Ive been quiet about this for too long....

[adojrts]

Babymomma, your how old??? You live at home, right??? Pay ANY bills? Support anything? Make any life and death decisions???

Plus your in the middle of something that happened before you were even a member, right????

Scob??? Live at home? Oh your in school correct?? Care for your own dogs everyday????? Who does care for your animals? Who pays your bills and makes those life and death decisions??

Island dog???? are you kidding me, I just read your thread in the FH, your throwing some aweful big stones for someone who is proving that they can't trusted. Yet your *TRYING* to justify your actions but you condemn Reggin??? oh please.............

Anyone else???? Who did I miss??

 

[scob89]

Don't go down that road, that's all I'm saying, you have NO clue about My life.

 

[babymomma]

Ado, Im 16,I support MY dog.

Yea, Im 16, this happened before I was a member, But guess what, THE THREADS ARE STILL HERE! I can read, Just because I read it 2-3 months after it originally happened Doesnt mean the info changed does it?

I might be a normal teenager and *gasp* Still living at home. But im not stupid. I know how life works. I understand that times can be tough for people. But she Got herself AND her child in a better situation by going to live with her mother. Now that they were taken care of couldnt she have I duno, Saved her dog?

But Correct me if Im wrong, Didnt she bring home a new puppy in this situation?

 

[FoxyWench]

All I can say is. wow...

Reg, hopefully you have it within you to ignore and move one, welcome back, hope you stay...

Baby, unfortunatlu this has NOT been dropped, before this post reg couldn't post ANYTHING without some snide comment or carry remark that had nothing to do with the post at all

folks It's easy to judge when you on the other side of a screen.
I've yet to see how the situation wasn't urgent...toddler, heavily preggers, no place to live that would allow the dog, a physically abusive drug addicted SO... Sound pretty urgent to me...

So take a step back folks, unless you've been in THAT exact situation you can't judge...

And while were at it let's let the innocent cast thefirst stone, there isn't a person here that hasn't done something they regret.

If you don't like reg, that's your right...
But if that's the case don't troll her threads/posts with nasty comments simply because it's a post by someone you don't like. If it has relivance that's fine, state your peice...
But the nasty carry highschool drama by some folks after everyone of reggins posts... Comments that are simply there to bring up the past and cause issues...those need to stop...

It's not just happening to reggin either, I've seen this with other posts and posters too...

 

[adojrts]

Don't go down that road, that's all I'm saying, you have NO clue about My life.

Yeah and that would my point, in case you missed it.

 

[smkie]

Jan. 26/09 Renee posted this from this thread: http://www.chazhound.com/forums/t92307-4/

Hang in there . . . sometimes things have a way of turning around. BUT, DON'T FORGET, come to us if Reggin needs a place and we'll see what we can come up with. I'd hope the low income housing where you are is a lot safer than what it is here. Here, you'd NEED Reggin.

You might very well be able to get to a rental assistance house instead, and possibly be able to keep him that way. Being alone with two babies . . . well, you need a dog.
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Please note the date - weeks before.

I wasn't going to post on this thread because of what i remember Reggin said but fact is this is what i remember went down.^^^^
IT is what it is and it is, done and over with now. BUt i don't blame people for posting the contradicting statements. The op opened it up knowing fully well how raw the subject is.
Basically i think we all need to let it go for it does the dog no good at this point. I loved Reggin, was a huge Reggin fan right from the beginning. I will never forget what a glorious Nanny dog he was. Life goes on and we live with our regrets and our mistakes. To make a thread like this just dredges it all up for all involved. I have made my mistakes too, one in particular that lays in my soul like lead. I have to live with it and REggin will have to live with hers. LEt him rest in peace.

 

[Island dog]

I don't mind you having your opinion on whether or not I can be trusted as long as you get the facts straight. That's all I'm asking. You can jump to the defense of anyone you choose but make it a defense - attempting to throw the spotlight and pressure away from the actual problem by attacking those who notice a discrepancy is not a defense against inaccuracy.

