I got kissed by a girl today

[juliefurry]

I have started a friendship with our neighbor's new girlfriend. Tonight she asked if I wanted to have a few drinks with her. I was just sitting around watching rock of love (Brett is SO hot by the way).

Anyway we were just sitting around talking about Brett and having a couple drinks and she leaned in and kissed me:yikes: ! I mean not like a little peck on the cheek either it was a full out attempting to make out with me!!!

I don't know how to face her again it was sort of...odd for me because I'm not into girls. I finished up our drinks and watching Rock of Love and she left when her boyfriend came back. Do I chalk it up to her having to much to drink or do I try to address her about it?

 

[blue]

Seriously, tell her it was out of line, smacking her and pulling her hair will only lead her to think you want her.

 

[yoko]

honestly... in this situation i'm not sure how close youa re to your neighbor. chalk it up to too much to drink. i wouldn't say anything unless she did it again or brought it up herself. unles you are way offended by it then take her aside and talk to her

 

[showpug]

I wouldn't associate with her again. Too much to drink or not, it's out of line IMO.

 

[juliefurry]

Seriously, tell her it was out of line, smacking her and pulling her hair will only lead her to think you want her.

Oh my god too hilarious! I just froze so she could sort of tell I wasn't feeling her. I did apologize and told her I wasn't into girls and she started laughing and apologized to me. I'm hoping it was just too much to drink because she's a very nice girl and I would hate to lose her as a friend (but don't want her as a friends with benefits type friend).

 

[DoggyDaze]

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Ditto

 

[juliefurry]

I wouldn't associate with her again. Too much to drink or not, it's out of line IMO.

yeah I thought out of line too but I was wondering if maybe she was trying to "prove" something by saying "oh I kissed a girl before."

I don't know I think I will stay clear for awhile atleast. I'm going to talk to our neighbor and let him know that I'm not mad at him but just thought that maybe his girlfriend was getting the wrong impression of me.

 

[blue]

Mebey your neighbor and GF where testing you out as a swinger?

 

[daaqa]

isn't it still her cheating on him, even if it's a girl she kissed? would it have been okay if she did so with a guy?

 

[juliefurry]

Mebey your neighbor and GF where testing you out as a swinger?

oh god I hope not!

isn't it still her cheating on him, even if it's a girl she kissed? would it have been okay if she did so with a guy?

I think it's still cheating regardless of what you do with anyone. I would never attempt to kiss, or touch inappopriately, another guy, girl, or hermapradite (sp?). When you decide to date/marry someone that is it you are with that person you don't do anything with anyone else.

 

[Zoom]

That depends on her hubby's view of things...

It sounds like you made things clear with the girl, but even so, I would stay clear for a bit and let it all just blow over. And then don't have drinks alone with her again.

 

[Doberluv]

I wouldn't associate with her again. Too much to drink or not, it's out of line IMO.

I whole heartedly agree.

 

[Laurelin]

I agree with showpug for the most part. I'd definitely let her know that I thought it was out of line and it was not appreciated. Especially if she was a person I just met.

Talk about awkward...

 

[blue]

That depends on her hubby's view of things...

It sounds like you made things clear with the girl, but even so, I would stay clear for a bit and let it all just blow over. And then don't have drinks alone with her again.

Would you get a referal fee if they went to a Passion Party near them if they used you as the referee?

 

[juliefurry]

Would you get a referal fee if they went to a Passion Party near them if they used you as the referee?

wow passion parties!!! Are those the parties with all the toys and stuff??? I was invited to one of those and never went.

I talked to Mark and he said to stay clear of her for awhile atleast because he's not too sure about her now. He said I have plenty of friends that are girls that he'd feel a lot safer with me hanging out with.

 

[Zoom]

I'm now a consultant with them, Julie.

Blue, since we don't really encourage that type of behavior at the parties, I couldn't really say. We're about keeping it fun, professional and educational, not raunchy.

 

[GlassOnion]

Wait whoa slow down there. You've yet to reach the full scope of the situation, the true underlying reasons, the heart of the event...

Was she hot? Ask Mark to judge if you don't feel you're qualified.

 

[blue]

I'm now a consultant with them, Julie.

Blue, since we don't really encourage that type of behavior at the parties, I couldn't really say. We're about keeping it fun, professional and educational, not raunchy.

Not saying you would condone such behavior at a PP event, but would you get something on the backend if you referred them to another rep?

 

[jess2416]

I would have punched her in the mouth..

 

[blue]

I would have punched her in the mouth..

With your tounge?