I want to move

[SarahFair]

I just wrote down all my thoughts on a piece of paper. I might blog it on myspace idk...
(a little graphic for chaz...and not like youre thinking you dirty minded folks! lol)

I just get ONE life and ONE life only. Why live it trying to make everyone around me happy while Im sitting in a pit of unhappy sludge????

I want to move where I have always wanted to live...
Montana...or wyoming.
Somewhere so close to Yellowstone I can throw a stone...
Even if no one supports my decision. Its MY life MY MY MY MY MY MY MY MY ONLY life.
ONE
Why not live it how I want??????????????????!?!?!?!?!?!?!?!?!?!?!??!?!?!?!?!

People pick up and move all the time...right??

 

[milos_mommy]

You need to weigh the pros and cons. Would Kyle follow you to Montana? What about family? Finances? etc.

You are right, you only get one life, that I know of. You need to do what you want during that time.

 

[Dizzy]

Absolutely.

One life.

Live it But... bear in mind, it's not fun unless you're surrounded by happy people.

 

[zoe08]

You do only get one life. But you are now responsible for two other lives beside your own. So now you have to live your life doing what is best for them. No matter what you want to do, you have to put your children first.

 

[smkie]

I have to be happy with where i am and what i have, it would serve no purpose to think otherwise. AS long as my mother is living, missouri is where i stay. AFter she is gone i think if there is anyway at all i am going to flagstaff Arizona.

 

[SarahFair]

Oh I mean I understand that.
I want whats best for them but I have to also think about making myself happy. Cause if Im not happy with myself I dont see how that is going to make them learn to be happy with themselves

 

[smkie]

My mama has said things to me like...home is where you hang your hat...i hear you tho, i have no idea why anyone would live where i live when they could be close to the sea, or whatever it is they love. Did you ever plant your sunflowers?

 

[aivzdog]

Thats true about its your life and all that.
But think about the people who love you would think.
Just think about it for awhile.
Anna

 

[zoe08]

The thing is that if you are unhappy there, just moving probably isn't going to be what makes you happy. Think very seriously about what is making you unhappy. Is it really where you live? Because sometimes people think something will make them happy, but then they get it and then just move onto wanting something else and are still unhappy.

So I think first you have to be learn to be happy with who you are. And you are who you are, no matter where you live. Moving isn't going to change that. I am not a mother, so I can't understand how you can be so unhappy when you have 2 beautiful children. Because I know nothing cheers me up more than seeing my 6 month old nephew.

 

[Island dog]

I just wrote down all my thoughts on a piece of paper. I might blog it on myspace idk...
(a little graphic for chaz...and not like youre thinking you dirty minded folks! lol)

I just get ONE life and ONE life only. Why live it trying to make everyone around me happy while Im sitting in a pit of unhappy sludge????

I want to move where I have always wanted to live...
Montana...or wyoming.
Somewhere so close to Yellowstone I can throw a stone...
Even if no one supports my decision. Its MY life MY MY MY MY MY MY MY MY ONLY life.
ONE
Why not live it how I want??????????????????!?!?!?!?!?!?!?!?!?!?!??!?!?!?!?!

People pick up and move all the time...right??

Absolutely, but the decisions must be made right now as to what is the best choice for the children now and in the years to come. Until they are on their own, you have to always consider what is best with them in mind. Hopefully, everyone will be happy with the choice. Just make it for the right reasons and I wish you the best of luck - make wise choices for your children and yourself - not based on what people might think, and have a wonderful life.

 

[HoundedByHounds]

I moved where we are now..for my kiddos. The school system in particular. My last decision as a single unattached person was to always consider my husband and my children along with myself...and in most cases...before myself where the kiddos are concerned.

That's actually made me a much happier person...lessening my thoughts from a "me" perspective. I will have fun when I retire and they're grown and off doing their own thing.

 

[Samantha's pet]

You dont want to move near yellowestone. Theres that huge volcano w/ tons of pressure on it. Its supposedly way overdue for an eruption and if it blows it will destroy miles and miles of everything around it and supposedly cause the equivalent of a nuclear winter.

Theres some arguement as to whether or not it will erupt anytime soon but why risk it? I dont want to be anywhere near it, lol.

Its on the show "The Last Days" Its about 7 ways the world could end any minute......thats one of them.

My reasoning is that we could just cause more global warming and even it out. Who's w/ me?

 

[SarahFair]

Did you ever plant your sunflowers?

Nope I could never get kyle to get the ground tilled up. I would have done it myself but I cant operate the loader. I woulda taught myself but Kyle said it will tear the yard up easy if you dont know what youre doing...

You dont want to move near yellowestone. Theres that huge volcano w/ tons of pressure on it. Its supposedly way overdue for an eruption and if it blows it will destroy miles and miles of everything around it and supposedly cause the equivalent of a nuclear winter.

Ahhh! I shall keep that in mind! Plus I was looking at real estate up there and talk about HIGH! lol


I deff want to move before I put the kiddies in school cause they arent the best around.
I just want to live some place beautiful. Maybe the north ga mountains or Tenn mountains. I want to stay close to family for sure. Yellow Stone (I have never been there) just seems so beautiful to me.

I am trying to become a happier person...today I feel great. When I wrote all that stuff down I felt like I released alot of anger out of me (sounds lame but thats how it went..)

It just sucks having to look at a neighbors yard that is almost as tall as I am to my front and left and then 8 dogs being neglected to my front left...
We plan to sell when the market gets better and I hope that is some time soon!