 

[babymomma]

See, thats the thing, She has posted a few threads lately and I havent seen any snide or rude remarks. I know for a fact that the people here Who strongly dislike this woman juhst stay out of her threads. Because It has HURT people here, maybe just as much as she claims it hurts her. I dont post in most of her threads. Because I dont like her.. Im sure People here dont like me But I dont givva Cr@p.. Im not going to start a thread for the people that DO like me to Pity me.. Did she think this thread wasnt going to go in a Bad direction? Maybe she wanted that I dunno.. She might like the drama.

 

[CharlieDog]

I don't live at home. I pay my own bills and support my own dogs. I care for them, take them to the vet when they need it, feed them a premium food and maintain their well being. I don't have children, but my dogs come first in everything. They are like my children. That is not to say I treat them like children.

I do not believe Reggin. I do not believe the Reggin the dog should have had that happen to him. Ive seen enough of Chaz to know that when a member needs help, someone will help them. Out of the goodness of their hearts. So, to have this thrown in the faces of everyone here, over and over again because Reggin the poster feels some need to "get it all out" is disgusting. I believe this is just her asking for a pity party. That's what all of these threads turn into.

Members feel betrayed because she had a chance to help that poor dog and no matter what anyone says she blew it. She blew it big time. That's what this all amounts to. She made terrible decisions in regards to a being who was in her care, and who had no other options. Reggin the dog didn't get a choice. He didn't even get a chance at the end. So for it to be brought up again and again is a slap in the face.

No matter what everyone who is defending her and saying "you don't know what she was going through!!" "YOU don't have children so you can't know", that's bull. Having someone dependent on you is a responsibility of the largest kind. Whether that someone is a dog or a child you are still responsible. The only difference is you can't dump your child at the shelter when things get tough.

 

[Southpaw]

Excuse me, if you are referring to me as nitpicking regarding dates. She has returned and stated her reasons for her actions were due to time issues. This is untrue - very simple. If you wish to ignore the dates then feel free to believe this new version. Her initial post is not honest. If she wishes to clear matters up, please keep the facts straight. They cannot be changed to absolve guilt.

The thread you posted/quoted from was at the end of January. She was NOT looking to place Reggin with someone when she posted that. Yes, it was noted that Chaz would help if she needed a place for him--but she didn't at that time. It was almost a month later when she posted that she needed to get Reggin somewhere and it was two DAYS later when she needed him out of there. I don't think any transport had been set in stone at that point. I can TOTALLY understand why she did what she did and felt that she needed to.

If I needed to get my dogs somewhere I would NOT think to come here and ask for help. I would like to think that doesn't make me a bad person.

 

[Laurelin]

Hasn't this already been hashed and rehashed? *sigh*

I think Reggin knows what she did was wrong and knows how everyone feels about it. If you don't like something, don't post on it. Don't just wait for her to mess up and jump on the opportunity to rehash this whole incident again. I really don't see a reason to talk about it anymore. If people can't move on then it's a reflection on THEM.

Reggin, some of us do care about you and your girls and all of your well-being. Please take care of yourself.

 

[adojrts]

Ado, Im 16,I support MY dog.

Yea, Im 16, this happened before I was a member, But guess what, THE THREADS ARE STILL HERE! I can read, Just because I read it 2-3 months after it originally happened Doesnt mean the info changed does it?

I might be a normal teenager and *gasp* Still living at home. But im not stupid. I know how life works. I understand that times can be tough for people. But she Got herself AND her child in a better situation by going to live with her mother. Now that they were taken care of couldnt she have I duno, Saved her dog?

But Correct me if Im wrong, Didnt she bring home a new puppy in this situation?

Oh, so what if you didn't have a roof over your head all of sudden? Didn't have someone paying for your living expenses? Or could you make arrangements without the aid of anyone to pay for a vet bill that was thousands????

You too seem to be missing the point.

 

[babymomma]

Well said Charlie dog, Well said. That pretty much says it all.

 

[smkie]

See, thats the thing, She has posted a few threads lately and I havent seen any snide or rude remarks. I know for a fact that the people here Who strongly dislike this woman juhst stay out of her threads. Because It has HURT people here, maybe just as much as she claims it hurts her. I dont post in most of her threads. Because I dont like her.. Im sure People here dont like me But I dont givva Cr@p.. Im not going to start a thread for the people that DO like me to Pity me.. Did she think this thread wasnt going to go in a Bad direction? Maybe she wanted that I dunno.. She might like the drama.

