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I like your perspective on "ownership." To be rewarding, the relationship really is more of a partnership.

Many of the issues people used to consider as problematical about keeping a dog in the house are moot today. Fleas were always a central issue, and with the new flea deterrents (i.e. Frontline and Advantage) fleas are more likely to come into your home on your pantlegs than on your dogs.

If you keep your dog well groomed and cleaned, shedding shouldn't be too much of an issue, providing you don't choose a heavy shedder.
 

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As far a bathing your dog, it will depend on your breed. Some dogs only need a bath once a month, others only once a year....it depends on a lot of things. Also, if you are going to get a dog with hair that will need cut (such as yorkie, westie, golden retriever, chow, bichon, shih tzu, lhasa), PLEASE only get this dog if you can afford grooming at least every couple of months, some can go a little longer, some need less time that that. It gets costly, so please keep that in mind when you get a dog.
 

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I know about the expenses, I have done a lot of research. I'm glad I didn't rush into getting a dog before I looked up some info though. I have talked to my mom and convinced her to let the dog sleep in the house, as long as I clean up after him/her. As for my Dad, he wants nothing to do with the dog.Oh well, I'm not going to let that frustrate me, even though I would like his help as this is my first pet that doesnt live in water. As for the dog, I will come home this Friday afternoon with my new buddy!! I'm really excited about the new addition to my family. I will keep everyone updated and will try to upload some pictures this Friday.
 
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Cool! What kind of dog/mix is it? Hopefully everything goes well! (And I know all about dads being stubborn....it took me a whole year to convince my dad to let me get a parakeet! But now Dad likes watching Abby playing with her toys in her cage, so it worked out pretty good.)
 

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I don't know about HAVING to go to a groomer. I never do with my newfie. There's nothing that they can do that I can't do for him the comfort of our own home. I guess it would be a nice luxury to take him in every couple of months but not a necessity. Grooming your dog is just part of owning it I think.
 

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I dont know what kind of dog, but it will be a puppy, preferabally a bulldog. I know my dad will warm up to it, as he has a way with dogs. I'm glad to hear that grooming doesn't have to be done by a professional. I would like to ask a question(sorta a newbie question,bear with me). Why is it bad to chain a dog while you are away , for instance in school?
 
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My dogs rarely go to a groomer. If I feel they need a brushing, I brush them, and they're bathed once a month.

Congrats!! Where're you getting it from? Be sure to post pictures!!!
 

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Probably from petsmart. They only take dogs from pounds, and I have always wanted to help turn a dogs life around(cheesy, yes I know). I have a question, tho, does anyone use those things that go around the dogs waist and stop him from urinating on the carpet or floor? I cant remember the name but will have to look it up.
 

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Chaining a dog can put them at great risk and is also bad for their ego. If you insist on tying him up only do so while he is supervised.

I've never heard of that contraption you're describing and I don't think anyone here has one or would use one.
 
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You don't want to chain your dog because 1.) They can strangle themselves 2.) Chained dogs often fall prey of neighborhood bullies (both animal and human) 3.) Your dog can't escape if it needs too 4.) Chanied dogs are normally the dogs that bark, dig, and chew while they are left unsupervised and 5.) Chained dogs normally are at risk with the elements.

Um, I think I know what you are talking about when you say a thing that goes around a dog's waist. They have them for males and females. They are sorta like doggy diapers. The ones for the females are used for when they are in heat, or have housetraining problems and the ones for the males are to prevent marking.
I wouldn't reccomend one to help you with housetraining, but then, I don't know much about them either.
 

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yeah, ixnay on the dogglebullay. LOL. Here is the link of the "contraption". Little worried about it possibly causing infections?...Doggie Diaper
 

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Ha ha ha. Well, that's just too much. LOL I wouldn't use that. Good old fashioned housebreaking seems to work fine and I bet it's easier in the end. Can you imagine cleaning poop out of a doggy diaper. And wouldn't it get all in the hair? Ewww. I don't know. Has anyone used them?
 

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I want to but, Dad doesnt want a pissing machine running amuck in the house and dragging his butt on the new carpets. Also, I dont know how to, since we live in a two family home and we're upstairs, how will the dog access a doggy-door thats downstairs?
 

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I don't think you'll find anyone here that uses or likes doggy-doors. And I kind of think that using the diaper would hinder the process of house training. How about paper training?
 

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Okay, I have to throw my two cents in here. Hope nobody minds.

Rose already explained the chaining, and I have to ask you not to chain a dog, especially a puppy, unless you are outside with it. You can NEVER leave a dog unnatended on a chain.

Belly bands are the contraption you're talking about, and they are not for house training. They are for male dogs, that have marking problems. I've read that the Belly Band stays wet when the dog urinates, (to deter the dog from marking in the house) and since a puppy urinates every hour or two, it would do you no good at all. You'd have to clean it every time he pees, and you're not teaching him anything that way. If you just take him out every hour, after he wakes up, after he eats, and after he plays, you won't have a problem. I had two pups, both around 8 wks, and I just took them out very often, and had no messes. Good ol' house training is the very best. When you are at school, you'll just have to put him in a puppy proofed room (like a bathroom) with some puppy pads. Crating a young dog won't do anything for you, if you were considering crate training for your new buddy. When he's a bit older, you could crate train him; it's just that when he's little, he pees very often, and he'd be sitting in it all day.

Dog doors are just asking for trouble unless you have a secure fenced yard. I don't like dog doors. If your yard isn't fenced, and your baby is allowed to just run out the door whenever he pleases, he'll wander off, looking for something to play with, and could get hit by a car. And, none of us want for your new baby to get hurt!

Now, I'm sure you've read somewhere that all puppies make messes, right? I'm just wondering if your dad is prepared for a little pee on the carpet. That's all. I'm quite sure that you won't mind cleaning up after him. And, you have to obedience train them, as well. Pups are a handful for a firsttime dog owner. Why is it, if I may ask, that you want a puppy? An older dog is a much better choice for a first time dog owner. Gaddy got Tippy and May as adults, and she'll tell you that an adult dog will love you just as much as a puppy will. You don't have to raise it from puppy hood for it to love you. I'd really reccomend getting an adult dog this time around, and then getting a puppy the next time. But, that's just my opinion, and I think it would be much easier for you to get an adult this time.

But, just remember when you are at the shelter, not to go by the age of the dog; go by it's personality. The right dog will choose you, if you let it.

Good luck with the new furkid!! I'd love to see pictures! Have you thought of any names, yet? Names are always hard for me. If any of this post came out as harsh, I'm very sorry, that's not how it's meant at all. I think you will make a fabulous dog owner/buddy whatever you do!
 

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