How old were you?

[noludoru]

Erm...yea...'bout that...

I sense some evasion there, Lauren... LOL

Well, Vivien, I don't think you need to feel bad. I am older than you and have had nothing. No kiss, no boyfriend, etc etc, and I haven't died from lack of overenthusiastic hormonal boy slobber yet, so I'm sure you'll be fine.

But then again I never wanted any of that... and generally flip out when anyone of either sex gets too close for comfort or touches me... so maybe there's a reason no one's ever tried.

Maxy, your friends are SCARY. Having sex at 15? I mean, I know plenty of kids do it younger.. but yikes. Maybe I'm too conservative, but that's just way too young to be responsible enough to make good choices... I totally agree with what PW said.

 

[noludoru]

Sis, any guy would be pretty **** lucky to have you. Well, and Teenie and Wally.. they come with.

 

[Vivien]

LOL SisM nice term for yourself ..not! I am sure the right person will come along for you eventually!

And Lmao at

Ask them if they're pregnant yet, when they say no be like, "Are you Serious?!?" lol

 

[SisMorphine]

I'm not saying that the good ones haven't come along. But when they did come along I was too much of a young idiot to realize it and preferred to play the field . . . and now that I am ready to settle down I've let myself go . . . so I'm not comfortable with myself and therefore no one is comfortable with me. Plus my flub is pretty gross. I wouldn't date me for money.

Self esteem is key in finding someone to date. If you don't love yourself no one else can love you either . . . and you can't allow yourself to be loved. Thems the rules.

 

[PWCorgi]

I sense some evasion there, Lauren... LOL

The truth is that I just didn't want to make everybody else feel inferior, but if you must know...this is who I had my first kiss with...
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Ahhh, sweet perfection.

*frowns* Whaddya mean posters don't count?!?! Dreams don't count either?!?! Well that's a load of bull! *stomps off*

 

[SisMorphine]

Sis, any guy would be pretty **** lucky to have you. Well, and Teenie and Wally.. they come with.

Oh my god, finding a guy who likes dogs even 1/4 as much as I do has been IMPOSSIBLE!

 

[ToscasMom]

Sis, we've all let a few good ones get away. It's part of your growth. You really shouldn't beat yourself up about it. But you are very right about one thing. The only happy relationship there is is one where two already happy people get together.

 

[PWCorgi]

Sis, any guy would be pretty **** lucky to have you. Well, and Teenie and Wally.. they come with.

And the jokes, can't forget the wonderful (yet very, very twisted) sense of humor, lol.

Oh my god, finding a guy who likes dogs even 1/4 as much as I do has been IMPOSSIBLE!

I totally agree!! 150%!

 

[PWCorgi]

... I totally agree with what PW said.

Of course you do, after all I *am* a freakin genius!

 

[Renee750il]

I had the same boyfriend all thru High School though. But we were both dumb as bricks. lol. It was really kind of platonic in so many ways, but we were seen as each other's and we were comfortable with it. I dumped him in senior year for an "older man". I was 18 and the guy was 21. Woot! Did I ever wake up then! Laughing here. My HS boyfriend and I are still good buddies today though. He recently lost his wife at a far too young age and I am glad our friendship has spanned the years so I could help out.

So, does he like pizza?

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Does the six year old who used to chase me and try to kiss me when I was four count? ICK ICK ICK ICK ICK!

I guess the first "serious" one was when I was 13 - he was 17. Yah, that first kiss was pretty electric, lol . . . but so is everything when you're 13 and have overly precocious hormones running rampant.

 

[noludoru]

You kissed a poster. You can't be that smart.

 

[noludoru]

Good god, Renee. 17!?!?!?!?! If I was your mother you would have been grounded for life.... and given a large amount of pepper spray.

 

[Renee750il]

Oh, she tried, Nolu . . . she tried . . . after she found out

 

[noludoru]

Years later, right?

 

[PWCorgi]

I guess the first "serious" one was when I was 13 - he was 17. Yah, that first kiss was pretty electric, lol . . . but so is everything when you're 13 and have overly precocious hormones running rampant.

Eek! I'd have been locked in a closet and the bf would have *mysteriously* disappeared, lol.


My sister lost her virginity to a 17 year old when she was 13, and babysitting. See what I have to live up too? No wonder they all think I'm a lesbian!

 

[PWCorgi]

You kissed a poster. You can't be that smart.

*growls*

 

[Renee750il]

Years later, right?

No . . . . we were still seeing each other . . . man, was she ever pissed!

But if she hadn't made such a big deal about it, it probably never would have become that big a deal. But my mother has never been known for having any kind of rational workings of the mind.

You know how they say that after you reach a certain age you suddenly realize that your parents were pretty smart?

Well, I'm way past that age and the longer I live the more apparent it is to me that my mother is a complete idiot when it comes to me.

 

[Buddy'sParents]

When you had our first boyfriend?

First 'real' boyfriend at 15. Maybe it was 16, no wait, 15. Ack, I don't know. Started early in high school.

First Kiss?

15.

How long did it last (the relationship, not the kiss)?

6 years.

Are you still friends with them?

Erm. I can't say yes and I can't say no. We didn't talk for about a year or so after the "final" breakup and everything that had happened. But even then it was awkward. We talk somewhat on myspace to see how the other is doing, but we're not nearly as close of friends as we used to be. He's married now with an adorable baby boy and I wish him all the best. /hallmark card

Were they your crush at the time or did you just say yes?

To be honest, I'd never even considered him. Well, in 8th grade I asked him to the 8th grade dance and he said no, so I wrote him off. HAHA. But then he had a mutual friend come up and tell me that he liked me when we were in high school. Oh Gawd. So don't miss high school, rofl. I said something like I wanted to get to know him better before I said anything and well, that was that. We spent the next 6 years on and off (mostly on).

I'm 16 and feel so behind in the game. I have never had a boyfriend and am not in a rush at all but it still feels like everyone around me has a guy whereas I'm single. People keep asking me why', but I don't have an answer, am i supposed to have one?

I really don't think you should feel behind in the game AT ALL. Young love is great when it happens, but it's not something that should be forced, etc.. When a dude that comes along that is worth your time and the love you have to offer, then you'll know and you'll go for it.

I'm just curious about all you Chazzers.Most of you probably don't even remember jk

Hey! *pouts* I'm not that old, yet!

And, to add- I wouldn't change a thing. In the end, I was pretty hurt, but I had hurt him as well (without meaning to). If he hadn't walked away from us, and done what he did, who knows where we would be now. BUT, I am so grateful that he did, because my husband rocks and I can't imagine my life any different. /sappy moment

 

[TheWonderPuppies]

First bf:14
first kiss :15
Howq long did you last: 3years
still friends:we lost contact over the years with all of my moving

 

[dojo]

First kiss: 16 years old. First BF at 17. First time ... almost 20 (and he waited that long ) We were together for 3 years and a half, still pals, even if we don't see each other.