES him now. None of that **** he said was true, either. I guess my cousin knows how I feel, about not being able to forgive or forget what my mom did, because she sure as hell is hating her dad for what he did.

Thanks Dakotah, I just keep hoping things get better, too, so we can all be...happy, I guess. If that's even possible with this fzcked up family.
 

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