my dear girl and i have been together almost 16 years now. you would think i should know when its time to let her go. why am i so unsure? my heart is breaking.
my old friend is tired and hurting, i know that. what is best for her? she is lost and confused so much of the time (mostly deaf & blind, some arthritis and some dementia). she does still enjoy a good massage (don't we all) but she just can't enjoy the simple things that used to make her happy...no more hanging out on the couch, no walks or rides in the car....even going out to potty is so hard on her now..she has to be carried. if/when she falls, she just doesn't have the strength to get back up. she sometimes just paces or walks in circles...is she telling me something or is she just as confused as i am?
she occasionally finds her way to the door to greet me when i come home. i can't imagine her not being there...am i just being selfish to keep her here with me?
i really want to do whats best for her. is it time? is it even my decision to make?....i sometimes wish that the powers that be would take her in her sleep...let her go in peace...but how long should she continue like this?
she has been in my life longer than 2 of my children....this is so dam* hard! shes been an incredible friend and i just want to do right by her.
any advice would be great.
thanks.
my old friend is tired and hurting, i know that. what is best for her? she is lost and confused so much of the time (mostly deaf & blind, some arthritis and some dementia). she does still enjoy a good massage (don't we all) but she just can't enjoy the simple things that used to make her happy...no more hanging out on the couch, no walks or rides in the car....even going out to potty is so hard on her now..she has to be carried. if/when she falls, she just doesn't have the strength to get back up. she sometimes just paces or walks in circles...is she telling me something or is she just as confused as i am?
she occasionally finds her way to the door to greet me when i come home. i can't imagine her not being there...am i just being selfish to keep her here with me?
i really want to do whats best for her. is it time? is it even my decision to make?....i sometimes wish that the powers that be would take her in her sleep...let her go in peace...but how long should she continue like this?
she has been in my life longer than 2 of my children....this is so dam* hard! shes been an incredible friend and i just want to do right by her.
any advice would be great.
thanks.