Misty's Litter
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Do you know weights? They look huge to me, I just wanna get a better idea of size :rofl1:- Joined
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Thats why I stretched the truth about what happened, never really saying it wasn't my fault, but just the last forum scared me and I didn't know what to say, either way really your going to get put down even if you own up to it truthfully, so I should have not lied as long as I did, and I'm sorry. I just hope that I'm able to stay on the forum without people saying, thats the girl who lied to us, we hate her, but she fixed her mistakes and the pups are happy healthy and fixed, but she did what she did and she should be hanged!
I was just responding to you saying that giving advice and educating people doesn't always work, because it does work if solid advice is given without a huge amount of hooha, I personally learnt a lot from reading forums, not this one in particular but another one. I learnt the back yard breeding was a bad thing, and believe it or not I didn't know that before, if every one had gone off at me saying HOW THE BLEEP did you not know it was bad etc, I probably would have shut down and ignore them. It might be a sign of weak character, but I think it's a matter of also trying to protect ones self from harm, it's really a natural instinct. When my parents found out Roxy was pregnant, they didn't really care to fret about it because they didn't know it was a bad thing. I didn't know either, but eventually that pregnancy is what drove me to come out and look for more info, and if I was here, 2 years ago asking questions, I would probably have been flamed too. Luckily though, I did not post, and I did not get flamed and eventually I wanted more and more info. If I didn't come around, I probably would still be thinking BYB's were ok to buy from, yet now I am making an informed decision on a pups lineage and the status of it's parents Ch. status in whatever sport. 2 years ago I didn't even know about registered dogs...sad but true.
My point here is just because there a few examples of something not working, there may just be a lot more examples of said situation working, and working well.
My point here is just because there a few examples of something not working, there may just be a lot more examples of said situation working, and working well.
Understood, however someone else's unwanted advice could be life changing for another person if put out correctly...the chances are slim, but I was one of those slim chances and by the looks of things at least 2 other people that commented in this thread also learnt from forums that breeding was not a good thing. Chances are they learnt it from posts floating around that POSSIBLY the OP of THOSE threads didn't care to know about. (Metaphorically speaking here)
Wow…..
Just Wow….
Glad that seems to be over, and honestly…. I am not excusing telling fibs…. BUT I can understand why one would…
I debated even sharing Di's story for fear of this response….
I know on some forums I have been on, there have been people very good at coming across to their forum friends as highly respected members of the dog community, when in *real life* that is somewhat debatable….
Just because we have not "hunted" out lies on every member does not mean some do not do it… Or are just very good at it….
I think this was an honest case of someone wanting to not get kicked hard so she tried to make it sound a bit better… Not a good idea, but it does not mean she is a horrible person, just one trying, perhaps too hard to make a better impression…
I hope you tough it out, it will get better….
Just Wow….
Glad that seems to be over, and honestly…. I am not excusing telling fibs…. BUT I can understand why one would…
I debated even sharing Di's story for fear of this response….
I know on some forums I have been on, there have been people very good at coming across to their forum friends as highly respected members of the dog community, when in *real life* that is somewhat debatable….
Just because we have not "hunted" out lies on every member does not mean some do not do it… Or are just very good at it….
I think this was an honest case of someone wanting to not get kicked hard so she tried to make it sound a bit better… Not a good idea, but it does not mean she is a horrible person, just one trying, perhaps too hard to make a better impression…
I hope you tough it out, it will get better….
I'm not saying lying is a good thing, I'm saying that I understand why she did it. Like I said, I would think about lying, if I knew what would happen when I posted something like this.
I think Adrienne has given the most advice. Maybe you came across a little strong, but you feel strongly about it too.
I think Adrienne has given the most advice. Maybe you came across a little strong, but you feel strongly about it too.
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This.
When I first joined and posted about my awesome new wolf hybrid puppy, I got my panties in a wad because it (of course) turned into a debate about wolf hybrids. Because I really wanted to fit in here, I lied and said I rescued her instead of the truth, which was that I got her from a BYB. I did later tell the truth, but the point is that I felt the need to lie in the first place.
I try very hard to never lie (except by omission, which I think is everyone's right) and absolutely HATE being lied to. But I did it, and that's that. Fortunately, people on here were very understanding. I stuck around, and I'm better educated for it.
When I first joined and posted about my awesome new wolf hybrid puppy, I got my panties in a wad because it (of course) turned into a debate about wolf hybrids. Because I really wanted to fit in here, I lied and said I rescued her instead of the truth, which was that I got her from a BYB. I did later tell the truth, but the point is that I felt the need to lie in the first place.
I try very hard to never lie (except by omission, which I think is everyone's right) and absolutely HATE being lied to. But I did it, and that's that. Fortunately, people on here were very understanding. I stuck around, and I'm better educated for it.
