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I was wondering if you could help me on this one? My mom is a bit concerned that I got a Pit Bull/ Boxer mix on top is a bit timid already....though she has already came a long way and I don't want to give up on her.

Well, the question is.... Is she more likely to turn on our family? My mom keeps saying that I need to watch her all the time to make sure that she won't turn and bite us or the kids.

What concerns me is that a little girl was walking down the street yesterday, never heard Hadassah growl ever before, and she started to growl at her. Only aggression I have ever seen in her.

My Mom also thinks that she was abused by the family that I got her and that is why she thinks wouldn't let us come to her house and see the pups there.

I am sorry about all the questions, I am just concerned and wanted to know what you all think. I know that I am saying a lot what my Mom thinks, but my Grandpa was a top dog trainer in the Air Force and I respect what she thinks and I just want to clearify everything.

My pup has started to come around and is very playful and yesterday was the first time a actually heard her barka nd it was wonderful to see her playing the way she was.

Please any insight would be greatly appreciated. Thank you all!
 
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Dogs do not "turn" on people. Dogs are a product of their genetics and their up bringing. In nearly ALL cases of dog bite injuries, there were plenty of warnings given by the dog that were either ignored or missed by the people in charge of the dog. In a few VERY RARE INSTANCES there is a medical reason for a dog attack, but this is very rare.

The best advice is to train and socialize your puppy to have good behavior, and to include her as often as possible on outings and in activities.

Use food treats to teach her that people are a good thing. Get her out often to visit with as many people as possible. Distract her if she demonstrates behaviors you don't want. Reward her handsomely for demonstrating behaviors you DO want.

Find a good training class and enroll NOW. Keep going on a regular basis for the first 12-18 mos of the dog's life. I would expect that a Boxer/Pit mix would be an outstanding friendly athletic dog that will be a lot of fun if you do your job and train and socialize her properly.

Good luck!!

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:D Thanks, I appreciate it. My Mom got me all worried and rethinking it all, since I do have small kids myself. I know that pits can be aggresive but I always thought that a dog is product of how it is raised.

I do take her everywhere we go that will allow dogs and we do plan in enrolling her in the next puppy class at Pet Smart mainly for the interaction with other dogs and people. She is very smart and very sweet.

I guess, I was just listening to everyone who looks at her and starts on that " You got a Pit!, You know they are aggresive and dangerous! " Then you hear all those horror stories. Then I start worrying as a Mommy that it could be your kids.

Thank you for your help.
 

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No she is not more likely to turn on you guys because of her breed, that is myth that gets many dogs killed because people get rid of them because they are "going to turn on us". Growling at kids means she has not met enough of them and may be under socialized...how old is she? Make sure she meets LOTS of people but that it is always a good experience. Hand the people a treat to give her before they touch her so they know that they mean no harm. Did you say you got her from a breeder that would not let you see mom and pups? That is something you never want to do, it could mean she was a puppy mill with ill and neglected animals and your money went to support that. It also means that your puppy got very little socialization and could account for her timidness. You also did not know if the mom and dad had good temperaments or poor temperaments so who knows what your pups genetics are like, that is why it is important to always go to a breeder that lets you meet pups and mom and dad (or at least mom) and preferably who's dogs have their CGC (Canine Good Citizen) are therapy dog certified or some other proof of good overall temperament.

But just coming from a bad breeder does not mean she will be a bad dog. Dog bites mainly occur out of fear/lack of socialization which means something new (a different genre of people than she's used to...say kids) trys to interact with her and she gets scared and bites out of defense. So your duty to her is to make sure no group of people are new to her. That means people of all colors and ages, with beards, hats, umbrellas, on bikes, running, in wheelchairs, on crutches, short hair, long hair, tall people, short people, men and women etc. You also need ot make sure not too many situations are new to her. et her used to sounds like thunder, the lawnmower, the stereo and TV, children screaming as they play, dropping something by accident, tripping on a chair so it slides and bangs the floor, cars driving by, people jogging by, people riding their bikes by etc. If she does not get used to all these things and more she may develop a fear of them and fear can lead to bites. SO make sure she meets TONS of people and always watch her to make sure she is not afraid. If she is tell them not to touch her but to offer her a treat instead and then go away until she is more comfortable with people approaching. Bring her every where you can possibly go so that she can meet LOTS of people and LOTS of dogs (dogs once she gets her shots, until then only have her meet dogs you know are healthy and vaccinated).

Don't let people pet her on top of the head if she cowers or moves away when they do, it's a very intimidating gesture. Have them pet her body or chest instead, or even the side of her head as long as they don't reach over the top.

I have met both boxers and Pit Bull breeds and here is what I have to say, you have an EXTREMELY people loving and needing dog who needs LOTS of exercise. Both breeds are extremely active so should be getting multiple walks a day as well as some off leash running in an enclosed area. They love people so don't listen to people who tell you she is going to be aggressive because of her breeds, many people on this forum have pitties so check it out. Check out this site: http://www.dontbullymybreed.com/

And I agree with Redyre, find a puppy training class so your pup can learn something and get socialized. If you ever need help training anything ask us in the training or puppy section of the forum and we will help you out.

What you should be aware of with your breeds is that they tend to dislike other dogs so make sure you socialize a lot with dogs when she's young but keep and eye out for him not liking dogs as an adult, there is often nothing you can do about that but learn to get your dog to ignore other dogs and focus on you when they are around.

