My daughter, and Cornell University

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My youngest daughter just moved into Cornell University today. She's in her final year of pre-veterinary school working towards her Bachelors Degree this year.

I will only say this: if you have a child, or you yourself are thinking of attending Cornell University, be prepared for some things you weren't told during your orientation or interview.

Such as a parking permit is $687 a year. However, this does not assure you a parking spot. Nor does it assure you parking anywhere near your residence hall. It simply means you paid for a spot and IF you can find one on Campus, you can park there. This campus is HUGE. From her residence hall to what they call the North Campus is an hours walk. So imagine if you had no choice but to park that far from your dorm and walk that at night, alone. Not something I'd want to do!! She's checking into some places that have "parking rental by the month" signs out in front of some houses close by. No idea if they are going to be any cheaper or not, but worth a shot if it means she can park closer to her dorm and know she's assured a spot to park.

Television service is not provided. You must contact the local cable TV service provider, have them come install it, and you pay for it yourself. It's not included in your tuition. She has attended University of Pittsburgh, television service was included. She has attended State University of NY, service was included. Not at this Ivy League College it's not. We dont' know what that is going to cost extra either.

The campus is so huge that they provide bus transportation to and from classes. This is not included in your tuition. You pay for it on your own. Again no idea of cost yet as she just got there.

She said the ONLY thing she's seen so far that she likes is the dining hall. The food is good, and the hall is nice.

ANdria moved to NY 2 yrs ago, established residency herself and has been living in an apartment near her former college. She did this to get a break on tuition for Cornell as that's always been her aim , to get to Cornell. Now she wishes she would have never applied. They were to have an orientation today,,,,but no one knew where it was being held. As of right now, she still hasn't had one person from the college acknowledge she's even there. No one has helped her with any questions etc. She's stumbled into other students who have offered advice, or told them where they ended up finding help. But not one representative for the school has stopped in even to say Hi.

We moved her into the University of Pittsburgh and it went smooth as silk. They were so so so good about helping, getting the kids where they needed to go etc. No problems at all. When she transfered to SUNY, again, no issues, there were representatives everywhere to answer questions and help. In a college such as Cornell you would think they would have it running like a top............evidently they can't.

Sooo for $33,000.00 a year, what do you get at Cornell,,,,,,,,,,,evidently not a heck of a lot!!!! Other than the right to use their name on your diploma! Gotta love those "Designer" labels. ! UGH!!!!! She's already saying she will not be staying there even if it is supposedly the most highly recognized veterinary school to graduate from. ANd trust me, this girl is NOT spoiled, not in the least. But she IS smart enough to know when she's paying for something that isn't what it first appears to be.
 

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I hope she acclimates--nothing worse than hating where you are living/schooling. I wish her the best.
 

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HOly smokes.

With tuition that high I would hope that more things were included and there would be enough staff to help new students get acclimated.

That's a shame.

I hope once she figures everything out... on her OWN that she comes to like it and can get a good education there.
 

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Baxter, would your neice be able to give some tips to help Sniperess' daughter settle in a bit more?
 

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Hm, I know two people who have been there, one undergrad, one vet school, and both loved it. Perhaps she will settle in and get to appreciate some of the school's better qualities.
 

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My Dad, Uncle , cousin and great cousin all went to Cornell , though my Dad transfered to Ithaca for Mining Engineering . Good luck to her !!! Ivy League School diplomas mean something .
 

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Hopefully, the department that she will be taking most of her classes in will give some personalized attention and help her get her feet on the ground.

She will possibly, probably, have a different outlook in a couple of months.
 

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Ivy League School diplomas mean something .
So do diplomas from other colleges. I'd hate for anyone to say that the four year degree I got from one of the top ranked graphic design programs in the country means nothing, just because it's from a state college.


