My family is driving me insane.
Juno is just barely even 4 months old and she's expected to be a perfect dog already. But does anyone help me with any sort of training? No. I can do the basic commands by myself and I have been (so far we have sit, down, up, stand, off, and leave it under control... stay and come are a work in progress but she's doing good). Who knows whether or not she'll ever obey anyone other than me, but whatever.
The problem comes when we're dealing with behaviors that I don't want. The biggest one is the biting. It was tolerable for a while but now I think we're at the point where she should be understanding that her teeth don't belong on human skin. And guess what? She doesn't bite ME. Because I don't allow it and I get up and walk away whenever she tries. But everyone else encourages it. My mom will kiss and pet her while she's being chewed on and my brother thinks it's ridiculous that he should have her play with an actual toy. And yet, when they've had enough of the biting, they get ticked off and question me about why "my" dog bites all the time. She wouldn't bite all the time if they didn't make it fun for her. I just don't even know what to do because whenever I try telling them what to do, they just excuse it as normal puppy behavior... which yes, it is normal, but I don't want to just sit around hoping it's something she grows out of.
She gets what I call "sassy" too where she'll bark if I tell her to leave something and she also barks for attention. Really I'd rather just ignore it and give her the attention she wants once she's quiet. But nope, no one else wants to listen to it so they'll give her attention to quiet her... or they just yell at me to get her to be quiet.
I'm just sick of no one else doing anything for her. She shouldn't have to be crated so I can take a shower--my mom is fully capable of supervising her for 20 minutes. Or my mom always uses the excuse that she can't watch Juno while she's working. So how come she still doesn't help out on weekends or after work? No one WANTS to. What they don't understand is that I don't WANT to either, but it NEEDS to be done. I don't like sacrificing my entire summer for her; I don't like getting up at 7am and having to go to bed early, I don't like going for walks when it's hot and humid out and I don't like having to entertain and supervise her. But that's what a puppy's all about. Even if someone could just take her for a walk, that would be a nice break for me. They will go on walks WITH me and Juno but only twice has someone taken her without me. Quite honestly I wanted to go through a boxer rescue but it was my mom who wanted to go the puppy route. And I'm afraid we're going to end up with an out of control dog because I can't undo all the reinforcing of negative behaviors that goes on all day.
Yikes... I wasn't expecting this to be so lengthy. Cookies to anyone that read it. I just really needed to complain. I love my dog but some things just get 100000x more frustrating to deal with when everyone is yelling at you to do something about it.
Juno is just barely even 4 months old and she's expected to be a perfect dog already. But does anyone help me with any sort of training? No. I can do the basic commands by myself and I have been (so far we have sit, down, up, stand, off, and leave it under control... stay and come are a work in progress but she's doing good). Who knows whether or not she'll ever obey anyone other than me, but whatever.
The problem comes when we're dealing with behaviors that I don't want. The biggest one is the biting. It was tolerable for a while but now I think we're at the point where she should be understanding that her teeth don't belong on human skin. And guess what? She doesn't bite ME. Because I don't allow it and I get up and walk away whenever she tries. But everyone else encourages it. My mom will kiss and pet her while she's being chewed on and my brother thinks it's ridiculous that he should have her play with an actual toy. And yet, when they've had enough of the biting, they get ticked off and question me about why "my" dog bites all the time. She wouldn't bite all the time if they didn't make it fun for her. I just don't even know what to do because whenever I try telling them what to do, they just excuse it as normal puppy behavior... which yes, it is normal, but I don't want to just sit around hoping it's something she grows out of.
She gets what I call "sassy" too where she'll bark if I tell her to leave something and she also barks for attention. Really I'd rather just ignore it and give her the attention she wants once she's quiet. But nope, no one else wants to listen to it so they'll give her attention to quiet her... or they just yell at me to get her to be quiet.
I'm just sick of no one else doing anything for her. She shouldn't have to be crated so I can take a shower--my mom is fully capable of supervising her for 20 minutes. Or my mom always uses the excuse that she can't watch Juno while she's working. So how come she still doesn't help out on weekends or after work? No one WANTS to. What they don't understand is that I don't WANT to either, but it NEEDS to be done. I don't like sacrificing my entire summer for her; I don't like getting up at 7am and having to go to bed early, I don't like going for walks when it's hot and humid out and I don't like having to entertain and supervise her. But that's what a puppy's all about. Even if someone could just take her for a walk, that would be a nice break for me. They will go on walks WITH me and Juno but only twice has someone taken her without me. Quite honestly I wanted to go through a boxer rescue but it was my mom who wanted to go the puppy route. And I'm afraid we're going to end up with an out of control dog because I can't undo all the reinforcing of negative behaviors that goes on all day.
Yikes... I wasn't expecting this to be so lengthy. Cookies to anyone that read it. I just really needed to complain. I love my dog but some things just get 100000x more frustrating to deal with when everyone is yelling at you to do something about it.