My dad is 62, and has developed a pronounced "old man" smell. He is living with my aunt and having some health issues so he's not currently working. His room wreaks of old man, and my aunt said that he has not been showering daily--he will sometimes go nearly a week without showering. Also, he often doesn't wear clean clothes daily. She also claims he's not brushing his teeth daily, and he's a smoker.
Now, they live in a condo and the washer, dryer, and shower are not 15 ft from his bedroom door. He can easily walk around and wash himself. He'll shower when he has a doctor appointment, and if I'm visiting, but otherwise not so much.
This seems to be causing arguments in the household. My aunt told me this evening (I'm down here visiting), that in their most recent argument about his "old man smell" dad told her that it was no wonder nobody ever wanted to marry her with how much she tells him he stinks.
She really wants me to talk to him about his hygiene but I have no idea how. I did offer to clean his room too to bottom tomorrow and do my damnedest to get rid of the odor, but if he doesn't keep himself clean that's not going to last long.
Help? How do I do this? I don't want to humiliate dad, but he needs to take proper care of himself.
Now, they live in a condo and the washer, dryer, and shower are not 15 ft from his bedroom door. He can easily walk around and wash himself. He'll shower when he has a doctor appointment, and if I'm visiting, but otherwise not so much.
This seems to be causing arguments in the household. My aunt told me this evening (I'm down here visiting), that in their most recent argument about his "old man smell" dad told her that it was no wonder nobody ever wanted to marry her with how much she tells him he stinks.
She really wants me to talk to him about his hygiene but I have no idea how. I did offer to clean his room too to bottom tomorrow and do my damnedest to get rid of the odor, but if he doesn't keep himself clean that's not going to last long.
Help? How do I do this? I don't want to humiliate dad, but he needs to take proper care of himself.