I feel like i am getting thrown into the deep end here. I just found out my fiance has decided to enlist, I say found out because on the night he was going to tell me his friend came over and blurted it all out. Now I am not one for change... at all and I am not really for this but in the end I will support him no matter what. Just with the way I was told my anxiety attacks have been horrendous and I have been a wreak these past few days. It wouldn't be near as bad but we have a one year old son. So military families, Navy wives,.... anyone help? lol. I have so many questions swarming around in my head I cant even really word them. I dont know what is going to happen and I hate that and I am scared because of that. How often is he actually going to be here? How often will he be at sea? Will he be stationed at a port in another country? Will it be one I can stay at? Will he be moving around a lot? Should we go with him if we can? Should we live on base or stay here? Do most Navy wives that are mothers work? If there kid isn't in school yet how? What do I need to know, what should he know? I guess really what I am asking here is help me to understand what it will be like. I want to live on or near the base if he is going to be there for any amount of time but he thinks it would be best for me and my son to move back in with my mom. I can not stress enough how much I HATE not knowing! And how scared I am!.