To the OP.... welcome to college, unfortunately. Colleges are experts at sucking money out of their students. At the college I attended, it was actually cheaper to live off-campus than to live in the dorms. Meal plans are thousands of dollars, and *mandatory*. Parking does not ensure a spot, and even if you do have a permit you have to find somewhere off-campus to park during football games. There are lots of misc. fees that amount to hundreds of dollars. Dorms are empty, no cable - you have to build your own lofts. Dorms are teeny little square boxes that you have to share with a complete stranger, and many of ours aren't air conditioned. There's one bathroom per floor, which means there are lines in the morning... looooong lines. The walls are thin, so you never have peace and quiet - which is why so many people stay on campus to study. Our campus *is* fairly compact, but it still takes 20 minutes to walk from one side to the other.

It's always hard the first year, and especially the first month or so - it's a complete overload, and it's stressful. I'd say give her time - she'll make some new friends soon, and feel a lot better. :)
 

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Ivy League School diplomas mean something .
Erm, yeah. If you are getting a general degree (don't think that's the correct term), even if it is from an Ivy League school, good luck getting a decent job. I know of a few people who have received degrees from Yale and Harvard, unless they are going on to get more schooling they have just as much trouble finding a job as someone from a community college. One guy I know has a history degree from Harvard and is working as a landscaper because he can't find a job with his degree.

Honestly I would rather go to my state school (for $6,000 a year) then an Ivy League school (for a gazillion dollars a year) right now because my state school has opportunities for me to work alongside professors and a good chance at getting published before graduation, opportunities that in many more prestigious schools are reserved for grad students.

/mini rant
 

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My Dad, Uncle , cousin and great cousin all went to Cornell , though my Dad transfered to Ithaca for Mining Engineering . Good luck to her !!! Ivy League School diplomas mean something .
SD... I'm not putting down other diplomas !

Perhaps you weren't, but to me that's how it read - that diplomas from ivy league schools have an extra oompf that degrees from other schools don't.
 

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I'm rather glad I stuck with my state school instead of going elsewhere. The Campus was small, maybe a 15 minute walk (or 5 minute bikeride) from the gym to Roosevelt Hall (opposite ends of campus). The food was...mass produced campus food, nothing inspired. But the staff/faculty/students were all helpful. Parking was a b*tch at the time, but nothing like what I'm hearing now. Free parking was the furthest lot and that was 15 minutes back up to the dorms. I shelled out a little over $100...I think...maybe more?...for Green parking, which was the closest. Dorms were old and solid, so while some noise percolated through, it wasn't bad. They gave us beds and an option to buy out the other half of the room to ensure a private room or gamble on getting one anyway. I technically had a roommate my first year, but she was never around. Had one first semest of soph. year but we ended up fighting a lot and she moved out and the room stayed private :D. Paid for a private in another door the third year and moved off-campus for senior year....which was a LOT cheaper. Got a bike to ride and all was well.

We had to pay for cable in the rooms, but each floor had a lounge with cable TV set up, so if you didn't mind a little bit of traffic around you, you could watch whatever you wanted.

I wanted to go to Cornell College in Iowa because of the way they had schedualing set up but I couldn't swing the $30K/year. Emporia ended up costing me $20K for four years.
 

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Whatever ..SD . If 2 resumes were identical , one from an Ivy League College and the other from Wherever U ,,,who do you think will get the job offer ??? Sadly , it does make a difference . ,,,,and I do mean sadly !
 

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Heck I don't get to park on campus at all!
I commute and I'm considered too close to get a parking decal (I'm about 1/2 mile away), and I'm actually happy because it'll force me to get some exercise (my tune will probably change mid winter though, lol). Plus I don't have a car anyways :p
 

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Cornell is beautiful, and a VERY good school. I spent a summer there. I understand your frustration with the costs. But don't sneer at the "designer" label. One, it really is a supurb school (I almost went there for law school) and two, that label will pay for itself in the doors it opens. These days, sadly, having a diploma from a top notch school is virtually a necessity for all sorts of career options, especially at the higher end. Its not fair, but it means that those lucky enough to get into somewhere like Cornell should take advantage of it! And, it is a great school, as I said.

Best wishes for your daughter . . . its a beautiful and fun place, and few things are more exciting than going to college!
 

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My kids took cars AND bikes to college . Parked cars and rode their bikes to classes . And yes , Cornell is beautiful !
 

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