And once again please don't listen to ignorant people who tell you your dog is going to mean, they don't know what they are talking about, listen to people who have owned these dogs and really know what the breed is all about.
 
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I will add one more thing:

It is extremely important that you monitor closely ALL interactions between the puppy and the children. Children must learn how to respect and treat the puppy, and vice versa.

Children must not be allowed to taunt, torment, disrespect or annoy puppies. Puppies must be taught manners so that they can interact in a positive way with children. Where people get in trouble with kids and dogs is when there is inadequate supervision and training for both dogs AND CHILDREN.

Use crates, fencing, baby gates, etc, to confine dogs and children separately when you cannot supervise.

Make firm rules for children and puppy, and stick to them.

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Thank you, Maxy24!! Thank you so much all of you! :D I appreciate all that information. I feel that Hadassah is a very sweet and truely wants to please. I know that she needs more socialization and I have been exposing her to a lot of changes and noises. She does coward if I yell, I do try not to but do have kids and they can do things that startle me :yikes:

She has came a long way already and I just love her to pieces. Having her has been a new expierence and wonderful one at that.

My kids do respect her, that has ben a huge thing with my husband and I. We have always had small animals, our cats, and have taught them to respect small animals and animals altogether.

We are also trying to boost her confidence. If any of you have any suggestions, please let me know. I take her outside to run a lot, still trying to teach her to walk on a leashe, that has been a hard one for us because she submits and rolls over on her back. She is also so gentle that she won't even play tug-a-war with me. I read somewhere that it could boost her confidence.

Overall she gets tons of attention and love in our house. She's another baby to us. Please any help would be greatly appreciated. Thank you again, everyone! :D I do appreciate it and I will also put pics of her on here soon!
 
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Confidence will come with familiarity. The more she goes out and walks around her neighborhood and sees that nothing bad will happen to her, the better she will get. You may want to carry treats with you and hand them to people that want to pet her, so she will associate new people with good things.

One thing: You mentioned her timid behavior. Don't acknowledge her fear! If she's afraid of something, no hugs, no baby talk, no petting. When you acknowledge a dog's fear, you give strength to it. If possible, walk up to the thing she's afraid of and touch it, talk to it. (Example: Fear of big blue USPS mailbox. Walk up, pet the mailbox, "Oh wow, what a cool mailbox! That's neat!") That may sound strange, but if she sees her fearless leader interacting with something and not getting injured, it will help to embolden her. If she comes up and even so much as gives the new thing a sniff, give her lots of praise for her courage.
 
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There is EXCELLENT advice in this thread.

I just wanted to say that I have a 5 month old and my pit bull is AMAZING with her. My family also warned me of having a pit bull and that he would eventually turn on me and my daughter just because he is a pit bull, and thats just due to ignorance on their part.
 

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Thank you for all the advice, I have been following it and we had a great night lastnight. I took her again to my husband's softball game and had interacting with all the people there. :) At our church softball games there is ALL different types of people for her to interact with. She just loves the little children there. It even helped her with walking on her leash, as amazing as that is. Usually when I try to get her to walk on her leash she will walk a few steps and then roll on her back. :( I get frustrated with that, but I just turn my back and ignore her when she does that. I am just so proud of her. I do carry her treats with me at all times when she is with me so that I can reward her when she does really well.

I am just so proud of her, she has came by leaps and bounds already. One of the ladies that at our softball game has several Pit Bulls says, from the first time that she met Hadassah is that she thinks that she was abused. She seen her lastnight and says that she is acting so much better and just can't believe that it's the same pup. She said that by the end of the season Hadassah will be a whole different dog, well socialized.

I just thank you all for you support and help. Please continue to give me any advice that can help further our progress. Everything you all have said has worked wonders. Any time that she pouts and cowards down we just turn our backs or ignore her. Having a hard time though with the kids, they're sweet and don't like seeing her sad. :lol-sign:

I just need to get her to walk better on the leash, she likes to run or she gets scared and lays down, to help socialize and see the different things around. Any advice on this would be wonderful! :D

Thank you all again, I just appreciate all the encouraging words! It's hard to hear people say things like you need to get rid of her, " if she timid and scared now she can turn on you later. She a pit, they are unpredictable. "

Thank you again!
Jenni
 
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I would have to agree with every bit of advice on this thread. There are rare occassions where a thread is actually informative. :)
 
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I would have to agree with every bit of advice on this thread. There are rare occassions where a thread is actually informative. :)
How incredibly condescending of you.

Fortunately, we have many knowledgeable, experienced members who invest more of their time, knowledge, experience and care than to just post hit and run quickies to try to get people to their websites.

:rolleyes:

Consider this fair warning. There's a fine line between being an opportunist and pure spam.
 
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oh wow. I had no intention of talking down by any means. I was actually complimenting the folks posting. I was agreeing with advice being given and I am only here to help people who might have questions. I apologise if my intentions were interpreted wrong. And as for my website it's actually just a place for people to ask questions as well. Im just doing my best to get out there and help. I like that there are informed caring people out there in the world. And in all honesty I have been reading on many different forums. Not only this one and sometimes people do make alot of breed assumptions.. Which is why I said that I find it rare that a thread can be completely informative.
 

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