I got kissed by a girl today
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firstly...your not into girls, fine...obvisouly this girl is...and mabe she wasnt aware that you wernt...a little liquid courage and she kissed you...
is it HONESTLY that much of a big deal, you told her "im not into girls" and she apologized and then as any normal embarrased person would...blamed it on the mikes...
personally i woudlnt give it 2 thoughts...
i do feel she was out of line trying to full on make out with you, that was overbearing rude and gives all us "girl kissers" a bad name, however the simple act of the kiss doesnt nessicarily mean shes going to try and rape you next time she sees you. i dont think you need to be nearly as on defense (not being around her) as you seem to think you need to be...if your uncomfortable around her, just dont be alone with her.
id relax about it..next time you see her just say "hope no bad feelings right? im just not into girls" to make sure you hammer the fact home and make sure she gets it.
but i very much doubt your at risk of it happening again...some people are exceptionally bad at reading someones body language and she prolly just picked up the wrong signals...
and while it might take lots of alc to get hammerd, it doesnt take much mikes to screw up the signals and give you the courage to make a move...
a bold move, bolder than i could ever be...but a move none the less...
relax and TAKE IT AS A COMPLIMENT lol...girls are shallow...especially about other girls...so you must be hott!
is it HONESTLY that much of a big deal, you told her "im not into girls" and she apologized and then as any normal embarrased person would...blamed it on the mikes...
personally i woudlnt give it 2 thoughts...
i do feel she was out of line trying to full on make out with you, that was overbearing rude and gives all us "girl kissers" a bad name, however the simple act of the kiss doesnt nessicarily mean shes going to try and rape you next time she sees you. i dont think you need to be nearly as on defense (not being around her) as you seem to think you need to be...if your uncomfortable around her, just dont be alone with her.
id relax about it..next time you see her just say "hope no bad feelings right? im just not into girls" to make sure you hammer the fact home and make sure she gets it.
but i very much doubt your at risk of it happening again...some people are exceptionally bad at reading someones body language and she prolly just picked up the wrong signals...
and while it might take lots of alc to get hammerd, it doesnt take much mikes to screw up the signals and give you the courage to make a move...
a bold move, bolder than i could ever be...but a move none the less...
relax and TAKE IT AS A COMPLIMENT lol...girls are shallow...especially about other girls...so you must be hott!
I wouldn't think too much into it either...
She could wind up being a really good friend.
If you feel comfortable and able to talk about it with her, then do... But you can always play the "it never happened" route.
She might need someone to talk to... she has a BF and may be confused.
That being said, she might just like men and women and was trying it on.
It's your call at the end of the day.
I have a friend (male) who was being a bit.. over friendly after a few drinks the other night. I HAMMERED home - "we're JUST friends ok"... I would never cut his friendship out though, he's a good friend. Just got a bit drunk and loved up. He also has a GF (who I believe he loves alot).
You know the context, and you will do what you feel comfortable with at the end of the day.
She could wind up being a really good friend.
If you feel comfortable and able to talk about it with her, then do... But you can always play the "it never happened" route.
She might need someone to talk to... she has a BF and may be confused.
That being said, she might just like men and women and was trying it on.
It's your call at the end of the day.
I have a friend (male) who was being a bit.. over friendly after a few drinks the other night. I HAMMERED home - "we're JUST friends ok"... I would never cut his friendship out though, he's a good friend. Just got a bit drunk and loved up. He also has a GF (who I believe he loves alot).
You know the context, and you will do what you feel comfortable with at the end of the day.
This is normal in the crowd I hangout with so I'm use to just shrugging it off. I mean you don't have to be buddies with her but she might turn out to be a good friend. Yeah it's awkward but it's also not really a big deal. She kissed you, said sorry, and so long asi t doesn't happen again it shouldn't pose as a problem.
That being said if it makes you uncomfortable you don't have to hangout with her.
That being said if it makes you uncomfortable you don't have to hangout with her.
I was thinking the same thing grammy. There are a few close and special friends, one being a girl, that i give pecks on the lips to. Nothin more than just that. And just for the record, no I'm not into girls either. :lol-sign: That's just me.
I think she was a little outta line but it could have been miscommuncation. Drinking does things to people too that they normally wouldn't do sober. I know that from experience. LOL. But if you told her you were not into girls and uncomfortable with it, I'd keep my distance for a few days. Maybe it was the Mikes, which by the way are very good! Maybe you gave her some little signal. There's a lot of things that could have caused her to act that way. But if it was just a misunderstanding, I wouldn't hold it against her. If you really wanna be her friend, give it another go. If the same thing happens again, you might have an issue.
I so badly want to jump in on this one too, but everyone has pretty much already said what I probably would have said. I've had it happen to me before too and the next day the girl wrote me a note saying she was sorry, but wanted to confess her long time crush on me. I had to tell her like it is, "I'm not into girls... or as the saying sometimes goes, I'm strictly dickly." (sorry couldn't resist)...hahaha! Hope you sort out all this mess. Honestly, sometimes if you bring it up to the person again it makes things even more akward. I would reserve further confrontation unless she tries anything else. That's just my opinion
well I ran into her today and she was just friendly as usual and acted like it never happened, so I'm assuming that's how she wants it to stay.
I think I just won't trust me and her to drink alone again though, atleast for awhile. I don't want to stop being friends with her because she is one of the only girl friends that I have around here and she is really nice. So I'll just sort of act like it never happened and only hang out in groups or in none alcohol related functions.
I think I just won't trust me and her to drink alone again though, atleast for awhile. I don't want to stop being friends with her because she is one of the only girl friends that I have around here and she is really nice. So I'll just sort of act like it never happened and only hang out in groups or in none alcohol related functions.