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This last weekend I took in a intact male Pitbull mix that I just love! But I am kind of intimidated by him as well. I think he could be mixed with American Bulldog because he is pretty big. Anyways he is very sweet and excellent with other dogs but sometimes the way he looks at me makes me feel uneasy. He just stares at me sometimes and I get a cold feeling. I have had Pitbulls before but I haven't really had one that made me feel this way. Maybe it's his size I really don't know. He also needs some training as he doesn't like to listen to me he has a lot of energy and is very stubborn. I have never had a intact adult male Pitbull before. I am going to get him neutered when I get paid next.

Please give me some kind of advice..anything
 

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They can sense if you're nervous, and pit bulls are a breed of dog who will challenge for the pack leader position. If you are a nervous pack leader, he will not think you are a good candidate for the leader position and challenge you for it, which could be part of that "look". Work on not being anxious, scared, or nervous around him. Dogs can sense it! Be relaxed, and like a pack leader around him :)
 

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I wouldn't get in a challenge position with this dog; I would do a lot of NILIF; handfeed him his dinner (helps if he is a little hungry), a lot of positive rewards and a lot of positive set ups.

He needs to feel secure with you before any corrections are made.

Lots of ignoring when he doesn't listen.

I would avoid any direct challenges to dominant positions.

Does he go in a crate o.k. for you? Does he do any commands for you? Does he express any happiness in you paying attention to him. Stuff like that gives you a base to work on.
 

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When does he stare at you? When he wants something or when you are doing something he dislikes or some other time? It could just be how he looks or it could be him trying to tell you something (either begging or warning). What does the rest of his body do when he stares? Is he tense/frozen in place? Do his eyes move at all? Do the whites of his eyes show (whale eye)?

Why don't you also start building a relationship with him where he has to learn respect but also trust. Try clicker training, it is really a great way to train and you teach dogs by telling them what they are doing right whether it be them sitting when you are trying to teach them to sit or even them NOT doing something like not barking when someone comes to the door even though they usually do bark when that happens. Clicker training allows for you to have a non-confrontational training relationship with your dog. Instead of always telling your dog he is wrong and punishing him or correcting him you can ignore or prevent the bad behaviors and reward the good ones until he is choosing the good ones all the time. Or take a bad behavior (licking guests constantly) and teach him, through clicker training, to do something else that prevents him from performing the bad behavior (holding a toy in his mouth when guests come over until he calms down makes it so he can't lick).

It's just a suggestion but after reading some books (I'm in the middle of Click to Calm by Emma Parsons) I am in love with clicker training and recommend it to everyone.

Right now I would not be thinking your dog is out to get you or that you need to be dominating him or anything like that. Just remember you don't know what he's been through (unless you do lol) or what might be threatening or scary to him. Focus on building his trust and start training with him in a positive manner so he learns how to listen and respect you and knows the rules of your house, knowing the rules will help him feel more secure as there is no guess work for him, he does not have to try things out and see if he was wrong, you tell him what to do from the beginning through marking every good choice he makes and preventing him from making bad choices (by dog proofing and marking good behavior such as behaving well at the front door when guests come, even if he was not showing the bad behavior (jumping, barking etc.) in the first place, he needs to know he is doing it right and does not need to experiment further).


Hope this helps! How is he fitting in? Does he enjoy being around you or is he nervous at all? I'd love to see some pictures of him :D
 

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I don't think that he is staring at you like people stare. Mikado my older APBT wil sit and look at me his eyes are very intense compared to other dogs. When I notice him doing this I look back at him and whisper I love Kado. He looks at me and then closes his eyes in a long blink. He is content.

Since you just took him in what kind of home did he come from? Was he abused? He could be wondering what is going to happen. Give him and yourself some time. Neutering him is a very good idea.
 
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Does he go in a crate o.k. for you? He does not at all, I usually have to put a treat in his crate and he goes in for it then I shut the door.
Does he do any commands for you? No, he doesn't know any
Does he express any happiness in you paying attention to him. Never, he usually ignores me.
He doesn't really like to be touched.
I don't think he was abused because he is not hand shy at all
How is he fitting in? Does he enjoy being around you or is he nervous at all?
When I put him out in the yard to play with my female dog I usually go in to get a drink or something he just looks and continues playing with my female dog like he could care less.
He is not nervous at all around me or anyone.
Since you just took him in what kind of home did he come from?
The lady who gave him to me said she found him on her porch because her Chi was in heat, she said she had him for two months trying to find the owners but never had any luck.
When does he stare at you? I will just be sitting on the couch watching him play with my female dog and they will stop playing and he will just sit there and start staring at me like what's next or what are you looking at? It's really creepy so I then look away.
What does the rest of his body do when he stares? Is he tense/frozen in place? He is relaxed and laying or sitting still.
Do his eyes move at all? Do the whites of his eyes show (whale eye)?
His eyes do not move they just look right into mine like he's trying to read my mind!! I swear!!
I'd love to see some pictures of him I will go take some of him right now.
I named him PJ and he is going by it now.
I have been ignoring him just like he does to me (is that good to do?), I pay more attention to my female she's so sweet..
 
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I can't find my usb cord so here's some pics from the lady who found him
He has gained a lot more weight since these pics




 

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I think that when he is ooking at you he is wanting attenion. Do you talk to him? I would say something "Whatcha want boy?" see what he does. If he is not tense when he is looking at you he is not challenging you. I would spend time with him. Take just him for a walk. Have down time for just the two of you. I think he will come around to wanting to be with you then.
 
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I think that when he is ooking at you he is wanting attenion. Do you talk to him? I would say something "Whatcha want boy?" see what he does. If he is not tense when he is looking at you he is not challenging you. I would spend time with him. Take just him for a walk. Have down time for just the two of you. I think he will come around to wanting to be with you then.
I think this is excellent advice :) It sounds like he's never had a chance to really bond with anyone. Spoil him, treat him, but do it on YOUR terms, not his. Make the time for just the two of you fun and special. Keep it interesting, and always include scratches or rubs or pets along with the treats and talking to him in a sweet voice, so that he learns to associate those things with being happy.

Give happiness a value to him. Sounds like maybe he's never really had that experience.

Oh, and I'll move this for you :)
 
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I went out to try to take some pics of him earlier and he licked me a few times in the face lol. I think he is coming around

Thanks for the advice DaVinci that makes a lot of sense.
 
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If it makes you feel any better, Tallulah gives me that same intense look. I think the lower lip - the Pittie Pout - really gives them a more challenging look.

All Tallulah wants is attention. Or a cookie. Or to go out. Or to be played with. Or all of the above all at once :rofl1:
 
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Awww that does make me feel better Renee750il! It's nice to know that I am not the only one that is getting these looks from their Pibble :)
 

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