Instead of just adding to the old thread on a similar topic, I am starting a new one. The mods can feel free to consolidate or delete, I will not be offended. When people post items of a personal nature, it is important to not respond with comments that are judgmental or likely to hurt.
It has previously been stated that it is important to stomp on people that do things with their pets that members deem inappropriate in order to educate not just the posters, but also lurkers. I actually have issues with this theory as well, but there is no way it can be applied to posts here, in the non-dog part of the forum.
Civil behavior applies here, just the same as it does in the real world. If a person came to you with some of the problems posted here, and asked for help and support face to face, I certainly hope some of you would be more tactful than you are here.
The easiest thing to do if you do not have anything nice to say, is to say nothing. If you find some threads whiny or annoying, ignore them. I see too many people getting hurt here. And I really don't like the gang mentality, where one person states a negative opinion and then others echo it.
Everyone knows that posting in all caps is like yelling. Well, this reptitive negative posting is just like surrounding someone and ganging up on them. It is essentially bullying.
Remember, these are real people you are talking to.
And i will reiterate the motto I wish we would all follow:
First, do no harm.
It has previously been stated that it is important to stomp on people that do things with their pets that members deem inappropriate in order to educate not just the posters, but also lurkers. I actually have issues with this theory as well, but there is no way it can be applied to posts here, in the non-dog part of the forum.
Civil behavior applies here, just the same as it does in the real world. If a person came to you with some of the problems posted here, and asked for help and support face to face, I certainly hope some of you would be more tactful than you are here.
The easiest thing to do if you do not have anything nice to say, is to say nothing. If you find some threads whiny or annoying, ignore them. I see too many people getting hurt here. And I really don't like the gang mentality, where one person states a negative opinion and then others echo it.
Everyone knows that posting in all caps is like yelling. Well, this reptitive negative posting is just like surrounding someone and ganging up on them. It is essentially bullying.
Remember, these are real people you are talking to.
And i will reiterate the motto I wish we would all follow:
First, do no harm.