Yes people were moving on and letting her move on as well. I read those threads and thought at least there was that. But this thread brought it all back and i have to wonder why Reggin didn't let it rest. THere is no point to hashing or rehashing what could have been done. It wasn't for whatever reasons. But this thread, it sure stirred the pot. I will neither condone nor condemn but i would suggest not starting something like this again. Feelings will not change and it is drama that i don't believe anyone feels good about.

 

[scob89]

Yeah and that would my point, in case you missed it.

Let's see then, I pay all of my own bills, ges transport, fix my own cars, I recently had to sell one of my project cars to pay for an unexpected vet bill, but that was all sorted out already. Since I am living on campus, I can not keep Brenna with me, I knew about this months ahead of the time and made arrangements, I am having lots of stress in my life right now too, but always seems to make good decisions. Right now I am home for the weekend, Brenna up on my bed right now, When I am over in the dorm rooms, She is at the shelter, Because I know I can't trust my parents with her. Even tho I am not feeding her and such, I am still paying for her food and vet bills. In the middle of the week I sometimes drive out to see her and take her for a ride. Sometimes I bring her to the dorm room to spend the night, I am not suppose to do this, but the housing staff knows about it and told me it was ok every once in awhile due to her laid back nature.

Life death situations, you want to hear about that you PM me because I'm not going to start a bashing spree and I will tell you what I do to protect my Baby.

 

[Island dog]

This is ridiculous. This thread should never have been started. What was the motivation? I wish one of the mods would close it.

 

[babymomma]

Agreed ID.. Things were going good. Not perfect mind you, but good. I didnt see any bad remarks towards her. She left for a few months, she came back, And unless there were PM's sent to her nothing Was said to her. I could understand if she started this thread Months ago. If there were PM's sent to her, She could have replyed with her "explanation" and left it at that.

 

[smkie]

I don't know if it needs locked or not. I will leave it up to another mod to decide. REggin stated how she felt about her decisions. I think people have a right to move on, or state their own one way or the other. Personally..i am moving on.

 

[adojrts]

Members feel betrayed because she had a chance to help that poor dog and no matter what anyone says she blew it. She blew it big time. That's what this all amounts to. She made terrible decisions in regards to a being who was in her care, and who had no other options. Reggin the dog didn't get a choice. He didn't even get a chance at the end. So for it to be brought up again and again is a slap in the face.

No matter what everyone who is defending her and saying "you don't know what she was going through!!" "YOU don't have children so you can't know", that's bull. Having someone dependent on you is a responsibility of the largest kind. Whether that someone is a dog or a child you are still responsible. The only difference is you can't dump your child at the shelter when things get tough.

Agreed she blew it, I don't think anyone would disagree with that, she made a huge mistake. And maybe it is a call for a pityparty, I don't know. I don't know her, can't say I like her because I don't know her well enough. And I certainly don't condomn what happened. But I still believe that none of us would know what we would do, if we were her and her situation. Personally I would have never put myself there in the first place.........but that is me.

As for people not being able to dump their kids...........its done all the time. Kids get dumped at school, on the corner, at Child services and fire stations etc. So the only difference is when dumping a child, there is little risk in the modern world of that child being pts, in some parts of the world that is a different story but that doesn't change the fact and some people still do it.

I sincerely hope that she makes better choices in her life, that she has learned from the mistakes and she is proactive about her life and the direction that she can make it go in.

 

[Laurelin]

Agreed she blew it, I don't think anyone would disagree with that, she made a huge mistake. And maybe it is a call for a pityparty, I don't know. I don't know her, can't say I like her because I don't know her well enough. And I certainly don't condomn what happened. But I still believe that none of us would know what we would do, if we were her and her situation. Personally I would have never put myself there in the first place.........but that is me.

As for people not being able to dump their kids...........its done all the time. Kids get dumped at school, on the corner, at Child services and fire stations etc. So the only difference is when dumping a child, there is little risk in the modern world of that child being pts, in some parts of the world that is a different story but that doesn't change the fact and some people still do it.

I sincerely hope that she makes better choices in her life, that she has learned from the mistakes and she is proactive about her life and the direction that she can make it go in.

You honestly summed up my thoughts perfectly on everything.

There is no point in focusing on the past. I hope she does better for herself in the future.