When it comes to dogs, or any other type of animal....then you must define "being physical." No, I would not hit, kick, punch my dog for him/her to submit. I would never break their will. But, in my own training methods, I use the most humane, FUN, educational, brain stimuli that I can do. BUT, I do incorporate training to fit each animal.... like if I am training a dog, I become the pack leader, parrots...part of the flock, monkeys...part of the troop, big cats (lions)....part of the pride, and etc... I know it takes a lot to learn animal behavior, but do some research on canine/pack behavior, talk to some trainers, even just over the phone...and then find where you feel comfortable. Yes, you will prob. get several different answers to a lot of questions, but the basics should all be the same. Yes, I could give tons of animal training advice, but I became a mom 2 years ago and I feel sooooo lost. Anyway one want to help me here....haha! There is NO one book, or trainer who has all the answers, since dogs and animals have different personalities just like people. Different fears, aggression, and all that. Just love your dog, do as much research as you can and find the common ground that fits you and your dog.
Amy