My puppy barks and howls at strangers who try to pet him

[English Cocker]

My puppy barks and howls at strangers who try to pet him. I guess he's scared and I haven't introduced him to enough new people yet. When he does it I instinctively hold his shoulders and stroke him and get him to calm down. My friend says it's better to hit him because I'm condoning his behaviour. What do you think?

 

[Gempress]

Never hit your dog for being scared! That won't do a thing to make him less scared, in fact, it will make it worse. It sounds like your pup needs more socialization. First, have strangers offer him a very good treat whenever they approach. Don't let them stand over your pup. Have them sit down, then offer the treat and encourage puppy to approach. Second, take him out in public more. He needs to get used to people around.

 

[Fran27]

Your friend is right for one thing, if you pet your pup when he's acting this way he will think he is praised for barking. By all means, stop it. Ignore him totally and only praise him when he accepts to be petted.

 

[MyDogsLoveMe]

You also though need to remember when a pup is scared a soothing pet is just what the Dr. ordered. I agree with the treat suggestion and yes remember that people to pups are just HUGE....To them it looks live David v Goliath. Have them stoop to your pups level so there is more eye to eye contact. Take your pup to the park, sit on the grass with him and comfort him so when people ask if they can pet your pup he may feel a bit more relaxed.

 

[Doberluv]

I agree with Fran and Gempress. Socialize your pup more...a lot and make encounters with strangers and other pups pleasant. Associate the "bad, scary" things with something good. Don't make any fuss over the dog or give treats while he's acting up. Distract or turn him a little sideways first from a little distance and when he sees the scary people, but before he acts up, reward him. Gradually get him closer. Don't give any attention when he's acting riled up. But do when he's calm. Never ever scold or make an already stressed dog more stressed. More exposure is really important. How old is this pup? You really need to have lots of exposure by the time he's about 4 months. If he accepts someone coming close and they squat down, make sure they're not bending over him, showing their teeth and not giving direct eye contact. Have them turn a little sideways. Staring a dog in the eyes can be construed as an aggressive act.